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Jan 10, 2009 9:52 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
Just look at it logically...

Ignore the e-mail and always wonder about what it said...

Or open it and see what life has to offer you today.

It's probably something you're not interested in, but you won't know unless you look. I once came very close to doing the same thing, but changed my mind at the last minute. I found a really special friend in the bargain..



hug hug
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Jan 10, 2009 10:29 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
WhatUwish4: Just look at it logically...

Ignore the e-mail and always wonder about what it said...

Or open it and see what life has to offer you today.

It's probably something you're not interested in, but you won't know unless you look. I once came very close to doing the same thing, but changed my mind at the last minute. I found a really special friend in the bargain..


Thanks Karen,

Yes, I know you did smitten

And you would say that, wouldn't you? mumbling

I made a dear friend 12 yrs ago, and stayed with that person, and occasionally still email each other, always just as friends. And all because I replied to an email on a community building site where I sent out a message to members there, for accommodation in New York. This person was in Texas. Had I thought this person was an axe murderer, a fake, after only one thing, blah, blah...I would never have met him.

So, for CS'ers out there, now there is a case in point. This Texas guy man is extremely wealthy and still single, recently upgrade his porsche to one costing $200,000+. Yet money has never been the attraction in my friendship with him.

hug
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Jan 10, 2009 10:32 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
bamabulldog08: odds are its a scam to get you to pay again. Some sites are said to do this when you cancle or stop paying.


Well, maybe so, and I honestly couldn't give a hoot, but I figure that if the site truly wanted to attract me to rejoin, they would post a much more appealing 'scammer', one that said he was looking for a meaningful, permament loving relationship, etc, etc.

Not one whose profile, on the face of it, can be shot to pieces in seconds. dunno
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Jan 10, 2009 10:36 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
venere08: Well, maybe so, and I honestly couldn't give a hoot, but I figure that if the site truly wanted to attract me to rejoin, they would post a much more appealing 'scammer', one that said he was looking for a meaningful, permament loving relationship, etc, etc.

Not one whose profile, on the face of it, can be shot to pieces in seconds.


aahhh man...just bloody pay them and find out....laugh
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Jan 10, 2009 10:38 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
princessadele: wouldnt waste my breathe on him probably married to.


Probably, most likely.

But we don't know. This is another exercise in assumptions. Something I need to ever mindful of, too.

It does remind of someone I know who was divorced many years ago. He has had a lady friend for years, and he refuses to entertain marriage, or even any live in arrangements. He got badly burnt in his marriage years ago, and so they decided way back that they only meet on weekends, where she stays over. He doesn't want kids and that is fine with her. In between, she is an independent woman, has her own career, he retired early from his govt job, and concentrates on his property development ventures.

So you see, that arrangement suits them both. Not everyone seeks marriage, live in arrangements etc. It is something we do need to remember. We are all different. What suits one does suit another.

bouquet
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Jan 10, 2009 10:39 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
venere08: Thanks Karen,

Yes, I know you did

And you would say that, wouldn't you?

I made a dear friend 12 yrs ago, and stayed with that person, and occasionally still email each other, always just as friends. And all because I replied to an email on a community building site where I sent out a message to members there, for accommodation in New York. This person was in Texas. Had I thought this person was an axe murderer, a fake, after only one thing, blah, blah...I would never have met him.

So, for CS'ers out there, now there is a case in point. This Texas guy man is extremely wealthy and still single, recently upgrade his porsche to one costing $200,000+. Yet money has never been the attraction in my friendship with him.


I can't believe you made that connection and zeroed in on the situation I was talking about...but you are right (was it that transparent???uh oh uh oh )

Anyway, it's just as you say. Your tiny e-mail that came out of the blue also brought you a wonderful friend.

Good things happen to people who keep their hearts and minds open. There's far less risk to doing that than there is to wrap yourself in fear and assumptions.

Why walk through the fields in gloves when the grass is as soft as the breast of doves???
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Jan 10, 2009 10:40 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
X_REBEL: aahhh man...just bloody pay them and find out....


