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Jul 20, 2008 4:48 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
CjTenorSax: Have been there. Sometimes still am. My take is more spiritual now. If G-d sends me some one, I will accept that precious gift again. I'm just being pickier this time around. But do understand.




Spiritual I can relate too.......if the good lord means to send someone in our paths they will arrive.......until such time.......I am very picky.....roll eyes
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Jul 20, 2008 4:49 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: But if I pay, it takes the fun outta barter...




But there is no bartering with the beautician.......is there.....doh
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Jul 20, 2008 4:49 PM CST How do you feel.....
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
stefonline: Hi All,

I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...



Yes I have....I was dating someone but realized...I don't want a relationship....I am quite content with me right now..and the way things are at the moment....and have other things I want to concentrate on....wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Jul 20, 2008 4:51 PM CST How do you feel.....
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
stefonline: But there is no bartering with the beautician.......is there.....


Threaten her with an ugly stick...works every time...thumbs up
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Jul 20, 2008 4:52 PM CST How do you feel.....
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
somechick: Having someone to have fun with would be ok but not a total commitment. I doubt if I could go through loosing someone again. It's too painful.


You see, there is where one of the problem lays, don't get me wrong, not trying to be any certian way, everyone needs time to heal after a relationship is over, depending on which one of the you got tore up..

but one can't go through life holding over another for what someone else did to them, all of us have been hurt, all of us have suffered at the hands of another, life is a chance, relationships are a chance, waking up in the morning and going to the store is taking a chance that you may never come back...

When a person holds themself back because of what another did to them, means you let that person take away a chance at finding the real one that is ment for you..

comfort
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Jul 20, 2008 4:56 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: Threaten her with an ugly stick...works every time...




Are you boasting about your ugly rood again......rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 20, 2008 4:57 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes I have....I was dating someone but realized...I don't want a relationship....I am quite content with me right now..and the way things are at the moment....and have other things I want to concentrate on....





You said it in one........teddybear
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Jul 20, 2008 4:57 PM CST How do you feel.....
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
stefonline: Are you boasting about your ugly rood again......


I boast not...I merely inform tongue

rolling on the floor laughing wink
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Jul 20, 2008 4:58 PM CST How do you feel.....
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
stefonline: I am very happy to have reached this point......it is an aquired way of life and a peaceful one I may add.....


I'm glad for you Steph, that you have found contentment, but at the same time, sad too, because you had to endure the loneliness before reaching that point..hug
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Jul 20, 2008 4:58 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: I boast not...I merely inform




Sweet dreams to you........yawn sleep
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Jul 20, 2008 5:00 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Daniel4021: I'm glad for you Steph, that you have found contentment, but at the same time, sad too, because you had to endure the loneliness before reaching that point..




We go through many stages going from one place to another and I guess I have reached acceptance........hug
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Jul 20, 2008 5:00 PM CST How do you feel.....
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
stefonline: Sweet dreams to you........


More like a John Holmesian, Salvador Dahli nightmare...tongue
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Jul 20, 2008 5:01 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: More like a John Holmesian, Salvador Dahli nightmare...





Not for this night sweetie.......lips
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Jul 20, 2008 5:06 PM CST How do you feel.....
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
stefonline: We go through many stages going from one place to another and I guess I have reached acceptance........


You have always been a good friend, and one that actually replies to what I post.. and in turn I hope I have been the same to you Steph...hug
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Jul 20, 2008 5:31 PM CST How do you feel.....
It wasn't a breakup my husband passed away.

Daniel4021: You see, there is where one of the problem lays, don't get me wrong, not trying to be any certian way, everyone needs time to heal after a relationship is over, depending on which one of the you got tore up..

but one can't go through life holding over another for what someone else did to them, all of us have been hurt, all of us have suffered at the hands of another, life is a chance, relationships are a chance, waking up in the morning and going to the store is taking a chance that you may never come back...

When a person holds themself back because of what another did to them, means you let that person take away a chance at finding the real one that is ment for you..
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Jul 20, 2008 5:35 PM CST How do you feel.....
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
somechick: It wasn't a breakup my husband passed away.


I am so sorry to hear that.. Now that you have said it, I remember you posting it before.. please accept my apology.. I feel so bad now
blues
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Jul 20, 2008 5:45 PM CST How do you feel.....
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
stefonline: Not for this night sweetie.......


Ah. Tease.

Like there'll be another night...doh

mumbling

laugh tongue
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Jul 20, 2008 5:45 PM CST How do you feel.....
No apology needed. Oh please don't feel bad.

It's not like I took out a classified ad.laugh

Now I can see why you and your sis are so well thought of and liked on this site. you're such sweet people.


Daniel4021: I am so sorry to hear that.. Now that you have said it, I remember you posting it before.. please accept my apology.. I feel so bad now
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Jul 20, 2008 5:50 PM CST How do you feel.....
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
somechick: No apology needed. Oh please don't feel bad.

It's not like I took out a classified ad.

Now I can see why you and your sis are so well thought of and liked on this site. you're such sweet people.


Thank you for the compliment, I should have remembered that you did mention that though.. I'm glad I didn't upset you.. btw, you seem to be a pretty sweet person yourself..handshake
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Jul 20, 2008 6:00 PM CST How do you feel.....
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
stefonline: Hi All,

I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...


I have reached that place and come out the other side. I am content and happy with myself but not by myself, not for a prospective 30+ more years. I actually love company and sharing and being with someone. Obviously it has to be the right someone, and I am willing to wait for that, but a companion to go places with and do things with and share stuff with is something I definitely want in my future.wine
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