can you give me a wee bit of advice please (39)
joolsthe1edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK38 Threads 377 Postsi like a guy locally, who i spent a most platonic night with (we were both grieving over the same person!)-3 years ago. recently i have been thinking about him a lot! saw him twice today and we just say "hello" after all that! any insight?
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Why not contact him and start things going?
You never know until you try.
You never know until you try.
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insight? hehehe
that you both spent that time together to share is a great thing!
look inside. see what and why you think about him... atraction, or just comfort...?
sounds like the sart of at the very least a great freindship.
lovely that a life cycle, circles, again, lol, bring new dreams, thoughts, life...
that you both spent that time together to share is a great thing!
look inside. see what and why you think about him... atraction, or just comfort...?
sounds like the sart of at the very least a great freindship.
lovely that a life cycle, circles, again, lol, bring new dreams, thoughts, life...
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3 years ago you greived over thelost of someone dear....
now youhave seen him twice in one day and you communicate greetings to one another....Q: did you all share anything but grief in the past?
I've heard and seen relationships built on a whole lot less.
now youhave seen him twice in one day and you communicate greetings to one another....Q: did you all share anything but grief in the past?
I've heard and seen relationships built on a whole lot less.
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i don't know if he's with someone or not! i don't want to make a fool out of myself, but today was quite good! i cycled into the next town and he passed in his car and waved! when i got home, he passed me on his bicycle, and i thought maybe he wanted to talk 2 me! it's 2.5 miles to the next town and he managed to get home change into his cycling stuff and meet me at my house! it seems like he wanted to see me! but i am really unsure and don't want to do anything untoward!
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I didn't see this before I posted...
My god girl, wake up!!! LMAO He's all but telling you he's interested! Why would he wave and meet you at your house??!
Sheesh! lol
My god girl, wake up!!! LMAO He's all but telling you he's interested! Why would he wave and meet you at your house??!
Sheesh! lol
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all you can do is be up front..you would expect it from anyone else, yes?
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i know friendships begin in that way, but i have never seen him to talk with since! i can't understand why he's in my thoughts now! he was once very close to my friend that died and visited her close to the end, when i was there!
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thanks for your opinion, but i have seriously misread things in the past and i would have to move country this time if i get it wrong! see, it's not so simple now!
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so... you can always tell him the truth:
"I've been thinking about you, and then saw you on the road and you waved, then you came over (you left out what happened when he came over??) and I'm feeling like I would like to spend some time with you, but I'm scared I'm misreading your signals."
The truth is great, really disarms them... hehe
Just ask hon.
"I've been thinking about you, and then saw you on the road and you waved, then you came over (you left out what happened when he came over??) and I'm feeling like I would like to spend some time with you, but I'm scared I'm misreading your signals."
The truth is great, really disarms them... hehe
Just ask hon.
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we shared nothing more than the love of the same person and the night we spent together was spent mostly talking about her! but he did touch me, that night about the things he said about her! he also said he had never talked to anyone like this before-but in times of grief-things happen!
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well, right now? is he still greiving?
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so do you want to be stopped by fear, or do you want to go for what you want even if you're afraid?
What's the best you're going to get if you get stopped by fear?
What might be the best you get if you aren't???
What's the best you're going to get if you get stopped by fear?
What might be the best you get if you aren't???
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oh for chrissakes go on a damn bike ride and talk.I mean the ice has been broken already and at the very least you will have a nice bike ride with a nice guy.I wish I had these problems lol
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no kidding :-)
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listen girls! i am one of the most confident people i know! i just don't want to make a fool out of myself or anyone else! (if i contact him and he's with someone, i will be mortified! if i contact him and he's not interested, i will be very embarrassed!) no! the whole truth is i want him to do something about it, not me (i am officiaaly on strike from being a partner to anyone!) that's justification to the max! lol THANX TO YOU ALL!
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you are so right-i might even phone him tomorrow! sorry for being such an asswipe, but it's been a long time since i've thought about anything like this-thank you, and everyone else! i am so stubborn!
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stubborn...
oh yes, lol
oh yes, lol
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you're a good wee one!! thanks omg-this calls for serious courage. the ironic thing about this, is that i sort peoples problems out 5 days a week!!! my own-they can wait!!
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chew some spinach popeye and go for it !!
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