hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
mylifewithu: Most of us will be spending the holiday's all alone like we usually do duhhhhhh
That is the point most of us do. Dinner and dancing at our clubhouse for New Year's but don't yet know if I will join them. Msny getting looped and very noicy. May just get a bottle of wine and watch some good programs on the TV.
hollandgirl: That is the point most of us do. Dinner and dancing at our clubhouse for New Year's but don't yet know if I will join them. Msny getting looped and very noicy. May just get a bottle of wine and watch some good programs on the TV.
Will be a volunteer for Christmas this year
No I mean we will be sitting right here on the computer as we do every freaking Holiday.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
mylifewithu: No I mean we will be sitting right here on the computer as we do every freaking Holiday.
Well then lets decide to throw a party darn it! I will right now order the band. Just hope I am not too late yet. Will do my best even if it is just a gitar or an acordeon. What do you say are we game?
hollandgirl: Yes we desperately need a matchmaker so someone come forward.......Who is up to this one?
I can offer myself as the matchmaker. But you need to follow these rules--
1) Send me your very private profile-- all the statistics and history. Matchmaker cannot guarantee their confidentiality as they may need to be shared with your potential suitor.
2) Tell me your unique selling point (USP) and your absolute minimum requirement (AMR) for the partner. Tell me also the additional criteria for your partner that you would prefer or consider as bonus. This will help to find your ideal match.
3) Tell me your blind spots or things that turn you off that your partner must be aware of.
4) Tell me the things you accept and things you would like to change for yourself. There is nothing in-between-- either accept or change.
5) Once you receive a proporal you will have three options. A) Accept the proposal as it is, B) Conditionally accept the proposal with the conditions to change certain things with definite time lines (Point # 4 will help to find if they are within the realm of change plan), C) Not acceptable.
6) Never imagine of bashing the matchmaker. Believe that matchmaker is always right.
7) If you ever doubt that the matchmaker is not right, follow rule # 6.
Tell me if you would be interested in appoining me as your matchmaker.
hollandgirl: Well then lets decide to throw a party darn it! I will right now order the band. Just hope I am not too late yet. Will do my best even if it is just a gitar or an acordeon. What do you say are we game?
unless you post a video we can't hear it or know any thing about it.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
Rexus: I can offer myself as the matchmaker. But you need to follow these rules--
1) Send me your very private profile-- all the statistics and history. Matchmaker cannot guarantee their confidentiality as they may need to be shared with your potential suitor.
2) Tell me your unique selling point (USP) and your absolute minimum requirement (AMR) for the partner. Tell me also the additional criteria for your partner that you would prefer or consider as bonus. This will help to find your ideal match.
3) Tell me your blind spots or things that turn you off that your partner must be aware of.
4) Tell me the things you accept and things you would like to change for yourself. There is nothing in-between-- either accept or change.
5) Once you receive a proporal you will have three options. A) Accept the proposal as it is, B) Conditionally accept the proposal with the conditions to change certain things with definite time lines (Point # 4 will help to find if they are within the realm of change plan), C) Not acceptable.
6) Never imagine of bashing the matchmaker. Believe that matchmaker is always right.
7) If you ever doubt that the matchmaker is not right, follow rule # 6.
Tell me if you would be interested in appoining me as your matchmaker.
We will let the members decide that one Rexus. I am not running that show. For me it would be ti rigit all you propose but lets see how many customers will come for your help.
hollandgirl: We will let the members decide that one Rexus. I am not running that show. For me it would be ti rigit all you propose but lets see how many customers will come for your help.
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Just as a friend for a start.
Sounds better than spending it alone does it not?