LACali: I'm very glad they caught it and hope that you will continue to be ok. I'm so glad you posted this. If you look at my pics I'm dead white and I've lived in a warm climate my entire life, in fact, in a beach city my whole life. Most of the people around here are the same. We don't tan and we use sunblock religiously. I just cringe when I see people baking or using chemicals on their skin. Some of the fair skinned, light eyed people I grew up with developed skin cancer (in childhood and high school we spent our lives at the beach and learned the hard way) and when I warn people they just laugh. Maybe some people will read this and see how serious it is.
thanks for your nice thoughts, very kind of you.
Yes it is a very serious ordeal...I used to be "one" of those who would of probably laughed, cuz i did when my mom would tell me i forget the sunscreen...Skin cancer is for sure nothing to mess with and am glad I got a second chance...am sure im on my 4th or 5th chance by now, so i better shape up..
kitty01: Glad you did not wait any longer before you went and had it checked. A lot of us fear going to the doctor in case it is cancer, but now from you we see how not waiting too long turns out the best.
Get well, and speedy recovery.
Yeah I waited way to long, knowing I should be going and it was the fear that it would be something serious. My waiting didnt change the outcome, just made it a bigger cut..
My mum was asking when i spoke to you and got back home .. was she crying ? ..
Phew .. glad its over for you ..
haha thanks riya...
I had cried alot the days after i talked to you and before the actual surgery. I kept tellin myself its "only" skin cancer, the spot isnt that big, I caught it on time...but it didnt really help much, not when I have 3 kids to raise alone and need to make sure there ok. And watching them worry was hard. I tried not to tell them much in the begining, but the last couple days I talked with my older ones.
Plus inbetween the surgeries was when we were moving, at least it kept my mind busy.
thanks for all your talks riya and your prayers, I couldnt of asked for any more from a friend.
I had cried alot the days after i talked to you and before the actual surgery. I kept tellin myself its "only" skin cancer, the spot isnt that big, I caught it on time...but it didnt really help much, not when I have 3 kids to raise alone and need to make sure there ok. And watching them worry was hard. I tried not to tell them much in the begining, but the last couple days I talked with my older ones.
Plus inbetween the surgeries was when we were moving, at least it kept my mind busy.
thanks for all your talks riya and your prayers, I couldnt of asked for any more from a friend.
you dont have to say thanks.
I am glad it was all over and done in time .. very happy for you.
blue_eyed_blonde: I really wasn't gonna post about this, but I decided maybe it could be a benefit to someone out there.
About a month ago, I finally went to my doctor about a funny looking mole I had on my thigh. He removed it and sent it to a pathologist who confirmed it was malignant melanoma...grrrr!
Last Wed., I had surgery to take out extra tissue to make sure they got all the cancer out. I got the news Friday that there was no cancer cells in the tissue they removed..so I'm blessed. They took out a section 2 inches by 7.5 inches, and went 2 inches deep. It hurts and I'm not always in the best of moods, but again am thankful that they got it all.
Not sure why I got it...if it was from all the years of tanning and fake baking or if it was just a fluke. For whatever reason, I got it and it was a very scary situation.
Just in case any of you think sometime just isn't right about yourself or if you think a harmless "mole" isn't a big deal...learn from me, I waited a year before I went to the doctor...be smarter then me and get things checked out sooner...
My best to you all...
Yes there is a connection with tanning beds and skin cancer
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thanks for your nice thoughts, very kind of you.
Yes it is a very serious ordeal...I used to be "one" of those who would of probably laughed, cuz i did when my mom would tell me i forget the sunscreen...Skin cancer is for sure nothing to mess with and am glad I got a second chance...am sure im on my 4th or 5th chance by now, so i better shape up..
thanks for your post