ARE THERE ANY HONEST MEN ON THIS SITE? (133)
cherokeemoon2grove, Oklahoma USA15 Threads 545 PostsI dated one off this site for 11 months,we were to get married.But something just kept nagging at me.First he wanted to get a house and me pay half of all the bills.last night we talked and he said our bank accounts were to be seperate,I would pay for all the groceries,and then what we had left out of our checks woould be the only money we had to use.I would have saved 100 on rent and the utilities would have ate that up.I was in the hospital last week, he took mt to ER and as soon as I got in a room he left.He left me several times when I needed him,just so he could get in bed by 9 am.hes 13 yrs younger than me.I had no problem paying half the bills if I could have bettered myself.But I told him last night,I wasnt going to do that.So we broke up.I saw him today and he acts as if I never existed.What do u guys think,and have u had an experience like this?
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I think you made the right decision. In my opinion, leaving you at the hospital is a red flag.
His acting like you never existed is proof you made the right decision
His acting like you never existed is proof you made the right decision
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cherokeemoon2: I dated one off this site for 11 months,we were to get married.But something just kept nagging at me.First he wanted to get a house and me pay half of all the bills.last night we talked and he said our bank accounts were to be seperate,I would pay for all the groceries,and then what we had left out of our checks woould be the only money we had to use.I would have saved 100 on rent and the utilities would have ate that up.I was in the hospital last week, he took mt to ER and as soon as I got in a room he left.He left me several times when I needed him,just so he could get in bed by 9 am.hes 13 yrs younger than me.I had no problem paying half the bills if I could have bettered myself.But I told him last night,I wasnt going to do that.So we broke up.I saw him today and he acts as if I never existed.What do u guys think,and have u had an experience like this?
I have and he turned out to be all talk....If money is that important to him and he couldn't be there when you needed him most..then you're much better off...sounds like he was just looking for a room-mate not a wife....
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princess49503: I think you made the right decision. In my opinion, leaving you at the hospital is a red flag .
His acting like you never existed is proof you made the right decision
I agree totally tk u.His acting like you never existed is proof you made the right decision
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Hugz_n_Kissez: I have and he turned out to be all talk....If money is that important to him and he couldn't be there when you needed him most..then you're much better off...sounds like he was just looking for a room-mate not a wife....
well there were sutle little lies and he met me on this site and met his last wife on the internet while still married.and call the women penpals lol.so i would have had to be blind as a bat not to figure this one out. Loneleness is a hard thing to fight. tks hugs------ This thread is Archived ------
I've met a few folk of this site both men and women and for the majority I have to say they've been pretty honest, upfront and genuine to me, however there are those who haven't been either, I think it's a learning process......big hugs to you and hoe you get well soon
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Pptrixibell: I've met a few folk of this site both men and women and for the majority I have to say they've been pretty honest, upfront and genuine to me, however there are those who haven't been either, I think it's a learning process......big hugs to you and hoe you get well soon
hope!!!!!
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ARE THERE ANY HONEST MEN ON THIS SITE? so are u gonne try ur chance again in a dating site?
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Pptrixibell: hope!!!!!
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epicure: ARE THERE ANY HONEST MEN ON THIS SITE? so are u gonne try ur chance again in a dating site?
Well I just redone my profile.I never quit.------ This thread is Archived ------
I wonder if a liar would actually answer the OP with the truth 
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you rang you ask me how honest i am if you ask me if those pants make your butt look big
with a smile on my face i will say yes
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cherokeemoon2: I dated one off this site for 11 months,we were to get married.But something just kept nagging at me.First he wanted to get a house and me pay half of all the bills.last night we talked and he said our bank accounts were to be seperate,I would pay for all the groceries,and then what we had left out of our checks woould be the only money we had to use.I would have saved 100 on rent and the utilities would have ate that up.I was in the hospital last week, he took mt to ER and as soon as I got in a room he left.He left me several times when I needed him,just so he could get in bed by 9 am.hes 13 yrs younger than me.I had no problem paying half the bills if I could have bettered myself.But I told him last night,I wasnt going to do that.So we broke up.I saw him today and he acts as if I never existed.What do u guys think,and have u had an experience like this?
I had often wondered where you were. Well, what a delight to see you after all this time, love!!
Though I wish it were under different circumstances for you, of course!I think, truly..... that you had a close call by the sounds of things. That is not gonna be what you want to hear but..... you DID ask?! All things considered, I am sooooo glad you had a lucky escape. A lesson to us all....
But... you do know that, whatever events you encounter, good or bad.... you can still come back here to us.... either cry on our shoulders or give us some fabulous news, whichever....
And, yes... I'LL STILL be here, of course!!
A little something to cheer you?? --->
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cherokeemoon2: tk u sweety
You're more than welcome, all the best hun
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cherokeemoon2: Well I just redone my profile.I never quit.
Good....let him find someone gullible enough to believe him.....
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cherokeemoon2: I dated one off this site for 11 months,we were to get married.But something just kept nagging at me.First he wanted to get a house and me pay half of all the bills.last night we talked and he said our bank accounts were to be seperate,I would pay for all the groceries,and then what we had left out of our checks woould be the only money we had to use.I would have saved 100 on rent and the utilities would have ate that up.I was in the hospital last week, he took mt to ER and as soon as I got in a room he left.He left me several times when I needed him,just so he could get in bed by 9 am.hes 13 yrs younger than me.I had no problem paying half the bills if I could have bettered myself.But I told him last night,I wasnt going to do that.So we broke up.I saw him today and he acts as if I never existed.What do u guys think,and have u had an experience like this?
the sharing the financial responsibilites bit doesn't bother me at all- i think that is only fair- but leaving you in the hopsital when you needed him- NOT ON! emotional issues come much higher on my radar than financial, and while I am so sorry that this relationship didn't work out for you, i am also so glad that you didn't marry someone who did not have your emotional needs as his main priority. hope you find a partner that you both have their best interests at heart
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BnaturAl: I wonder if a liar would actually answer the OP with the truth
i am not honest but I can't talk for others see? there's one.
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cherokeemoon2: Well I just redone my profile.I never quit.
Atta' girl!!! And by the way, welcome back!
(Oh, and I used to know of one honest man on this site, but my lovely wife married him eleven months ago today!
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The_Kansan: Atta' girl!!! And by the way, welcome back!
(Oh, and I used to know of one honest man on this site, but my lovely wife married him eleven months ago today!)
(Oh, and I used to know of one honest man on this site, but my lovely wife married him eleven months ago today!)
Go Kansan, go kansan, go kansan!!!
There is hope for us all yet then!!
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zdeadmanwalking: you rang you ask me how honest i am
if you ask me if those pants make your butt look big
with a smile on my face i will say yes
LOL u made me laugh and I needed that.if you ask me if those pants make your butt look big
with a smile on my face i will say yes
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