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Aug 24, 2008 2:14 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
RedHeadedTaurus: " Mature women better lovers? "What is your definition of a mature woman? Is it all about age...or?
In my own experience... a bad kisser can be an instant turn-off ---- so I can understand how that can have an effect.
On the other hand, if you like someone well enough - once again, in my own experience ... there are ways to give tips, re: kissing......
Depends on your intent... (?)


Just curious,, is being a lousy kisser a fairly common thing?

It wasn't for a lack of her trying.

since she keeps trying, I don't mind teaching her at all, I just hope later on that I don't have to teach her the rest as well.

I can overcome anything as long as she is willing to improve a bitroll eyes

Im patient.
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Aug 24, 2008 2:19 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
airliner: Mature women and good lovers are both relative terms. Chemistry, passion and sesual mind are the main components and none of which are gender or age specific


sensual mind!
Thats just it.
my question partly being, can an older woman be as willing to improve as when we were younger?

Mindset kind of.
guess it depends on if she is willing.

I am kind of afraid of what I know about her that she just hasn't been with a guy that cared enough to teach her right,

I think it depends a lot on the guys attitude as well..
I AM NOT like most guys.
if the goal is only to get some action... what the hell is the point!

peace
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Aug 24, 2008 2:23 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
cmf333
cmf333cmf333warks, UK110 Posts
rasgumby: Just curious,, is being a lousy kisser a fairly common thing?

It wasn't for a lack of her trying.

since she keeps trying, I don't mind teaching her at all, I just hope later on that I don't have to teach her the rest as well.

I can overcome anything as long as she is willing to improve a bit

Im patient.


Forgive me if i sound blunt - but if its going on its going on u KNOW it- its only grounded what im saying - i know frm when i kiss - where its going should i - if i - would i lol!!!!!!!!
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Aug 24, 2008 2:23 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
gingerb: You are bound to know from her responses to your advances if she is going to be an affectionate person in a tactile way. There are loads of body language ways of finding out, including the kissing.
You do seem to have doubts, instincts, about this, and that is something you should listen to in yourself.


I do also realize some of the problem may be my differences from most other guys.

I am a slightly different animal. usually a pretty serious person.
But like any good book.. I have a lot of differing chapters.

I can also be hard to read at times.

I do not show people here online who I am.
hug
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Aug 24, 2008 2:28 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
cmf333: Forgive me if i sound blunt - but if its going on its going on u KNOW it- its only grounded what im saying - i know frm when i kiss - where its going should i - if i - would i lol!!!!!!!!


Time will tell I guess,
as I previously said... she is definitely very interested, and keeps coming back for more (keeps trying)
There is something else causing it. not a lack of interest.
be it nervous, scared or just never been in a good relationship or whatever.
Not giving up yet, just wanted insite to other reasons that could be the cause.

I have a darn good head on my shoulders, I do not get lost in the moment. I just analyze things.
try to improve. hug
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Aug 24, 2008 2:30 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
Barnagie
BarnagieBarnagieWarsaw, Mazovia Poland28 Threads 3 Polls 819 Posts
Maybe this is not only her fault?
Do you take this into consideration? :)
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Aug 24, 2008 2:31 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
shipoker58: my contempt is for you


damn ship............ go off of your meds again?
Give the lady a break,
why come into this thread just to fight?

I post one or two threads a week or less.. so please give me a break as well.
Take the fighting somewhere else please.handshake
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Aug 24, 2008 2:33 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
Barnagie: Maybe this is not only her fault?
Do you take this into consideration? :)


I've already said that, read my replies.

heck, when it comes to emotional stuff... everything has to be considered.

no 2 people are the same.

But I'm also no mind reader.wave
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Aug 24, 2008 2:38 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: She could be just nervous.....


Yup could be..

Kissing for me as to be..Kissing is where it starts..

If they dont kiss very good..Then teach them...

or if there not that good in bed..then teach them...

I think we all should stop complaining..

TEACH THEM..THIS IS HOW WE LEARN ABOUT THE WORLD...

We all dont know everythingprofessor
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Aug 24, 2008 2:40 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
kissmedeeply: Yup could be..

