what to do ... (36)

Jan 13, 2009 6:12 PM CST what to do ...
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
pauljb72: got nothing


Hi Paul Me either...
Jan 13, 2009 6:13 PM CST what to do ...
Twodawgz
TwodawgzTwodawgzmelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 4,009 Posts
pauljb72: got nothing


Me three.dunno
Jan 13, 2009 8:21 PM CST what to do ...
wayne1791971
wayne1791971wayne1791971Gosford, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 2 Polls 54 Posts
Hi Kizzy if was me I would confront the husband to see his response before going to lunch that way you maybe more comfortable having lunch with the wife, this might also force the husband to come clean with his wife.
Regards
Wayne.
Jan 13, 2009 9:39 PM CST what to do ...
pauljb72
pauljb72pauljb72wollongong, New South Wales Australia220 Posts
Twodawgz: Me three.
hey dawgswave
Jan 13, 2009 10:57 PM CST what to do ...
Twodawgz
TwodawgzTwodawgzmelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 4,009 Posts
pauljb72: hey dawgs



How they hangin dude..
Jan 17, 2009 11:22 PM CST what to do ...
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Invite both couples for lunch and then just let it all hang!wine
Jan 18, 2009 12:28 AM CST what to do ...
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
yeah look I have agonized over it since it happened , I didnt go yeasterday because I simply didnt want to be put in that situation & feel uncomfortable My opinion of the woman & man involved has changed alot but end of the day it is their lives . Lies & secrets have a way of surfacing. I am just going to leave it . when it all comes out I will be there for my friends
thats it
I dont feel I can divulge what ive seen It may be a passing thing just a fling & the next 30 yrs bliss for them so who am I to wreak that sometimes what we never know wont really hurt so I am out of it
I will never eva say I knew anything
My friendships with the 2 will be altered forever but that is inevitable given the circumstanses ..
either way it will never be the same This way it is just a personal thing not involving anyone but me
so be it
Kizzydunno
Jan 24, 2009 6:45 AM CST what to do ...
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
I'd be zipping my lips personally.
Jan 24, 2009 2:31 PM CST what to do ...
Threadbare
ThreadbareThreadbareDelhi, India274 Posts
MYOFB
Jan 24, 2009 2:33 PM CST what to do ...
Threadbare
ThreadbareThreadbareDelhi, India274 Posts
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Mar 1, 2009 2:04 AM CST what to do ...
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Twodawgz: Lick me toes or im dobbin..



can i paint them in chocolate first????
Mar 1, 2009 2:04 AM CST what to do ...
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 4,392 Posts
well the truth always comes out in the end and at least your not caught in the middle of it all now .. for what its worth.. I think you did the right thing not getting involved wine
Mar 1, 2009 2:14 AM CST what to do ...
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
To be honest I wasnt sure its been eatin me up I am glad its out now & yeah glad im not stuck in the middle, but i gotta feelin i will bejust had a missed call from girlfriend #2 the other woman omg i dont know what to say....well i suppose ill say if you play with fire....doh
Mar 1, 2009 2:26 AM CST what to do ...
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 4,392 Posts
kizzy27: To be honest I wasnt sure its been eatin me up I am glad its out now & yeah glad im not stuck in the middle, but i gotta feelin i will bejust had a missed call from girlfriend #2 the other woman omg i dont know what to say....well i suppose ill say if you play with fire....


just don't let slip you knew to any of them .. if they can find a scapegoat to blame they will if it takes the pressure or focus off them uh oh
Mar 1, 2009 2:30 AM CST what to do ...
beh1972
beh1972beh1972Canberra, ACT Australia3 Threads 108 Posts
You did the right thing staying out of it, no one was ever going to grateful for you breaking the news to them.

As you said, small town, they were going to be found out eventually. But as these things usually go, it was your friend who picked up on it in the end.
Mar 1, 2009 4:09 AM CST what to do ...
redozichick
redozichickredozichickBrisbane, Queensland Australia2 Threads 3,934 Posts
blondeaozichick: well the truth always comes out in the end and at least your not caught in the middle of it all now .. for what its worth.. I think you did the right thing not getting involved


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