cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
A man of 38 and a lady of 25, what they have in common? They both wanna settle down. Those are the ages when both genders wanna settle down...in principle. The man i'm stalking for 5 years now is 4 years older than me. He is not at all thinking of settling. I'm gonna have to give up and find myself a left over, divorced or terribly frustrated over 40!
PS: No, not all single man over 40 are frustrated, stay back, back
kitzer: I've noticed, and not just of late, that most guys profiles specify age ranges way younger than themselves. I saw one just now, he was 38, said age range 18-28. Another 38 wanted women 25-30.
Now, I dont wanna seem ageist or anything, but I just wonder what would a 25 year old have in common with a 38 year old?? I know tastes in music etc are not necessarily age-related but come on guys!!! Surely you are more likely to find common ground with a woman nearer your own age ?
I suspect that a 38 year old may have sown his wild oats and want to settle down and have kids, in which case he has better chance with younger women.... but a fifty-something, who wants a thirty-something ?? That's TWENTY years, for **** sake !
If women were to specify guys fifteen to twenty years younger than them, we would be villified, laughed at, scorned etc etc.... So what do all you guys and gals out there think ??
Not me, that's for damn sure. check my profile. Kitzer, Those guy's are pinheads that haven't figured out that they will be bored to tears with those girls in a week. Your lucky they are so easily elimanated from your search!!
Not me...i prefer older women, but if i have a younger woman 21 so to speak..contact me and i dig her...and she is way more mature..i will go..after her...but
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
cardsfan24: Not me...i prefer older women, but if i have a younger woman 21 so to speak..contact me and i dig her...and she is way more mature..i will go..after her...but
cardsfan24: Not me...i prefer older women, but if i have a younger woman 21 so to speak..contact me and i dig her...and she is way more mature..i will go..after her...but
A lot of older women KNOW what they want...and don't play games...they are straight up...they don't want to waste time if they are just chasing their tail so to speak..
Plus women with age is like wine...the both get better with age...
cardsfan24: A lot of older women KNOW what they want...and don't play games...they are straight up...they don't want to waste time if they are just chasing their tail so to speak..
Plus women with age is like wine...the both get better with age...
Really?
And do younger men know what they want?
Younger wine?
You open, you leave the bottle to breathe, or you know it is young so you taste is, all that tannin, you leave it, hoping it ages with air and it just becomes more acidic.
I look at younger man as a young brie, you unwrap it, then leave it at room temperature for a day or so, hoping that it ripens and runs all over the board, you look and see the hard bit in the middle and the darn thing just stays hard.
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
cardsfan24: A lot of older women KNOW what they want...and don't play games...they are straight up...they don't want to waste time if they are just chasing their tail so to speak..
Plus women with age is like wine...the both get better with age...
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The man i'm stalking for 5 years now is 4 years older than me. He is not at all thinking of settling. I'm gonna have to give up and find myself a left over, divorced or terribly frustrated over 40!
PS: No, not all single man over 40 are frustrated, stay back, back