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Aug 21, 2008 8:59 PM CST how do u know
dad512
dad512dad512shepherdsville, Kentucky USA1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
what do u do when u r in love with someone you know is trouble but says they want to change confused
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Aug 21, 2008 9:00 PM CST how do u know
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Allow them to prove it to you....handshake
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Aug 21, 2008 9:01 PM CST how do u know
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
dad512: what do u do when u r in love with someone you know is trouble but says they want to change



Give them an opportunity to change...if not then move on....wave wink handshake
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Aug 21, 2008 9:01 PM CST how do u know
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
dad512: what do u do when u r in love with someone you know is trouble but says they want to change


Hey dude! cheers Go for it! Give them the benefit of the doubt. You can always bail if they can't fulfill.
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Aug 21, 2008 9:02 PM CST how do u know
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
dad512: what do u do when u r in love with someone you know is trouble but says they want to change


I have heard that one before..doh
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Aug 21, 2008 9:02 PM CST how do u know
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Define 'trouble' - if you wish.

wave
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Aug 21, 2008 9:02 PM CST how do u know
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
dad512: what do u do when u r in love with someone you know is trouble but says they want to change
I know this isn't what you want to here but past performance is the best predictor of future behavior. mho
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Aug 21, 2008 9:03 PM CST how do u know
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
let then prove the change first.....the reconsider
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Aug 21, 2008 9:07 PM CST how do u know
mrsmiles4444
mrsmiles4444mrsmiles4444Colonial Beach, Virginia USA26 Threads 397 Posts
HJFinAZ: I have heard that one before..


over, and over, and over, and over, again. scold
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Aug 21, 2008 9:08 PM CST how do u know
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
bob1959: I know this isn't what you want to here but past performance is the best predictor of future behavior. mho


There's your answer. People seldom change.
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Aug 21, 2008 9:09 PM CST how do u know
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
mrsmiles4444: over, and over, and over, and over, again.


Yep, this old horse has been rode hard and put away wet. More than once..jaw drop
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Aug 21, 2008 9:12 PM CST how do u know
dad512
dad512dad512shepherdsville, Kentucky USA1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
its hard to explain her situation but she has two kids w split custody but has the kids on his wk while he works {court ordered}so she only works part time to avoid day care costs and she is a great person but has a lot of other issues n her past but is very attracted to me n i'm the same w her n i have my own issues to devil but would hate to not give it a chance cause u never know but just wanted some other opinions
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Aug 21, 2008 9:14 PM CST how do u know
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
dad512: its hard to explain her situation but she has two kids w split custody but has the kids on his wk while he works {court ordered}so she only works part time to avoid day care costs and she is a great person but has a lot of other issues n her past but is very attracted to me n i'm the same w her n i have my own issues to but would hate to not give it a chance cause u never know but just wanted some other opinions


If the "issues" are in the past, they are a page in the history book.. "Turn the page"..
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Aug 21, 2008 9:14 PM CST how do u know
dad512
dad512dad512shepherdsville, Kentucky USA1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
thank u i think i hav to at least give her a chance but i hav had enough drama n my life n just kinda scared
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Aug 21, 2008 9:18 PM CST how do u know
dad512
dad512dad512shepherdsville, Kentucky USA1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
thank you to everyone i value your thoughts n experiences beer handshake
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Aug 21, 2008 9:19 PM CST how do u know
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
dad512: thank u i think i hav to at least give her a chance but i hav had enough drama n my life n just kinda scared


Another can only create drama in your life, if "YOU" allow it..
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Aug 21, 2008 9:19 PM CST how do u know
simpleone
simpleonesimpleoneArkansas, USA3 Threads 52 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Give them an opportunity to change...if not then move on....



Ditto
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Aug 21, 2008 11:01 PM CST how do u know
DatDude03
DatDude03DatDude03Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 15 Posts
Give em a chance and if they screw up, tell them to hit the road.
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Aug 21, 2008 11:02 PM CST how do u know
HJFinAZ: Another can only create drama in your life, if "YOU" allow it..



thumbs up
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Aug 22, 2008 1:10 AM CST how do u know
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
I've battled addiction issues over the last 6 years. The ultimate heartbreak is when your loved one chooses their addiction over you. Even when they know their addiction is killing them. I cannot win that battle, no matter how much I try.
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