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Sep 22, 2008 2:39 PM CST Smoking
Steveo54
Steveo54Steveo54Floral Park, New York USA2 Threads 20 Posts
Alrite, I really can't stand smokers, i think its disgusting that some people treat their bodies like that, but i do know its very addicting and really and really hard to quit

but do you think its unfair to completely shut someone down solely on that fact or do you think its reasonable?
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Sep 22, 2008 2:42 PM CST Smoking
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA10 Threads 6,074 Posts
Steveo54: Alrite, I really can't stand smokers, i think its disgusting that some people treat their bodies like that, but i do know its very addicting and really and really hard to quit

but do you think its unfair to completely shut someone down solely on that fact or do you think its reasonable?


To each their own...
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Sep 22, 2008 2:45 PM CST Smoking
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA97 Threads 3,240 Posts
well if you don't like smokers then no it is not unfair to shut them down or say no I don't want a relationship with you, if that is what you ment by your question.


















mumbling stupid voices
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Sep 22, 2008 2:47 PM CST Smoking
Steveo54
Steveo54Steveo54Floral Park, New York USA2 Threads 20 Posts
yeah that is what i meant, sorry if i wasnt clear and thanks 4 the input
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Sep 22, 2008 2:47 PM CST Smoking
simpleone
simpleonesimpleoneArkansas, USA3 Threads 74 Posts
I smoke albeit I am wanting to quit. But if you simply cannot abide smokers then no you are not being unfair by shooting them down.handshake
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Sep 22, 2008 2:49 PM CST Smoking
Ecoprincess
EcoprincessEcoprincessSligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland65 Threads 3 Polls 2,140 Posts
moping Damn thought this thread was about smoking

frustrated
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Sep 22, 2008 2:50 PM CST Smoking
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 12,827 Posts
Ecoprincess: Damn thought this thread was about



laugh laugh laugh

scold scold


Hi Echo! Long time!

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Sep 22, 2008 3:10 PM CST Smoking
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA46 Threads 1 Polls 6,704 Posts
well i guess it's better than stickin needles in my arms like the good ol days Eh?laugh
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Sep 22, 2008 3:11 PM CST Smoking
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
Steveo54: Alrite, I really can't stand smokers, i think its disgusting that some people treat their bodies like that, but i do know its very addicting and really and really hard to quit

but do you think its unfair to completely shut someone down solely on that fact or do you think its reasonable?





I smoke and if people don't like it....stay away from me! But you have every right to turn away people with undesirable traits!!
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Sep 22, 2008 3:21 PM CST Smoking
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaIbiza, Balearic Islands Spain133 Threads 6 Polls 7,679 Posts
Steveo54: Alrite, I really can't stand smokers, i think its disgusting that some people treat their bodies like that, but i do know its very addicting and really and really hard to quit

but do you think its unfair to completely shut someone down solely on that fact or do you think its reasonable?



.... and some of us just plain enjoy it.... but think of all the undesirable traits you unwittingly let into your life... because this undesirable trait is easily seen you cut people off without ever getting to know them and it´s a trait that has the potential for change. You could spend three months dating someone who is a pathological liar before finding out... that isn´t so easy to change. dunno but no, I don´t think you´re wrong we all have criteria.
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Sep 22, 2008 3:29 PM CST Smoking
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK100 Threads 13,444 Posts
What really annoys me is when you tell someone you smoke and they say they are ok with it, then start to give you a hard time about it, if you feel that strongly about it fine, but don't be dishonest and say it doesn't bother you when it does !
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Sep 22, 2008 3:30 PM CST Smoking
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada81 Threads 21,310 Posts
Oh God not this thread again...

How many now...10doh
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Sep 22, 2008 3:31 PM CST Smoking
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
morgan5: What really annoys me is when you tell someone you smoke and they say they are ok with it, then start to give you a hard time about it, if you feel that strongly about it fine, but don't be dishonest and say it doesn't bother you when it does !
I know I have dated those kind too, it doesn't make any sense. Tell you it don't matter then you get with them and all they do is complain.frustrated thumbs up
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Sep 22, 2008 3:33 PM CST Smoking
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK100 Threads 13,444 Posts
mylifewithu: I know I have dated those kind too, it doesn't make any sense. Tell you it don't matter then you get with them and all they do is complain.
yep if you are honest from the outset really can't see how they have the nerve confused
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Sep 22, 2008 3:33 PM CST Smoking
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada81 Threads 21,310 Posts
morgan5: What really annoys me is when you tell someone you smoke and they say they are ok with it, then start to give you a hard time about it, if you feel that strongly about it fine, but don't be dishonest and say it doesn't bother you when it does !


I smoked at 16 and quit at 26....cold turkey...

My fiance smokes..dont bother me...

but would help him quit if he so likes..

Which he does...

But he can smoke anytime he wish..

Its up to him...

I still love him dearly...

I have family also who smokes..dont change anything how i feel
about anyone that does smoke..

EACH TO THEIR OWN
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Sep 22, 2008 3:34 PM CST Smoking
Personally, I would never date a smoker.
To each their own however.
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Sep 22, 2008 3:36 PM CST Smoking
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
morgan5: yep if you are honest from the outset really can't see how they have the nerve
Right and funny I always post I am a full time smoker, not ocassionally or anything. I even tell them before dating in case they miss it on my profile. I am honest all they need to do is be honest and say if you occassionally smoke and go out side then maybe it will be ok.rolling on the floor laughing smoking smoking laugh
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Sep 22, 2008 3:37 PM CST Smoking
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK100 Threads 13,444 Posts
kissmedeeply: I smoked at 16 and quit at 26....cold turkey...

My fiance smokes..dont bother me...

but would help him quit if he so likes..

Which he does...

But he can smoke anytime he wish..

Its up to him...

I still love him dearly...

I have family also who smokes..dont change anything how i feel
about anyone that does smoke..

EACH TO THEIR OWN
hi joanne hug can understand if people don't like it, but stupid to get involved then try to inflicit your preferences , you love eric for who is is thats great
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Sep 22, 2008 3:37 PM CST Smoking
Ecoprincess
EcoprincessEcoprincessSligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland65 Threads 3 Polls 2,140 Posts
WhatUwish4: Hi Echo! Long time!


Hey honey, been a little busy in Kiwi country back home now.

How you doing? any hot blokes around?
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Sep 22, 2008 3:38 PM CST Smoking
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada81 Threads 21,310 Posts
morgan5: hi joanne can understand if people don't like it, but stupid to get involved then try to inflicit your preferences , you love eric for who is is thats great


Yes i wouldnt tell someone to quit...

He/people will do it when they want..

People dont have the right to say it dont bother them..
then have relations and get all over themthumbs down
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