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Jun 3, 2008 11:36 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
How do you use your past experiences?? Does it rule you, where you get upset over little stuff ? Or do you use it to better yourself? Or do you just make the next one pay for it??

I myself has grown past the little stuff , but most I meet haven't found that peace yet!!
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Jun 3, 2008 11:37 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
I don't have a past.. it is gone..
I have a brilliant future grin
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Jun 3, 2008 11:38 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
rasgumby: I don't have a past.. it is gone..
I have a brilliant future
cheering cheering Cool!!
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Jun 3, 2008 11:41 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
mylifewithu: How do you use your past experiences?? Does it rule you, where you get upset over little stuff ? Or do you use it to better yourself? Or do you just make the next one pay for it??

I myself has grown past the little stuff , but most I meet haven't found that peace yet!!


Everyday i just one day.wave cheers
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Jun 3, 2008 11:42 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
mylifewithu: How do you use your past experiences?? Does it rule you, where you get upset over little stuff ? Or do you use it to better yourself? Or do you just make the next one pay for it??

I myself has grown past the little stuff , but most I meet haven't found that peace yet!!


I'd like to think you learn from your past.

But don't think you should hold onto the bad from it you need to deal with it or it will eat you alive.

There are things I have learn't I could tolerate again in a relationship, and things I have learn't that I just won't.
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Jun 3, 2008 11:42 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
My past, good, bad and ugly, has made me what I am today-a strong, self-reliant, secure person. I don't want to forget my past, but I don't want to live in it either. I've made mistakes, but were they really mistakes, if I gained from them? No regrets here.
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Jun 3, 2008 11:43 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
friendsfirst: Everyday i just one day.


IS...You know like the Roy Orbison song.head banger


Well it's aaaaaalllllright..As long as i>>head banger

I just got home.It's all i could think of.
Give me a sec.help
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Jun 3, 2008 11:43 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I admit I never let things go. It's a defense mechanism. I've learned to protect myself from people, so they can not ever hurt me. You might say my give-a damn is busted. I love that phrase!!

These last few days have proven to me that I am right. Some people on here that I thought were friendly, have said things that were just not called for. Notice that I said friendly and not friends, as I have no friends and work hard to keep it that way.

I have said some mean things also, but these were in retaliation. Not saying it was right, but that's why. And these were to people I never thought of as friendly, any way.

So, yes, I hold on to my past, to secure a better future for myself.
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Jun 3, 2008 11:45 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
shipoker55: I admit I never let things go. It's a defense mechanism. I've learned to protect myself from people, so they can not ever hurt me. You might say my give-a damn is busted. I love that phrase!!

These last few days have proven to me that I am right. Some people on here that I thought were friendly, have said things that were just not called for. Notice that I said friendly and not friends, as I have no friends and work hard to keep it that way.

I have said some mean things also, but these were in retaliation. Not saying it was right, but that's why. And these were to people I never thought of as friendly, any way.

So, yes, I hold on to my past, to secure a better future for myself.


Hi Ship.cheers
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Jun 3, 2008 11:46 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
Ladies.cheers cheers cheers
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Jun 3, 2008 11:46 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
alabamabebe: My past, good, bad and ugly, has made me what I am today-a strong, self-reliant, secure person. I don't want to forget my past, but I don't want to live in it either. I've made mistakes, but were they really mistakes, if I gained from them? No regrets here.
You are a very wise woman already girl!!cheering cheering cheering I totally agree with your usage of our past!!thumbs up
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Jun 3, 2008 11:46 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
rasgumby: I don't have a past.. it is gone..
I have a brilliant future



Hi there.cheers
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Jun 3, 2008 11:47 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
friendsfirst: Hi Ship.




hello FF
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Jun 3, 2008 11:47 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
friendsfirst: Ladies.


Hello W teddybear
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Jun 3, 2008 11:47 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
friendsfirst: IS...You know like the Roy Orbison song. Well it's aaaaaalllllright..As long as i>>

I just got home.It's all i could think of.
Give me a sec.
laugh ok you are excused for a sec.laugh
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Jun 3, 2008 11:48 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
mylifewithu: You are a very wise woman already girl!! I totally agree with your usage of our past!!
Took me 40-something years to get to here, I'm not really all that smart. grin
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Jun 3, 2008 11:48 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
friendsfirst: Ladies.
Men!!cheers cheers
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Jun 3, 2008 11:49 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
alabamabebe: Took me 40-something years to get to here, I'm not really all that smart.
I still have troubles too, but you are doing your best and going the best route from what I see!!hug cheers
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Jun 3, 2008 11:51 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
alabamabebe: My past, good, bad and ugly, has made me what I am today-a strong, self-reliant, secure person. I don't want to forget my past, but I don't want to live in it either. I've made mistakes, but were they really mistakes, if I gained from them? No regrets here.


I've met some wonderful people. I've loved and been loved. My life is richer for having met them (and, hopefully, vice versa). I wasn't right for them and vice versa; sad at the time but they are happier now. There is regret that I'm not on the way to the 63 years of marriage my parents have already had together, but I live in hope of finding somebody I can share my love of life with, but maybe it's not meant to be.......... all I know is that I'm never going to quit trying as it's wonderful to be part of a happy, positive couple!

The thing is to be content to be on your own - that makes you more attractive and more likely to find love than being a miserable lonely person!

grin
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Jun 3, 2008 11:51 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
shipoker55: So, yes, I hold on to my past, to secure a better future for myself.
And how's that working for you, if you have no friends, how good can it be?
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