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MysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada15 Threads 1 Polls 180 PostsI discovered this with recent dating...Guys expect you to wear makeup and be all dolled up etc. to go out on a date....SOMETIMES, ya just don't feel like it. At least I don't. I'm not really a make-up kind of person, I have to be in the mood. I don't like to make dates in advance, incase the day of---I want to just stay home. Again, this is my issue but I don't always LIKE going out, I have to be in the mood, and if you say you aren't they get offended. And the latest, they think the world should revolve around them. They will say "talk to you later" and not come online, which is okay doesn't bother me, but when I say internet is boring and I want to go off and do something BESIDES talk to them, they say "whatever".
I am giving up on this online dating thing. Maybe it's just me, but I like my own space. I've always been a bit of a loner. And it seems like if you aren't there all the time, or you say no...you get deleted/they don't talk to you anymore like some major rejection. Maybe they aren't used to hearing no? I mean, I say "Lets make it for another day" or "talk to you tomorrow" or something like that. It isn't rejecting them totally, just for that day/time etc. when I am not in the mood. If the shoe was on the other foot, i'd understand?
I am giving up on this online dating thing. Maybe it's just me, but I like my own space. I've always been a bit of a loner. And it seems like if you aren't there all the time, or you say no...you get deleted/they don't talk to you anymore like some major rejection. Maybe they aren't used to hearing no? I mean, I say "Lets make it for another day" or "talk to you tomorrow" or something like that. It isn't rejecting them totally, just for that day/time etc. when I am not in the mood. If the shoe was on the other foot, i'd understand?------ This thread is Archived ------
I think you should try getting dates in real life and just wait before you try things out in the digital world.
It sounds like you are not ready for a relationship. Just go out and have fun....heck, be a player if you need that kind of fun without the commitments that may intrude on your individual freedom...
and I never expect women to wear make up....I actually really never notice....
It sounds like you are not ready for a relationship. Just go out and have fun....heck, be a player if you need that kind of fun without the commitments that may intrude on your individual freedom...
and I never expect women to wear make up....I actually really never notice....
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Don't give up. .If they don't understand, its too bad. People need space.. People need time also and neither of you belong to the other person, so its okay up until you actually start a relationship.
As for make-up, geez, you certainly don't need any anyways, you are a beautiful woman!!!!!
As for make-up, geez, you certainly don't need any anyways, you are a beautiful woman!!!!!
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problems problems problems.....
what the heck?
If it feels good.....
do it.......
your choice, your buzz, your journey......
whatever it is that turns you on.......
problems problems problems.....
what the heck?
If it feels good.....
do it.......
your choice, your buzz, your journey......
whatever it is that turns you on.......
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