this poses a real problem for me- i hate to be rude and not rreply, but if i don't want to get 'involved' at whatever level with them, i feel that if i reply, it suggests I do. But also, i could NEVER send a 'thanks but no thanks' message either. So i err on the side of caution, and hope that not replying is gentler. Am I wrong?
QueseraseraCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK382 posts
jampet: this poses a real problem for me- i hate to be rude and not rreply, but if i don't want to get 'involved' at whatever level with them, i feel that if i reply, it suggests I do. But also, i could NEVER send a 'thanks but no thanks' message either. So i err on the side of caution, and hope that not replying is gentler. Am I wrong?
hey no kidding tho outrageous i know a gal who contacted guys who viewed or rated her that she found interesting and met some nice guys that way i thot she was brilliant
she kept meeting nice guys here that arent in forums and i was like how are you doin that?
when she told me i about fell over duuuuh- shes a smartypants and shes scoopin up the ones we are ignoring
lets not empty the forums but i think its a good strategy!!
yes .. you know mindfful " wow u look great , i am interested " .. in saying Thankyou .
but think of it one could be passing over decent guys in the process of being cautious ..
langleygirl: What's to thank them for??????? Passing us over? They've looked and not be interested because otherwise they would have written or sent a flower in the first place.
Besides that, sometimes my laptop gets sensitive and it automatically pulls up someone's profile. Maybe that same thing happened to the guys that are on my who's viewed me list. i would be so embaressed if I sent a flower to someone who didn't actually want to see my profile..
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For the rest......
Thank You.....