You're an incredibly sweet woman, thankyou. Yes I know the real work has to come from me. I'm starting off well I think, I've already ignored 2 calls from him.
My exhusband and I have been divorced for years. Now he wants to get back into a physical relationship with me, while trying to begin a relationship with another woman and then decide which one of us he wants to be with. I don't want to be treated that way, but it's so hard being alone all the time. How do I remind myself that's not what I want, and not hurt anyone's feelings? I have been in that situation before but I was the other woman while the man was sleeping with his exwife and trying to get me involved with him. I was very hurt then, especially after I found out he was doing the same thing to other women at the same time!
RE: Amount of Time from Initial meeting to making love?
A minimum of 6 weeks for me.