Maybe the down side to an internet romance is the inability to express your self physically..but on the other hand you get to learn so much about the person while talking to each other..we all feel a lot more comfortable sharing things on the net cause we perceive it as a safer environment then RL..it takes a lot more time to open up to someone in person and that is one of the advantages of the internet communication..
Of course meeting in person is a must and within a reasonable time frame..and when you do you will either confirm your thoughts and feelings, or not..that is the risk we all have to take when we start an internet romance..
Though love a basic human emotion and we are all hoping to find it, here on CS or somewhere else..and really we can never plan those things they just happen (sometimes when you least expect them)..I try to remember to keep the door opened and not be skeptical about it..We must be on CS for a reason (even though we might not realize it at the moment)..
Hope for the best and expect the worst (I think it applies to everything in life)
I've read about some success stories on CS and I've read about some not so great ones too..but isn't it the same in RL too?
kamelia: Every time you fall in love you take a chance..
I don't see it to be any different on the net..
Maybe the down side to an internet romance is the inability to express your self physically..but on the other hand you get to learn so much about the person while talking to each other..we all feel a lot more comfortable sharing things on the net cause we perceive it as a safer environment then RL..it takes a lot more time to open up to someone in person and that is one of the advantages of the internet communication..
Of course meeting in person is a must and within a reasonable time frame..and when you do you will either confirm your thoughts and feelings, or not..that is the risk we all have to take when we start an internet romance..
Though love a basic human emotion and we are all hoping to find it, here on CS or somewhere else..and really we can never plan those things they just happen (sometimes when you least expect them)..I try to remember to keep the door opened and not be skeptical about it..We must be on CS for a reason (even though we might not realize it at the moment)..
Hope for the best and expect the worst (I think it applies to everything in life)
I've read about some success stories on CS and I've read about some not so great ones too..but isn't it the same in RL too?
I'm not sure I'd go that far, But you can hope for the best expect the best and plan for the worst.
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