How do you feel..... (90)
Dont_Look_Now: Perfectly happy and content by myself. It took me a long time to get to this place in my life but I am proud to say I am here, despite all of the obstacles I and my little family have had to endure and go through to get here...we are happy and at peace for once.
It will take a very special man to change that for he would have to be able to "slip into my life" with out upheaving it...
I do, however, know for a fact that God has someone out there for me and when the time is right, we will meet (if we have not already and He is just getting a good laugh out of this, lol...God has a wicked sense of humor, you know, lol)...so to all of our futures whatever they may hold
Love to you all!
It will take a very special man to change that for he would have to be able to "slip into my life" with out upheaving it...
I do, however, know for a fact that God has someone out there for me and when the time is right, we will meet (if we have not already and He is just getting a good laugh out of this, lol...God has a wicked sense of humor, you know, lol)...so to all of our futures whatever they may hold
Love to you all!
Good for you girl.......nice post.....
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RillyNiceGuy: Happyness shared is multiplied, sadness shared is divided!
You never know what life brings and a good spouse is nice to have in both cases.
You never know what life brings and a good spouse is nice to have in both cases.
Happyness............looks ok to me.....
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zdeadmanwalking: some point in our lives we come to the point
where we do not need someone in our lives
sometimes we just want someone in our life
we don't need them
but we want someone to share our life with don't ask me i get confuse when it comes to ladies anyway
where we do not need someone in our lives
sometimes we just want someone in our life
we don't need them
but we want someone to share our life with don't ask me i get confuse when it comes to ladies anyway
I get what you are trying to say......
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classicrockgirl: Am at the point where I don't need or particularly want someone in my life full time. I enjoy my freedom. Kids are finally grown and I can come and go as I please. But if I did meet someone and we really clicked and got along with no drama or roller coaster rides would definitely make room.
No drama or rollercoasters......I can live with that....
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Daniel4021: It's no problem.. hope you slept well, as for me, doing ok, and about to get ready for work, it's going to be a hot one today.. 99 degrees
Have a good day at work.......not a bad day here today weather wise.....
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I am perfectly happy living by myself. Didn't have to reach that point, after spending my entire first 50 years living with someone, I loved it immediately!
That is not to say that if someone I could stand being around on a continuous basis came along I couldn't enjoy it, but I'm not looking for it. I don't need someone around all the time. I like taking care of myself, and just myself. I will never go back to the days of someone else's needs and wants taking precedence over mine.
That is not to say that if someone I could stand being around on a continuous basis came along I couldn't enjoy it, but I'm not looking for it. I don't need someone around all the time. I like taking care of myself, and just myself. I will never go back to the days of someone else's needs and wants taking precedence over mine.
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stefonline: Hi All,
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
i am at exactly the same point
but i have reaced it long loing years ago
i do not need a male to share life with him
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stefonline: Hi All,
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
when you learn to life with yourself
when you learn to be happy with yurelf
is when you are in such a point of life you can look for a mate to share full life
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I'm quite happy and comfortable with me. There are times that I miss having a man around, but it's no longer a need or neccessity in my life today.
It's funny how things change and our perceptions change over time. I once asked someone..."Is it that you want me in your life or is it that you need me in your life?" They said "Wanting and needing are the same thing." I chose to walk away from them.
It's funny how things change and our perceptions change over time. I once asked someone..."Is it that you want me in your life or is it that you need me in your life?" They said "Wanting and needing are the same thing." I chose to walk away from them.
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First, I had to realize that I had a RIGHT to be happy with myself and with my life again; if I let the ex diminish my happiness in any way, then I was still allowing him to affect me negatively.
Second, I had to choose to trust other men; if I let the fears and trust issues caused by the ex get in the way of having any other relationships, then I was still allowing him to affect my life negatively.
Either way, I was not about to let the ex have any more say-so over MY life. That's when I realized that the ultimate victory was to be perfectly content in my life, with or without a man. Granted, I would still like to meet a quality man for a long-term relationship; I would still like to unleash all the love I have left to give, but until the situation is right, I will continue being as happy and as active as I normally am. so yeah, my life is very, very good. Point for me, zero for the ex.
Good post.................