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Sep 19, 2008 11:41 AM CST Starting over???
JSean
JSeanJSeanLacona, New York USA3 Threads 1 Polls 11 Posts
It kills me when I see a profile by an 18-20something yo who "has been through the ringer" or cant find love yadda yadda yadda jaw drop

what are they thinking?? If you want a husband at 18 then maybe you should get adopted by a fmaily from India and get an arranged marrige!! frustrated

At 18 finding a "commited relationship was furthest from my mind.

Am I cynical or just have a different way of looking at things???
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Sep 19, 2008 11:44 AM CST Starting over???
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I understand where you are coming from. But everyone has their own story to tell. Some people who are 18 have lived terrible lives with alot of heartache already. It may not be the norm, but it does happen...handshake
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Sep 19, 2008 11:44 AM CST Starting over???
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
I don't think so. I've seen them too. "I've been cheated on & want to find a decent girl"... laugh Give yourself time for pete's sakes!! uh oh
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Sep 19, 2008 11:45 AM CST Starting over???
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
JSean: It kills me when I see a profile by an 18-20something yo who "has been through the ringer" or cant find love yadda yadda yadda

what are they thinking?? If you want a husband at 18 then maybe you should get adopted by a fmaily from India and get an arranged marrige!!

At 18 finding a "commited relationship was furthest from my mind.

Am I cynical or just have a different way of looking at things???


I agree with what you mean, however, the highlighted statement wasn't necessary.


Bad boy. roll eyes
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Sep 19, 2008 11:47 AM CST Starting over???
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
JSean: It kills me when I see a profile by an 18-20something yo who "has been through the ringer" or cant find love yadda yadda yadda

what are they thinking?? If you want a husband at 18 then maybe you should get adopted by a fmaily from India and get an arranged marrige!!

At 18 finding a "commited relationship was furthest from my mind.

Am I cynical or just have a different way of looking at things???


tongue
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Sep 19, 2008 11:48 AM CST Starting over???
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
I met my bf at age fourteen. When not getting what you need at home, you will find it else where.
Married him at twenty, came to Canada 6 weeks later.

You are right though it should not have been so.
Have fun and go out with boys and girls, nothing serious.
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Sep 19, 2008 11:50 AM CST Starting over???
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Ages between 17- 23......I don't think people should get married so young. scold
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Sep 19, 2008 11:53 AM CST Starting over???
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
JSean: It kills me when I see a profile by an 18-20something yo who "has been through the ringer" or cant find love yadda yadda yadda

what are they thinking?? If you want a husband at 18 then maybe you should get adopted by a fmaily from India and get an arranged marrige!!

At 18 finding a "commited relationship was furthest from my mind.

Am I cynical or just have a different way of looking at things???


wave all


Just have a different way of looking at things is about right

cheers
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Sep 19, 2008 12:02 PM CST Starting over???
pyaremohan
pyaremohanpyaremohandelhi, Delhi India19 Threads 1,084 Posts
JSean: It kills me when I see a profile by an 18-20something yo who "has been through the ringer" or cant find love yadda yadda yadda

what are they thinking?? If you want a husband at 18 then maybe you should get adopted by a fmaily from India and get an arranged marrige!!

At 18 finding a "commited relationship was furthest from my mind.

Am I cynical or just have a different way of looking at things???



confused some girls do get married at 18 here .
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Sep 19, 2008 12:05 PM CST Starting over???
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
pyaremohan: some girls do get married at 18 here .


Is it all arranged?

wave
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Sep 19, 2008 12:08 PM CST Starting over???
pyaremohan
pyaremohanpyaremohandelhi, Delhi India19 Threads 1,084 Posts
lusciousmile: Is it all arranged?



Am really surprised ppl comment on somethin so generally without knowing the facts............not all r arranged nowadays.....we had child marriages like 40 yrs back..........since 60s the trend is changin ...but quite a no r still arranged
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Sep 19, 2008 12:09 PM CST Starting over???
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
pyaremohan: Am really surprised ppl comment on somethin so generally without knowing the facts............not all r arranged nowadays.....we had child marriages like 40 yrs back..........since 60s the trend is changin ...but quite a no r still arranged


I asked, thanks for the answer. handshake
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Sep 19, 2008 12:11 PM CST Starting over???
pyaremohan
pyaremohanpyaremohandelhi, Delhi India19 Threads 1,084 Posts
lusciousmile: I asked, thanks for the answer.

Ur most welcome , never meant any offence handshake
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Sep 19, 2008 12:11 PM CST Starting over???
pyaremohan
pyaremohanpyaremohandelhi, Delhi India19 Threads 1,084 Posts
lusciousmile: I asked, thanks for the answer.



Anythin else ya would want to ask about India ??? ur welcome
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Sep 19, 2008 12:11 PM CST Starting over???
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I say Each to their own...

Cannot speak for anyone else about love here...

Just all the best to each and everyone
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Sep 19, 2008 12:12 PM CST Starting over???
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
pyaremohan: Ur most welcome , never meant any offence


None take. laugh

I know a few indians ( in my country) who aren't married to people they don't want to. applause
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Sep 19, 2008 12:13 PM CST Starting over???
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
lusciousmile: None take.

I know a few indians ( in my country) who aren't married to people they don't want to.


None taken, i meant. roll eyes
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Sep 19, 2008 12:14 PM CST Starting over???
pyaremohan
pyaremohanpyaremohandelhi, Delhi India19 Threads 1,084 Posts
lusciousmile: None taken, i meant.



hug
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Sep 19, 2008 12:16 PM CST Starting over???
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
pyaremohan: hug


hug
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Sep 19, 2008 12:19 PM CST Starting over???
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
hollandgirl: I met my bf at age fourteen. When not getting what you need at home, you will find it else where.
Married him at twenty, came to Canada 6 weeks later.

You are right though it should not have been so.
Have fun and go out with boys and girls, nothing serious.




And just where is yourteddybear ???? You've been bad! Go to my room!!
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