why are men so difficult? why cant they just say what they feel..if u like someone then tell them, if u dont then tell them!! stop beating around the bush, trying not to hurt their feelings..it hurts more when u just lead them on.....
Well Jen it's not just men , its also women most people male and female are after one thing and one thing only... Most realationships are based on in the bed instead of in the heart.
Im also a very sensitive guy but to understand the way people feel or think we would be God..... Thats where that trust honesty and faithfulness come into to play and that is hard to find in a man or woman.
Doog, Some will say that fewer words can most of the time convey the point what one is trying to say. And Doog, you had just summed it up in one sentence
because 90% of the time u woman want more than u got and dont want to work with what u have , so we (men) dont express r self and just go with the flow to satisfy them (ladies) until it just dies for both also we suffer to we (men) do have hearts and feel emotional pain,
90% of the time? you're joking, right? We and You are all human with emotions...No different at all. Blanket statements made with bitterness shine through loud and clear...Don't cover us all with that blanket...We take resposibilty for our actions (or should - not all do), and go fom there. Yup, sometimes we want more...But, if we aren't getting what we need as opposed to what you THINK we need without communications wouldn't you? curious.
i agree nene not everyone is the same not all men are diff. and not all women are diff. my problem is i am honest and i tell it like it is and what it is i want most(not all guys) i have dated dont have good communication skills or say they do and then when it comes time to talk or show the actions of communciation they cant
Laurie, this place and people here have helped me to communicate. I think putting our thoughts and feelings on these threads are actually helping people to communicate. It feels real to me when I answer on a thread.
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