Kissing for me as to be..Kissing is where it starts..

If they dont kiss very good..Then teach them...

or if there not that good in bed..then teach them...

I think we all should stop complaining..

TEACH THEM..THIS IS HOW WE LEARN ABOUT THE WORLD...

We all dont know everything


what is your teaching schedule like for the upcoming school year?grin
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Aug 24, 2008 2:40 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
rasgumby: damn ship............ go off of your meds again?
Give the lady a break,
why come into this thread just to fight?

I post one or two threads a week or less.. so please give me a break as well.
Take the fighting somewhere else please.




sorry Ras....she has been on my case since I came back on the site!! I'm not the none who started on her
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Aug 24, 2008 2:41 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
airliner: what is your teaching schedule like for the upcoming school year?

Well i quess i have one customergrin
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Aug 24, 2008 2:42 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I say give ship a break he should be able to speak his mind
as well as any..

If they dish it out..then they need to take their bad medicine
as well...

thumbs up
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Aug 24, 2008 2:43 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
kissmedeeply: Yup could be..

Kissing for me as to be..Kissing is where it starts..

If they dont kiss very good..Then teach them...

or if there not that good in bed..then teach them...

I think we all should stop complaining..

TEACH THEM..THIS IS HOW WE LEARN ABOUT THE WORLD...

We all dont know everything


same with me, the kiss is so important. says a thousand words!

as I said, I am patient and in no hurry at all. have all of the time in the world.

Just since I am after all of the male variety... just wanted womens input......... I could easily be missing something.

Not complaining.....
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Aug 24, 2008 2:43 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
kissmedeeply: Well i quess i have one customer


customer??confused

I thought we were talking about teaching....Is this a commercial school of some sort ?laugh
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Aug 24, 2008 2:44 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
cmf333
cmf333cmf333warks, UK110 Posts
rasgumby: Time will tell I guess,
as I previously said... she is definitely very interested, and keeps coming back for more (keeps trying)
There is something else causing it. not a lack of interest.
be it nervous, scared or just never been in a good relationship or whatever.
Not giving up yet, just wanted insite to other reasons that could be the cause.

I have a darn good head on my shoulders, I do not get lost in the moment. I just analyze things.
try to improve.


and from the sounds of it u do- u will know what the score is if ur, open frank and honestfred lol - its for the taking if u want it !!
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Aug 24, 2008 2:45 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
rasgumby: same with me, the kiss is so important. says a thousand words!

as I said, I am patient and in no hurry at all. have all of the time in the world.

Just since I am after all of the male variety... just wanted womens input......... I could easily be missing something.

Not complaining.....


Ras i didnt mean you complaining..

I meant everyone in General

Lost my mind there for a moment when talking about kissingwave
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Aug 24, 2008 2:46 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
shipoker58: sorry Ras....she has been on my case since I came back on the site!! I'm not the none who started on her


we coolhandshake
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Aug 24, 2008 2:46 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
airliner: customer??

I thought we were talking about teaching....Is this a commercial school of some sort ?


Airliner just take it as you see it..grin
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Aug 24, 2008 2:47 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
rasgumby: Since I only date women, I can not speak as to what older men are like romantically.

However, I see so many young guys here looking for older women.
The women I have dated have been my age or very slightly older.
But I can also very clearly remember my younger years.

I have recently dated a gal a few times, not serious yet.
but I am left wondering why so many people think age makes such a difference in experience?

We have had a few petting/ kissing sessions, she is clearly very interested, she is 48and I have not had a worse kisser!!!

Seriously,, it is like kissing a cloths line pole

I have known this gal most of my life, but not sure why the bad kissing thing......but yes it makes a huge difference in where a relationship might head. I mean... seriously... if she can't make love any better than she kisses??????????? ( no I do not know yet)

I know for fact that it is NOT a shyness thing, so it leaves me with the 2 options below-
1. just really not much of an affectionate person? not into the kissing touching thing much or.

2. the guys from her past were so bad that she never learned well??

what do you think?
what might I be missing here?







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professor better stay away from her in the wintertime, you could get your tongue stuckrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing



hmmm maybe she thinks you kiss like wet laundry.......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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