good catholic family, all that. they have made it VERY clear that i would NEVER be cremated. i'm fairly certain donating myself falls under the same category.
I don't care burn me or dig a hole and drop me in it.. It's the party afterwords that really matters.. In my will it states : Anyone that cry's or sobs will asked to leave! It will not be a wake, it will be a celebration of life ..... When people I love die I remember what they gave to me and what they did to touch my life. Not Piss and moan about them dieing.
Yes greif is real, but can you see how selfish we become when a loved one dies? We seem to get upset that they will no longer be there for US. I envy the dead, they know what is really there for us when we die. I have to keep wondering ......
everytime i think about my aunts funeral i want to burst into tears, my aunts daughter held the coffin at the service and its just something i cant get out of my head ive never saw someone grieve so much and shes pregnant now and its such a shame shes not here to see it. she was to young to die she gave up as soon as she was told she had cancer but i totally understand why.it was to late anyway it had spread to her liver and died shortly after
i agree. it IS selfish. but still a part of being human. i try to be there for everyone else and not focus on me...however, you DO have to let go...to experience that. i choose the quiet solitude of my room, with noone around.
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