I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with. Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
Well Steph, as for me, I have become used to not having a lady in my life, but I still have the desire to want one in my life, at least a girlfriend, living together I think at this point wouldn't be a big issue right now, but if the relationship were to grow to the point of really becomming something more that just dating.. living together would more than likely happen...
In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.
rwantin: In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.
Makes perfect sense....I'm there with you on that interpretion....
Getting use to someone elses life style could be a challenge after being alone for so long....
Daniel4021: Well Steph, as for me, I have become used to not having a lady in my life, but I still have the desire to want one in my life, at least a girlfriend, living together I think at this point wouldn't be a big issue right now, but if the relationship were to grow to the point of really becomming something more that just dating.. living together would more than likely happen...
Thank's for your response D.....much appreciated......I think I would be actually terrified to share my life with someone again.....
rwantin: In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.
rwantin: In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.
It all makes perfect sense to me......and yes one dose get very used to not having someone around......adapt is not something I'm sure I ever want to do again.....
Justme4uok: Makes perfect sense....I'm there with you on that interpretion....Getting use to someone elses life style could be a challenge after being alone for so long....
Just getting used to someone new can be challanging......
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with. Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
stefonline: Thank's for your response D.....much appreciated......I think I would be actually terrified to share my life with someone again.....
Your welcome Steph, yeah, I understand, I wrote a poem about the way I percieve how ladies are when they have been torn apart in past relationships.. I really feel for them.. they become so untrusting of other guys and scared to open up, because they fear it will happen all over again... but then it can happen to any of us, man or woman...
The question I think is, do we really want someone in our life bad enough to take that chance?
I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with. Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
Meh, I'm open to living with another man, full time, if the situation presents itself...If not...I'm comfortable with that also....
Daniel4021: Your welcome Steph, yeah, I understand, I wrote a poem about the way I percieve how ladies are when they have been torn apart in past relationships.. I really feel for them.. they become so untrusting of other guys and scared to open up, because they fear it will happen all over again... but then it can happen to any of us, man or woman...
The question I think is, do we really want someone in our life bad enough to take that chance?
I dont feel I need anyone that bad......life is good just the way it is......cant imagine that someone could enhance my life anymore than it already is.....
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I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...