Whats the point to this site and others like it, all that happens here is you get ignored or accused of playign games when if your like me all ylu joined for was to meet people and perhaps find a special someone, i find it hard to beleive that people of my age group in particular would be so shallow as to play silly games on here or anywhere else
You need to be able to take the good with the bad, it's a big site so you are going to get a variety of people including the whacko's.
I tend not to think that everyone I talk to is my next partner, rather I like to think I have made a new friend. After all doesnt all good relationships start out with a friendship.
Just have fun, don't let the bad people get in the way of enjoying yourself.
Not everyone on the site is a bad person. I have made some wonderful friends. Jump into the forums have some fun while getting to know people.
sxc666: You need to be able to take the good with the bad, it's a big site so you are going to get a variety of people including the whacko's.
I tend not to think that everyone I talk to is my next partner, rather I like to think I have made a new friend. After all doesnt all good relationships start out with a friendship.
Just have fun, don't let the bad people get in the way of enjoying yourself.
Not everyone on the site is a bad person. I have made some wonderful friends. Jump into the forums have some fun while getting to know people.
I find it difficult as well i come and look at the forums and its the same 5 or 6 people all the time with the same old things, not to say i could think of anything better. I prefer to talk one one one that in groups on here and in real life. So even a syber pen pal via emails or chat would be nice
I put it out there through sending those flowers to women who's profile interest me somewhat and have had no responses.
I am feeling very disheartened with it all. I don't drink so i can't meet women at pubs or clubs, i'm not religous so church is out and i am new to this so whats the go with it, really.
Please don't reply with smart mouth stuff i am serious here give me some help
Hey Rodles, well I know im one of the 5 or 6 so ill give my 2 cents first...I had a look see at your profile ... Your cute for sure Maybe correct your spelling & be a little more creative in your profile , talk a lil more about what yu really desire in this life ,why you want to meet someone maybe a lil more about the things that inspire you... Its nice to read a bit about someone & feel its not just all the same ol same ol , you gotta stand out or well youll be overlooked your attributes & conficence have to shine thru in a few short paragraphs , so get creative , do sum soul searchin but most of all keep it real . JMO Kizzy
Rodles: I find it difficult as well i come and look at the forums and its the same 5 or 6 people all the time with the same old things, not to say i could think of anything better. I prefer to talk one one one that in groups on here and in real life. So even a syber pen pal via emails or chat would be nice
I put it out there through sending those flowers to women who's profile interest me somewhat and have had no responses.
I am feeling very disheartened with it all. I don't drink so i can't meet women at pubs or clubs, i'm not religous so church is out and i am new to this so whats the go with it, really.
Please don't reply with smart mouth stuff i am serious here give me some help
Hi Rodles, well I am new here too, if you dont like that its the same 5 or 6 people on the forums - make it 7 join in, same old thing - well say something different. If you read the forums you will see some talk one on one during the forums. I am an a couple of sites and posting in the forums always increases mail and you have a laugh.
RuahineTaupo, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand152 posts
Rodles: I find it difficult as well i come and look at the forums and its the same 5 or 6 people all the time with the same old things, not to say i could think of anything better. I prefer to talk one one one that in groups on here and in real life. So even a syber pen pal via emails or chat would be nice
I put it out there through sending those flowers to women who's profile interest me somewhat and have had no responses.
I am feeling very disheartened with it all. I don't drink so i can't meet women at pubs or clubs, i'm not religous so church is out and i am new to this so whats the go with it, really.
Please don't reply with smart mouth stuff i am serious here give me some help
cowgirldancerThe Patch, Victoria Australia438 posts
pony51: Whats the point to this site and others like it, all that happens here is you get ignored or accused of playign games when if your like me all ylu joined for was to meet people and perhaps find a special someone, i find it hard to beleive that people of my age group in particular would be so shallow as to play silly games on here or anywhere else
blondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia4,392 posts
pony51: Whats the point to this site and others like it, all that happens here is you get ignored or accused of playign games when if your like me all ylu joined for was to meet people and perhaps find a special someone, i find it hard to beleive that people of my age group in particular would be so shallow as to play silly games on here or anywhere else
Don't take it so seriously I guess be yourself but don't compromise your values and who you are just to be accepted or to fit in with the 'in crowd' or to please others. Try to enjoy yourself and don't 'expect' to find your soul mate here if that's what your looking for. Cos you may just be disappointed If it happens, its a bonus, if not .. think of it this way.. you can still have a laugh at the numerous comments 'clowns' who can give you a chuckle sometimes
pssst.. you can always ignore anyone who makes you
tinsardinesydney, New South Wales Australia72 posts
blondeaozichick: Don't take it so seriously I guess be yourself but don't compromise your values and who you are just to be accepted or to fit in with the 'in crowd' or to please others. Try to enjoy yourself and don't 'expect' to find your soul mate here if that's what your looking for. Cos you may just be disappointed If it happens, its a bonus, if not .. think of it this way.. you can still have a laugh at the numerous comments 'clowns' who can give you a chuckle sometimes
pssst.. you can always ignore anyone who makes you
DarkhorsemanGladstonia ... it's a strange, Queensland Australia1,304 posts
pony51: Whats the point to this site and others like it, all that happens here is you get ignored or accused of playign games when if your like me all ylu joined for was to meet people and perhaps find a special someone, i find it hard to beleive that people of my age group in particular would be so shallow as to play silly games on here or anywhere else
OOOOOoooooh .... Lighten up!
If you are expecting to find your true LUUUurv sitting behind a computer keyboard you are to niave to be let out alone. We can all be whoever we want here and most likely are. No one is going to get to check out what really counts unless we let them meet us in person .... so just have fun. and if someone offends you ... offend them right back. You can grow a really yhick skin on here ... or you can put your soul out and hand someone a hammer to shatter it with. But in the end the choice is yours.
If you want my advice, and you're going to get it anyway, hit the forums. At least you MAY find people who are compatible with your thoughts and beliefs. Just don't be too disapointed when curvy turns out to be HUGE and a few extra pounds turns out to be Dump Truck.
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