nuala: Thanks Ginger for your kind words.....but when i met Jim i had no intentions of getting into a relationship again.....not because of how my husband died but because i wanted to learn to live with me, myself and I, and i did and i was when i started talking to Jim. He was away for 3 months so we kinda gave each other a sense of something nice to happen for us, that was meeting up for the first time in Dec. 2006.....We both speak from the heart and i think we found ourselves in the other person, like soulmates.......and we still dont take for granted what we have with each other as we never know when the day could come and it all would be taken away from us.....so we are thankful for what we have, not what we want! I hope you understand what it is i am trying to say here and i hope i dont sound as if i am boasting or braggin as thats is not my intention.......
But never give up hope, i feel its our hopes and dreams that help us carry on in life because without them we are lost.....
MTHead: I have a hard time beliving that I will ever find the one that was meant for me, let alone find them online. I just want to know how many have faith that there is someone out there for each of us? And how many just hope there is? I would like to belive that true love is real, but I look around me, and think I would have better luck beliving in the tooth fairy. I hope that anyone who looks for love finds it, but sometimes we must face it, true love is a rare, and mythological thing. Some of us must be content to be alone, or at least tolerate it. Such is the cruel world we live in. Good Luck to those who search, I pray you find what your looking for. OUT!
I had posted on this yesterday, that I think I already had. And yesterday turned out to be a very bad day for me. And thru it all I found that I indeed have met the one for me right here online! Don't knock CS. or the internet. It opens up the world to you. It may take years to sort thru and find the one for you. Or you might find that person right away but either way when you find them it is all worth it!
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But never give up hope, i feel its our hopes and dreams that help us carry on in life because without them we are lost.....
She really hates my guts honest love you honey