How do you feel..... (90)
stefonline: Hi All,
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
Hey Stef....I have reached that point. Though I've also reached the point, that as much as I'm comfy with myself & by myself... I really can't see staying alone & being alone, for the rest of my life.
I would like to, someday, settle down & get married... but if that never does happen, then it's all good. As much as I would be willing to settle down, perhaps, sometime in the future - I'm not willing to "settle", so to speak...
We shall see what happens... and what happens, happens...
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soulmateTWS: Meh, I'm open to living with another man, full time, if the situation presents itself...If not...I'm comfortable with that also....
A brave woman you are.......for me this would be huge......not taking any big steps anytime soon.....
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I thought I had reached that point when I was 22-24 years old or so. But, as one of my friends said, "people are social creatures", and I do need to "share" with someone, and as my relatives (e.g. Mom) live quite far, and my friends have their own lives most of the time, it might as well be someone who would be close to me and available.
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RedHeadedTaurus: Hey Stef....
I have reached that point. Though I've also reached the point, that as much as I'm comfy with myself & by myself... I really can't see staying alone & being alone, for the rest of my life.I would like to, someday, settle down & get married... but if that never does happen, then it's all good. As much as I would be willing to settle down, perhaps, sometime in the future - I'm not willing to "settle", so to speak...We shall see what happens... and what happens, happens...
I have reached that point. Though I've also reached the point, that as much as I'm comfy with myself & by myself... I really can't see staying alone & being alone, for the rest of my life.I would like to, someday, settle down & get married... but if that never does happen, then it's all good. As much as I would be willing to settle down, perhaps, sometime in the future - I'm not willing to "settle", so to speak...We shall see what happens... and what happens, happens...
Que sera sera whatever will be will be the future's not ours to se que sera sera......or at least I think it goes like that......
When I grew up I asked my Mother what would I be
Will I be happy will I be sad
Here's what she said to me....
See above Que sera......
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stefonline: A brave woman you are.......for me this would be huge......not taking any big steps anytime soon.....
Nah...not brave...I just enjoy being in a healthy, happy, and loving relationship...if that's not possible...I'm happy alone with my family...
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stefonline: Que sera sera whatever will be will be the future's not ours to se que sera sera......or at least I think it goes like that......
Yup. Exactly. And I have accepted that fact, very well, indeed...
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AudrysSis: I thought I had reached that point when I was 22-24 years old or so. But, as one of my friends said, "people are social creatures", and I do need to "share" with someone, and as my relatives (e.g. Mom) live quite far, and my friends have their own lives most of the time, it might as well be someone who would be close to me and available.
I do hope that you find someone close to you and available.....what lovely dogs you have.....
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RedHeadedTaurus: Yup. Exactly. And I have accepted that fact, very well, indeed...
Rock on girl.....
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stefonline: I dont feel I need anyone that bad......life is good just the way it is......cant imagine that someone could enhance my life anymore than it already is.....
Now that could be true, as for the enhancing part and the need, I think it has more to do with the desire to have someone to touch, and share quality time with.. I think that the longer a person is alone, they become used to life being that way and except as an everyday part of life, but deep down inside there is always that desire to have someone to be with from time to time..
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Daniel4021: Now that could be true, as for the enhancing part and the need, I think it has more to do with the desire to have someone to touch, and share quality time with.. I think that the longer a person is alone, they become used to life being that way and except as an everyday part of life, but deep down inside there is always that desire to have someone to be with from time to time..
Yes it is true the longer it goes the more normal it appears to me.....no not deep down inside there is no longer a desire to be with someone else......
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Daniel4021: Now that could be true, as for the enhancing part and the need, I think it has more to do with the desire to have someone to touch, and share quality time with.. I think that the longer a person is alone, they become used to life being that way and except as an everyday part of life, but deep down inside there is always that desire to have someone to be with from time to time..
Yes it is true the longer it goes the more normal it appears to me.....no not deep down inside there is no longer a desire to be with someone else......
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stefonline: Cant say that I miss any of those too much......but if I need a massage I will take a trip to the beauty salon......
Eh...whateva...
The beautician can't do the things I want done, nor will she allow me to do the things I want to do...
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Having someone to have fun with would be ok but not a total commitment. I doubt if I could go through loosing someone again. It's too painful.
stefonline: Hi All,
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
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Galactic_bodhi: Eh...whateva...
The beautician can't do the things I want done, nor will she allow me to do the things I want to do...
The beautician can't do the things I want done, nor will she allow me to do the things I want to do...
But there are others you can employ to do these things......
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somechick: Having someone to have fun with would be ok but not a total commitment. I doubt if I could go through loosing someone again. It's too painful.
What would you clasify someone to have fun with......
and yes I agree loosing someone is too painful........
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stefonline: Yes it is true the longer it goes the more normal it appears to me.....no not deep down inside there is no longer a desire to be with someone else......
Then you have reached a point where you have become complacent with living life without anyone to share it with, that is a learned behavior, and imo, and an accepted way of life because there hasen't been anyone for a long time, and i'm sure that before so much time had past, you thought differently.. however I guess anyone can reach a point where they just become satisfied with their life the way it is, as in being alone.. as for me, I haven't reached that point yet..
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stefonline: Hi All,
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
Have been there. Sometimes still am. My take is more spiritual now. If G-d sends me some one, I will accept that precious gift again. I'm just being pickier this time around. But do understand.
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Daniel4021: Then you have reached a point where you have become complacent with living life without anyone to share it with, that is a learned behavior, and imo, and an accepted way of life because there hasen't been anyone for a long time, and i'm sure that before so much time had past, you thought differently.. however I guess anyone can reach a point where they just become satisfied with their life the way it is, as in being alone.. as for me, I haven't reached that point yet..
I am very happy to have reached this point......it is an aquired way of life and a peaceful one I may add.....
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stefonline: But there are others you can employ to do these things......
But if I pay, it takes the fun outta barter...
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