Herein lieth the quandary ( Archived) (25)

Jan 5, 2009 10:35 PM CST Herein lieth the quandary
RicoWest
RicoWestRicoWestlos angeles, California USA52 Threads 1 Polls 612 Posts
I think the reason why there's so much craziness on these online singles forums (not just CS) is because we have serious singles and game-player singles, and it's impossible to tell from a profile or a pic who's who... though I hardly expect this observation to win me a shot at a Nobel.professor
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Jan 5, 2009 11:32 PM CST Herein lieth the quandary
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
RicoWest: I think the reason why there's so much craziness on these online singles forums (not just CS) is because we have serious singles and game-player singles, and it's impossible to tell from a profile or a pic who's who... though I hardly expect this observation to win me a shot at a Nobel.



You hit the nail on the head and I for one...have given up trying to figure out whose who...thumbs up roll eyes doh mumbling
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Jan 6, 2009 12:10 AM CST Herein lieth the quandary
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
It's too bad. The players are the reason the serious singles go through this dating mess with a thick coat of armor.

It's not fun to second guess and never trust people I meet. It ruins everything
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Jan 6, 2009 12:14 AM CST Herein lieth the quandary
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
RicoWest: I think the reason why there's so much craziness on these online singles forums (not just CS) is because we have serious singles and game-player singles, and it's impossible to tell from a profile or a pic who's who... though I hardly expect this observation to win me a shot at a Nobel.



I think you did a fine job here...I would vote for you to win the Nobel....laugh
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Jan 6, 2009 12:15 AM CST Herein lieth the quandary
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
livinglarge: I swear I am not looking for a match on CS,
just can't be bothered ,

not even looking in RL



I never was looking...but at least I was open to the idea..now I am not even that...wave wink roll eyes doh hug kiss hug heart beating
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Jan 6, 2009 12:16 AM CST Herein lieth the quandary
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
RicoWest: I think the reason why there's so much craziness on these online singles forums (not just CS) is because we have serious singles and game-player singles, and it's impossible to tell from a profile or a pic who's who... though I hardly expect this observation to win me a shot at a Nobel.


I come here for a laugh and a joke,

but am not looking for the "one"

if some email me etc and ask me to turn on my IM the answer is
no
thumbs up
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Jan 6, 2009 12:17 AM CST Herein lieth the quandary
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: I never was looking...but at least I was open to the idea..now I am not even that...


Yep at one point I was very much open ,but not now,
this is a fun place to be,and at times I have laughed out loud,
but as for romance , nope thumbs up
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Jan 6, 2009 12:30 AM CST Herein lieth the quandary
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
livinglarge: I come here for a laugh and a joke,

but am not looking for the "one"

if some email me etc and ask me to turn on my IM the answer is
no


yeah, I'm not crazy about the IM thing either....roll eyes
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Jan 6, 2009 12:35 AM CST Herein lieth the quandary
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
princess49503: yeah, I'm not crazy about the IM thing either....


wave

yep all kinds of stranger wanting to talk uh oh

interupting the fun in the forums blues

but not for long,

its (the IM) off and staying that way thumbs up

banana
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Jan 6, 2009 7:51 PM CST Herein lieth the quandary
RicoWest
RicoWestRicoWestlos angeles, California USA52 Threads 1 Polls 612 Posts
To complicate matters, the ripoff dating service industry probably hopes we don't eventually figure it out and do something like buy one of the zillion vacant store fronts and turn it into a club "for serious singles only"... pay no attention to the man behind the curtain, said the Wizard to Dorothy.
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Jan 6, 2009 7:54 PM CST Herein lieth the quandary
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I agree. This site is truly only to enjoy the Forums/Threads. I would be amazed if I met someone on here. Lots of scammers on CS.
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Jan 6, 2009 8:02 PM CST Herein lieth the quandary
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Big_John: I agree. This site is truly only to enjoy the Forums/Threads. I would be amazed if I met someone on here. Lots of scammers on CS.


Lots of scammers everywhere, John. Do you close all doors, and thereby your heart, forever?

