Hmm... prospective please? Confused. ( Archived) (24)

MysticalUnicorn: So there's this guy, I been out with a number of times since we met I think back in May. He gets busy a lot doing his own thing, as do I so seeing eachother isn't that often. He seems nice, respectable, never tried to kiss or hold hands or anything so I assume we're just friends. Few days ago, he tells me he thinks about me, misses me, and wants us to "see where it goes". Apparently on our next date he said to be more affectionate(kiss?) but he didn't MAKE a date with me yet. Also said he wasn't going to date others as he likes me, but that i'm free to date still. And doesn't label us as "together" wont change Facebook status or anything like that. Now I am not one to date around, so i'd date him and just him, but on the other hand, does it sound like a bit of a time waster? I have told other guys interested about this, and said I was going to see where it's going......I guess I believe in honesty.

jbibiza: I´m 48 and if anything I´ve gotten pickier.... I would never settle... not fair to the guy and not right for me.

curious0george: I'd walk, but I'm 38 and am too tired to play games. At your age there are MANY fish in the sea Mystical. for less than ideal or ambiguous situations (or not). Don't compromise unless there's something really compelling about him. Just my 2 cents...