Sommerauer71: I think you need to buy new cornflakes mate.
Why does their have to be rules? Written or unwritten.
Like when a person states, 'this is not how a relationship should be'
How 'should' a relationship be?
People see relationships differently, different levels of what is acceptable in a relationship.
I do not do rules, I abide by the law and pay my taxes on time.
With a relationship, no. No rules, boundaries that are not crossed such as unfaithfulness.
Perhaps you misunderstand me. I am not suggesting there should be such rules. I am merely observing that most people seem to think they exist. I agree with you.
Also I do not buy cornflakes. I have long believed that eating the cardboard packet is probably more nourishing than eating the contents!
Fallingman: Perhaps you misunderstand me. I am not suggesting there should be such rules. I am merely observing that most people seem to think they exist. I agree with you.
Also I do not buy cornflakes. I have long believed that eating the cardboard packet is probably more nourishing than eating the contents!
RillyNiceGuy: I have said many tmes on her that men need to be men. Too many men are like little boys and mommy tells them how to move and do. If they need money for lunch money they ask mommy. But there are also amny men who will not have that and are single for it. They are men and hope to find a woman with some damn sense and meet a man equal and not as attempted ruler. They women lib. movement has proven the old saying,"Give them an inch and they take a mile." A man and a women are to work together for common goals. But today each fight each other to have what they want without consideration of the other. I am a very patient man when it comes to putting up with a little crap......but there is a line drawn.....cross it and your gone. I am a man....kind, loving, caring,understanding,generous, and I will be a man and not a kid....I cover the ground I stand on and I am the ruler of my domain....but I will share the ruling but not be ruled and do not rule over another but meet her equal for common goals. Two flesh become one life.....family!
I do understand what you`re saying, I divorced my husband for not being strong enough to be with me side by side, I got tired of feeling like his mother.... if a man isn´t strong enough to be my partner, he doesn´t have a place in my life. (except as a friend) Funny how I can accept traits in male friends that I would never consider in a partner.
The Women's Rules The female always makes the rules The rules are subject to change at any time without prior notification. No male can possibly know all the rules. If the female suspects the MALE know all the rules, she must immediately change some or all of the rules. The female is never wrong. If the female is wrong, it is due to a misunderstanding which was a result of something the male did or said wrong. The male must apologize immediately for causing said misunderstanding. The female may change her mind at any time. The male must never change his mind without the express written consent of the female. The female has every right to be angry or upset at any time. The male must remain calm at all times unless the female wants him to be angry or upset. The female must, under no circumstances, let the male know whether or not she wants him to be angry and/or upset. The male is expected to mind read at all times. Any attempt to document the rules could result in bodily harm. If the female has PMS, all the rules are null and void. The female is ready when she is ready. The male must be ready at all time. The male who doesn't abide by the rules can't take the heat, lacks backbone, and is a wimp. Author is Unknown, but I bet it's a woman.
Interesting rules but I was thinking more of the rules that determine what is the male role and what is the female one.....why do many women think that a man must be a man....and have a clear idea of what that is but not of why they think it or how they got that idea in the first place!
Yellow isn't really your colour in hair by the way....I bet you dye it! lol
gongman: The Women's Rules The female always makes the rules The rules are subject to change at any time without prior notification. No male can possibly know all the rules. If the female suspects the MALE know all the rules, she must immediately change some or all of the rules. The female is never wrong. If the female is wrong, it is due to a misunderstanding which was a result of something the male did or said wrong. The male must apologize immediately for causing said misunderstanding. The female may change her mind at any time. The male must never change his mind without the express written consent of the female. The female has every right to be angry or upset at any time. The male must remain calm at all times unless the female wants him to be angry or upset. The female must, under no circumstances, let the male know whether or not she wants him to be angry and/or upset. The male is expected to mind read at all times. Any attempt to document the rules could result in bodily harm. If the female has PMS, all the rules are null and void. The female is ready when she is ready. The male must be ready at all time. The male who doesn't abide by the rules can't take the heat, lacks backbone, and is a wimp. Author is Unknown, but I bet it's a woman. Will these do to be going on with ?????
Perfect.
But whether I adhere to them is a different matter.
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I couldn't possibly comment! However I think certain threads attract them more than others.....so far this one seems safe! lol