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Sep 14, 2008 2:48 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
teacherman
teachermanteachermanMilwaukee, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 260 Posts
Dear All,
I have been on this site for about 10 days now. my photo has rated very low and I really want to know what women look for in a photo. I am not deformed, do not have boils and i always wear clean socks and underwear!!!!hahahaha .......I do not think I am a
9-10 but do believe I am somewhere between a 7-8......do others feel this way also? feedback please
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Sep 14, 2008 2:53 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
teacherman: Dear All,
I have been on this site for about 10 days now. my photo has rated very low and I really want to know what women look for in a photo. I am not deformed, do not have boils and i always wear clean socks and underwear!!!!hahahaha .......I do not think I am a
9-10 but do believe I am somewhere between a 7-8......do others feel this way also? feedback please



Like I stated in another thread like yours.

I don't judge photos. I look at how someone conducts themselves in the forums.
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Sep 14, 2008 2:55 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
teacherman: Dear All,
I have been on this site for about 10 days now. my photo has rated very low and I really want to know what women look for in a photo. I am not deformed, do not have boils and i always wear clean socks and underwear!!!!hahahaha .......I do not think I am a
9-10 but do believe I am somewhere between a 7-8......do others feel this way also? feedback please


Hello teacherman....turn it off..handshake cheers

Thats what I did..
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Sep 14, 2008 2:55 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
BarrenPneuma
BarrenPneumaBarrenPneumaGolden Staircase, Ontario Canada87 Threads 3 Polls 1,561 Posts
I am oblivious to the ratings on my photo, and completely forgot to turn them off. But if you are concerned you have to realize that everyone is attracted to something different. If you look to see on the ratings page you can check who liked the photo, if they voted 8, 9, or 10 (I think) they will be listed there for your perusal. Again it is a fairly generalized thing as they often have never looked at your profile and only saw you when they were cruising through endless reams of pictures. I would imagine that like taste and smell, after a few dozen flavours or scents they get a blandness that does not allow them to experience the wholeness of the image.
Personally I know who I am ad do not seek any sort of approval from others for my appearance of all things. I also do not rate photos either as it seems shallow to me. I prefer a woman's mind far more than the vehicle she drives about life in. I am also not looking for anyone so I guess that does make me a bit jaded.
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Sep 14, 2008 2:59 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
teacherman
teachermanteachermanMilwaukee, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 260 Posts
BarrenPneuma: I am oblivious to the ratings on my photo, and completely forgot to turn them off. But if you are concerned you have to realize that everyone is attracted to something different. If you look to see on the ratings page you can check who liked the photo, if they voted 8, 9, or 10 (I think) they will be listed there for your perusal. Again it is a fairly generalized thing as they often have never looked at your profile and only saw you when they were cruising through endless reams of pictures. I would imagine that like taste and smell, after a few dozen flavours or scents they get a blandness that does not allow them to experience the wholeness of the image.
Personally I know who I am ad do not seek any sort of approval from others for my appearance of all things. I also do not rate photos either as it seems shallow to me. I prefer a woman's mind far more than the vehicle she drives about life in. I am also not looking for anyone so I guess that does make me a bit jaded.


good comment...and i do judge myself more harshly than others ever would....i don't have a companion and it seems a little useless sometimes to even be here if women find my appearance so unacceptable......after all the photo is what attracts people to read the profile.....my ego has just taken a hit here recently.
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Sep 14, 2008 3:02 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
teacherman
teachermanteachermanMilwaukee, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 260 Posts
phoenix: Hello teacherman....turn it off..

Thats what I did..


good answer! you are a good looking young guy though. i wouldn't think you would have this issue....me i'm a little older with a few extra pounds......
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Sep 14, 2008 3:04 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
I don't rate photo's either, learn about a person form here gives a good insight , seriously ignore it.
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Sep 14, 2008 3:07 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
teacherman
teachermanteachermanMilwaukee, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 260 Posts
morgan5: I don't rate photo's either, learn about a person form here gives a good insight , seriously ignore it.


Thanks....yours are lovely by the way!
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Sep 14, 2008 3:08 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
BarrenPneuma
BarrenPneumaBarrenPneumaGolden Staircase, Ontario Canada87 Threads 3 Polls 1,561 Posts
teacherman: good comment...and i do judge myself more harshly than others ever would....i don't have a companion and it seems a little useless sometimes to even be here if women find my appearance so unacceptable......after all the photo is what attracts people to read the profile.....my ego has just taken a hit here recently.