I have a friend who lived with his girlfriend of 3 years, and was getting ready to buy her a ring. He did something stupid, and because of that is temporarily suspended from his field, so he had to take a lesser-paying job. Suddenly, she's gone, she's now with an ex-boyfriend of hers who just divorced his wife and said he knew better about this gal...and told my friend she never loved him and was just using him. Three years together, FFS.

So...the scammers are everywhere, they're really bad on the pay sites that don't have all of the warnings, and not just here on CS.

And to all, let me ask: if you're real on here, do you think everyone else is fake in the forums? Many of us are real. It's finding that right real person that's difficult, but it is possible. I'll never stop believing that this is one of the best places to do so because of the forums. Just proceed cautiously and take your time...and know that it's all a risk that's part of life. Love is always a risk...but if we don't take it, we're already dead.

I'll wait until I die to be dead. While I'm alive, I'll live, and risk, and hurt, and do it all again.

wine I love you guys. hug
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Jan 6, 2009 8:04 PM CST Herein lieth the quandary
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
druidess6308: Lots of scammers everywhere, John. Do you close all doors, and thereby your heart, forever?

I have a friend who lived with his girlfriend of 3 years, and was getting ready to buy her a ring. He did something stupid, and because of that is temporarily suspended from his field, so he had to take a lesser-paying job. Suddenly, she's gone, she's now with an ex-boyfriend of hers who just divorced his wife and said he knew better about this gal...and told my friend she never loved him and was just using him. Three years together, FFS.

So...the scammers are everywhere, they're really bad on the pay sites that don't have all of the warnings, and not just here on CS.

And to all, let me ask: if you're real on here, do you think everyone else is fake in the forums? Many of us are real. It's finding that right real person that's difficult, but it is possible. I'll never stop believing that this is one of the best places to do so because of the forums. Just proceed cautiously and take your time...and know that it's all a risk that's part of life. Love is always a risk...but if we don't take it, we're already dead.

I'll wait until I die to be dead. While I'm alive, I'll live, and risk, and hurt, and do it all again.

I love you guys.


I don't think most of the people are fakes. I do believe that another site I use has more local people (ladies) and the odds are better over there. The potential for a match is other there. The potential for interesting Threads are here.
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Jan 6, 2009 8:08 PM CST Herein lieth the quandary
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
RicoWest: I think the reason why there's so much craziness on these online singles forums (not just CS) is because we have serious singles and game-player singles, and it's impossible to tell from a profile or a pic who's who... though I hardly expect this observation to win me a shot at a Nobel.
That is so true, it hard to tell who is who. But some aren't very bright. Like one here that had Blue eyes in her profile and was using a picture of a Brown eyed woman for her picture.

Then her picture got pulled. So now she changed her eye color in her profile to Brown. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing It's halarious, she thinks we are too stupid to not notice that.rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 6, 2009 9:02 PM CST Herein lieth the quandary
gordy22222
gordy22222gordy22222whitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada22 Threads 3 Polls 938 Posts
i think i am real though i am getting tired of playing on the keyboard my big problem ,i hope, is that i am so far from civilizationand i am not rich enought to go jetting around the country on a whim
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Jan 6, 2009 9:07 PM CST Herein lieth the quandary
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
--- I am open mmmh Naked! one may saylaugh
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Jan 6, 2009 10:21 PM CST Herein lieth the quandary
RicoWest
RicoWestRicoWestlos angeles, California USA52 Threads 1 Polls 612 Posts
Hmm... and Hugs 'n' Kisses probably didn't suspect that I know she's actually Maria the shipping company rep...uh oh
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Jan 6, 2009 10:27 PM CST Herein lieth the quandary
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
CuspofMagic: --- I am open mmmh Naked! one may say
Cuspy you are always Nakedlaugh wink tongue
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Jan 7, 2009 12:12 AM CST Herein lieth the quandary
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
mylifewithu: Cuspy you are always Naked
laugh
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Jan 7, 2009 12:55 AM CST Herein lieth the quandary
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Never under estimate the power of nuts when they unite!professor

banana dancing head banger
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