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Nov 25, 2008 4:52 PM CST I tried....
Dreamer82
Dreamer82Dreamer82Wahiawa, Hawaii USA25 Threads 299 Posts
I met this woman at school, she has similar asserations as I do. We've become friends, she's a struggling actress, and I want to get into filmmaking. A little bit of time passed, and I became interested. Up until recently, I had kept trying with no luck for a relationship. Finally, we met one Saturday, and she told me she was looking for. God, she sounded like a gold digger. It was like because I don't yet have a nice car, a six figure bank account, and three credit cards she want nothing romantically to do with me. We're still friends, and I see her around every now and then, but I've given up on her romantically.

What do you think?dunno dunno
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Nov 25, 2008 4:59 PM CST I tried....
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
I think she's a gold digger, and you're a great guy if you can still be friends with her.

I hope you find someone who loves you for you now...before you get the bank account.

I don't know about you, but I'd rather have someone who loved me for me, not my bank account and car.
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Nov 25, 2008 5:02 PM CST I tried....
druidess6308: I think she's a gold digger, and you're a great guy if you can still be friends with her.

I hope you find someone who loves you for you now...before you get the bank account.

I don't know about you, but I'd rather have someone who loved me for me, not my bank account and car.


Maybe she is just making it clear that she is tired of no job losers and wants some financial stability in her relationships dunno

drinking
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Nov 25, 2008 7:02 PM CST I tried....
Dreamer82
Dreamer82Dreamer82Wahiawa, Hawaii USA25 Threads 299 Posts
That's no excuse though, I've heard it time, and time again. It's what's in the heart that counts, but that's obviously not what she looking for. It's just plain wrong.

scold scold
X5323601: Maybe she is just making it clear that she is tired of no job losers and wants some financial stability in her relationships
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Nov 25, 2008 7:17 PM CST I tried....
Dreamer82: That's no excuse though, I've heard it time, and time again. It's what's in the heart that counts, but that's obviously not what she looking for. It's just plain wrong.


Why did you want opinions?

drinking
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Nov 25, 2008 7:19 PM CST I tried....
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
Well if she sounds like that and your gut feels that way then she prob is one..
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Nov 25, 2008 7:20 PM CST I tried....
DarkKnight2032
DarkKnight2032DarkKnight2032West Jordan, Utah USA14 Threads 960 Posts
X5323601: Why did you want opinions?


I think he just needed some where to vent.

We all do, we all have met that type of person in our lives, just got to buckle down and go forward.
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Nov 25, 2008 7:20 PM CST I tried....
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Dreamer82: I met this woman at school, she has similar asserations as I do. We've become friends, she's a struggling actress, and I want to get into filmmaking. A little bit of time passed, and I became interested. Up until recently, I had kept trying with no luck for a relationship. Finally, we met one Saturday, and she told me she was looking for. God, she sounded like a gold digger. It was like because I don't yet have a nice car, a six figure bank account, and three credit cards she want nothing romantically to do with me. We're still friends, and I see her around every now and then, but I've given up on her romantically.

What do you think?
Keep you head in filmmaking and you will have all of that.
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Nov 25, 2008 7:24 PM CST I tried....
Dreamer82
Dreamer82Dreamer82Wahiawa, Hawaii USA25 Threads 299 Posts
Opinions yes, excuses no.cheers
X5323601: Why did you want opinions?
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Nov 25, 2008 7:25 PM CST I tried....
Dreamer82: Opinions yes, excuses no.


roll eyes talk to hand

drinking
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Nov 25, 2008 7:31 PM CST I tried....
blueriver30
blueriver30blueriver30amherst, Nova Scotia Canada12 Threads 558 Posts
X5323601: Maybe she is just making it clear that she is tired of no job losers and wants some financial stability in her relationships


He didn't say he didn't have a job, he said he didin't have a 6 figure bank account and a nice car. Who does? That doesn't make him a loser. JMO if she choses a man according to financial stabilty then she is a loser::cheers: wave
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Nov 25, 2008 7:33 PM CST I tried....
blueriver30: He didn't say he didn't have a job, he said he didin't have a 6 figure bank account and a nice car. Who does? That doesn't make him a loser. JMO if she choses a man according to financial stabilty then she is a loser:


Nor did I say he was a jobless loser. It's a simple fact some ladies want financial security in the package. They may not say it and it's not necessarily a bad thing either. It takes all types.

drinking
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Nov 25, 2008 7:54 PM CST I tried....
blueriver30
blueriver30blueriver30amherst, Nova Scotia Canada12 Threads 558 Posts
X5323601: Nor did I say he was a jobless loser. It's a simple fact some ladies want financial security in the package. They may not say it and it's not necessarily a bad thing either. It takes all types.


yes that's true it does take all typeswave
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