I also do not have a companion. I do not feel that circumstances in my life are appropriate to share with someone else at this point. I am happy being me and finding the parts I have lost over the years. It would seem unfair to a woman to offer her half of what I should be and expect any more from her in return. I believe that it is not 50/50 but 100/100 in a committment and as I can not offer that I do not wish to burden any lovely woman with my own hollowness.
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Sep 14, 2008 3:10 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
teacherman
teachermanteachermanMilwaukee, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 260 Posts
BarrenPneuma: I also do not have a companion. I do not feel that circumstances in my life are appropriate to share with someone else at this point. I am happy being me and finding the parts I have lost over the years. It would seem unfair to a woman to offer her half of what I should be and expect any more from her in return. I believe that it is not 50/50 but 100/100 in a committment and as I can not offer that I do not wish to burden any lovely woman with my own hollowness.


been there BP...now my life is good though and i can offer 100%.
you are definetely right about 100%-100%
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Sep 14, 2008 3:11 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
teacherman: Thanks....yours are lovely by the way!
thank you hug enjoy CS
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Sep 14, 2008 3:14 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
The people who rate photos are the superficial ones who only care about looks anyway. The rest of us judge you by your personality. dunno
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Sep 14, 2008 3:21 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
teacherman
teachermanteachermanMilwaukee, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 260 Posts
alabamabebe: The people who rate photos are the superficial ones who only care about looks anyway. The rest of us judge you by your personality.


i am very curious to know if others have the same question.....anybody?
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Sep 14, 2008 3:25 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
teacherman: Dear All,
I have been on this site for about 10 days now. my photo has rated very low and I really want to know what women look for in a photo. I am not deformed, do not have boils and i always wear clean socks and underwear!!!!hahahaha .......I do not think I am a
9-10 but do believe I am somewhere between a 7-8......do others feel this way also? feedback please


I think in the grander scheme of things, its neither here nor there really...?? That said, I had disabled the comments but, in error, missed one. One time recently, when I was feeling a little low, I noticed some cheery comments that lifted my spirits, so I enabled them all..... since then, nothing!!!

Haa haa.... just another of life's little ironies??!! roll eyes

rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 14, 2008 3:29 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
teacherman
teachermanteachermanMilwaukee, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 260 Posts
roseofsharon: I think in the grander scheme of things, its neither here nor there really...?? That said, I had disabled the comments but, in error, missed one. One time recently, when I was feeling a little low, I noticed some cheery comments that lifted my spirits, so I enabled them all..... since then, nothing!!!

Haa haa.... just another of life's little ironies??!!



ros....yeah i know this feeling....it is neither here nor there but those nice comments and ratings can give us a little boost in our day....
for me anyway it's just part of my human condition and feelings...
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Sep 14, 2008 3:31 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
teacherman: ros....yeah i know this feeling....it is neither here nor there but those nice comments and ratings can give us a little boost in our day....
for me anyway it's just part of my human condition and feelings...


Indeed!! That's why I enabled the comments again...

Ahhhh... still, I enjoyed it briefly while it lasted, yes!!

Good thread, my friend. thumbs up
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Sep 14, 2008 3:35 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
teacherman
teachermanteachermanMilwaukee, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 260 Posts
roseofsharon: Indeed!! That's why I enabled the comments again...

Ahhhh... still, I enjoyed it briefly while it lasted, yes!!

Good thread, my friend.



Thanks...enquiring minds want to know!!!!!
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Sep 14, 2008 4:04 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Your pics are uniquelaugh

I have this lovely pic where i'm holding flowers, i don't understand why not more rating on it

sigh so, choose better pics maybe if you care?dunno
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Sep 14, 2008 4:11 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
teacherman
teachermanteachermanMilwaukee, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 260 Posts
cristina: Your pics are unique

I have this lovely pic where i'm holding flowers, i don't understand why not more rating on it

so, choose better pics maybe if you care?



Hi cristina...thanks...the unfortunate thing for me is the 1 in the suit and the hawaiian shirt ARE my best pics......hahahahaha
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Sep 14, 2008 4:17 AM CST How do you feel about your photo rating here?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
I love the way you express yourself.

To me, the one on your suit is the best. The rest are a bit of a commedy, so it depends on each one's sense of humourrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

uh oh
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