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Jul 20, 2008 3:59 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Hi All,

I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.



Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...teddybear
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Jul 20, 2008 4:00 PM CST How do you feel.....
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I have indeed reached this place without a full-time male tip hat

Sorry, could not help it. grin
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Jul 20, 2008 4:02 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
rwantin: I have indeed reached this place without a full-time male

Sorry, could not help it.




You funny onion.......wave
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Jul 20, 2008 4:05 PM CST How do you feel.....
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
stefonline: Hi All,

I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...


Well Steph, as for me, I have become used to not having a lady in my life, but I still have the desire to want one in my life, at least a girlfriend, living together I think at this point wouldn't be a big issue right now, but if the relationship were to grow to the point of really becomming something more that just dating.. living together would more than likely happen...
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Jul 20, 2008 4:05 PM CST How do you feel.....
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.
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Jul 20, 2008 4:07 PM CST How do you feel.....
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
Hi Steffwave would involuntary singlehood count??
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Jul 20, 2008 4:07 PM CST How do you feel.....
Justme4uok
Justme4uokJustme4uokNorthern CA, California USA28 Threads 5,737 Posts
rwantin: In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.



Makes perfect sense....I'm there with you on that interpretion....


Getting use to someone elses life style could be a challenge after being alone for so long....
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Jul 20, 2008 4:07 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Daniel4021: Well Steph, as for me, I have become used to not having a lady in my life, but I still have the desire to want one in my life, at least a girlfriend, living together I think at this point wouldn't be a big issue right now, but if the relationship were to grow to the point of really becomming something more that just dating.. living together would more than likely happen...





Thank's for your response D.....much appreciated......I think I would be actually terrified to share my life with someone again.....hug
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Jul 20, 2008 4:08 PM CST How do you feel.....
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
rwantin: In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.


Son, does your mom know where you are???laugh
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Jul 20, 2008 4:09 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
airliner: Hi Steff would involuntary singlehood count??




That counts but I think it's more a case where this woman has voluntary singlehood chosen.....wave
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Jul 20, 2008 4:09 PM CST How do you feel.....
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
airliner: Son, does your mom know where you are???


Shhhh. Skipping out on recess...
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Jul 20, 2008 4:11 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
rwantin: In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.




It all makes perfect sense to me......and yes one dose get very used to not having someone around......adapt is not something I'm sure I ever want to do again.....
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Jul 20, 2008 4:12 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Justme4uok: Makes perfect sense....I'm there with you on that interpretion....Getting use to someone elses life style could be a challenge after being alone for so long....




Just getting used to someone new can be challanging......wave
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Jul 20, 2008 4:13 PM CST How do you feel.....
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
stefonline: Hi All,

I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
thumbs up
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Jul 20, 2008 4:15 PM CST How do you feel.....
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
stefonline: Thank's for your response D.....much appreciated......I think I would be actually terrified to share my life with someone again.....


Your welcome Steph, yeah, I understand, I wrote a poem about the way I percieve how ladies are when they have been torn apart in past relationships.. I really feel for them.. they become so untrusting of other guys and scared to open up, because they fear it will happen all over again... but then it can happen to any of us, man or woman...

The question I think is, do we really want someone in our life bad enough to take that chance?
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Jul 20, 2008 4:15 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
This has to be a very good place......roll eyes
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Jul 20, 2008 4:16 PM CST How do you feel.....
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
Having been alone longer than attached in life overall...I say I'm pretty content to be alone.

It's the little things I miss actually...

Calling at lunch to find out how your day's going....

Having someone to cuddle with when watching TV.

And...most important...trading massages...
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Jul 20, 2008 4:17 PM CST How do you feel.....
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
stefonline: Hi All,

I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...



Meh, I'm open to living with another man, full time, if the situation presents itself...If not...I'm comfortable with that also....teddybear
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Jul 20, 2008 4:18 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Daniel4021: Your welcome Steph, yeah, I understand, I wrote a poem about the way I percieve how ladies are when they have been torn apart in past relationships.. I really feel for them.. they become so untrusting of other guys and scared to open up, because they fear it will happen all over again... but then it can happen to any of us, man or woman...

The question I think is, do we really want someone in our life bad enough to take that chance?




I dont feel I need anyone that bad......life is good just the way it is......cant imagine that someone could enhance my life anymore than it already is.....hug
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Jul 20, 2008 4:19 PM CST How do you feel.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: Having been alone longer than attached in life overall...I say I'm pretty content to be alone.

It's the little things I miss actually...

Calling at lunch to find out how your day's going....

Having someone to cuddle with when watching TV.

And...most important...trading massages...




Cant say that I miss any of those too much......but if I need a massage I will take a trip to the beauty salon......roll eyes
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