Hey, X. That's not what I am concerned about.

We are having a discussion about some important issues here.roll eyes

Anyway, if I resubscribe, I'm gonna look up your profile and add you to my "Hot List"!!!laugh
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Jan 10, 2009 10:42 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
WhatUwish4: I can't believe you made that connection and zeroed in on the situation I was talking about...but you are right (was it that transparent??? )

Anyway, it's just as you say. Your tiny e-mail that came out of the blue also brought you a wonderful friend.

Good things happen to people who keep their hearts and minds open. There's far less risk to doing that than there is to wrap yourself in fear and assumptions.

Why walk through the fields in gloves when the grass is as soft as the breast of doves???


Those gloves come in handy when pulling weeds. tongue

Hi Karen Kat. wave
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Jan 10, 2009 10:43 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
proline789: He's cheating on his wife.


He might be. But we don't know that. Yetlaugh
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Jan 10, 2009 10:44 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
venere08: Hey, X. That's not what I am concerned about.

We are having a discussion about some important issues here.

Anyway, if I resubscribe, I'm gonna look up your profile and add you to my "Hot List"!!!


Can women have anything important to talk about other than gossip?laugh
Hey i know you're taking a stabb in the dark...but honey that's a miss....as my "hotlist" is full on that site... wink
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Jan 10, 2009 10:45 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
dazzling_dave: Those gloves come in handy when pulling weeds.

Hi Karen Kat.


Hello! I just sent you an e-mail.
wave wave wave
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Jan 10, 2009 10:47 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
WhatUwish4: Good things happen to people who keep their hearts and minds open. There's far less risk to doing that than there is to wrap yourself in fear and assumptions.

Why walk through the fields in gloves when the grass is as soft as the breast of doves???


So true, it is easy to make assumptions, and perhaps most of the time we may be correct. But until we check things out with evidence, we won't ever know.

And what a beautiful analogy you provide about grass and dovesangel

Thanks.teddybear
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Jan 10, 2009 10:48 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
X_REBEL: Can women have anything important to talk about other than gossip?
Hey i know you're taking a stabb in the dark...but honey that's a miss....as my "hotlist" is full on that site...


Don't worry, X. Just wanting to get ya going!laugh
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Jan 10, 2009 10:51 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
Well, here's the rest of it just for fun...

Why do you walk through the fields in gloves
Missing so much and so much?
A fat white lady whom nobody loves
Why do you walk through the fields in gloves
When the grass is as soft as the breast of doves
and shimmering sweet to the touch?
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Jan 10, 2009 10:52 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
venere08: Don't worry, X. Just wanting to get ya going!


wine comfort do you really wanna do that...roll eyes
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Jan 10, 2009 10:56 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
venere08: Yes, I think it is an interesting hypothetical.

Mainly because issues like this are not always so black and white.

I say run
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Jan 10, 2009 10:57 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
X_REBEL: do you really wanna do that...


In a friendly fashiongrin

hug wine
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Jan 10, 2009 10:58 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
WhatUwish4: Well, here's the rest of it just for fun...

Why do you walk through the fields in gloves
Missing so much and so much?
A fat white lady whom nobody loves
Why do you walk through the fields in gloves
When the grass is as soft as the breast of doves
and shimmering sweet to the touch?


Thanks, Karen

bouquet
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Jan 10, 2009 10:58 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
venere08: No such thing as an ugly dove. They are the most perfect of creatures. They were selected to represent the Holy Spirit in the Trinity. Regardless of your religious inclinations, I find it this highly significant.

Thorns are also on most roses. This doesn't detract from their beauty or heavenly fragrance, right?


why do i get the idea that this feels like a game of chess i'm in...confused

laugh
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Jan 10, 2009 11:01 PM CST "Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
venere08: In a friendly fashion


mmm...i'll think about it...nothing too fashionable about that to most here on CS...laugh
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