10 Things Guys Notice First

Believe it or not, that guy in the corner of the coffee shop that you noticed right away isn’t totally buried in his book. He is checking you out! You may not be aware of it, but he is noticing everything about you. While some of these things that guys notice about a girl may be obvious, others are really subtle.

Luscious Locks

Usually, when a guy sees a girl, his eyes automatically look at her face. And he thinks about whether or not she is pretty to him. But what if his first glimpse of you is the back of your head? Some guys have said that they can tell if a girl is pretty or not just by looking at the back of her head! Wanna know how? Her hair! A girl’s hair is a dead-giveaway on how she takes care of herself and presents herself. Make sure your hair is shiny, luscious and bouncy. Even if you don’t have time to curl it everyday, at least make sure it’s clean and combed out. Your hair should look like it smells heavenly and feels like silk!

Perfect Posture

A girl who carries her head high and stands straight and tall sends a message out into the crowd. It says, “Hey, I’m confident, comfortable and sexy. I’m the girl you want to get to know!” That’s one of the things guys notice first about a girl! Just think how someone with slumpy, slouchy shoulders looks. Would YOU want to get to know someone who walked around like they had the weight of the world on their shoulders?

Your Friends

Surprisingly, the company a girl keeps has a big impact on first impressions that she makes. You know the statement “Birds of a feather flock together”? Well, it’s true! And in most cases, if a girl has loud, whiny, sassy or rude friends, a guy may assume the same thing about her, even if she attracted him at the beginning. But if a girl seem to have a tight knit group of friends who all seem to be having a great time together, it sends a signal that she is genuine and caring. That’s one of the things guys notice first and love right away!

Your Pout

Kissing has been proven to be one of the world’s greatest stress relievers and research shows that most humans spend about 20,160 minutes per lifetime smooching! Wowza! So it’s no wonder that one of the things guys notice first is your lips. Are they soft and smooth? Red or pink? Shiny and kissable? You can bet that he’s going to be wondering that until he finds out, so why not make it sweet suspense? Your lips should be kiss-ready every time you walk out your front door!

Perfect Dance Moves

A girl who can dance with the best of them proves a few things: She is confident in her skin, she knows how to have a good time, and she’s not afraid to bust a few moves! Plus, that makes a girl impossible not to notice! So next time you are kickin’ it out on the dance floor, remember that you are being noticed and try to have a good time! Don’t be fake and over-the-top, but do have some genuine fun. Guys definitely notice a girl who is havin’ herself a ball!

What You Carry Around

Believe it or not, your purse and other stuff you take with you reveal a lot about your personality! A girl who carries a huge purse full of makeup and other stuff like that is probably pretty high maintenance. A girl who has interesting books or puzzles on hand has a cool personality and loves to learn. A girl with a bright pink phone case is probably bubbly and sweet to be around! A girl with NO purse at all is laid-back, chill and spur of the moment. The girl who carries toothpaste, travel size deodorant and lint rollers is always prepared for anything. And yes, guys do notice these things, ladies!

Your Smile

Oh here’s an obvious one! But no matter how obvious or cliche it may be, guys DO notice a girl who smiles. And most of them can tell if it’s real or fake. There’s a few who can be fooled-I always hate it when a super nice guy is stuck with a girl who he THINKS is a princess but we all know her game and it’s not nice. But a guy who is attuned and ready can spot a real smile 5 miles out. So get you some teeth whitener and breath strips and get ready to shine, even on days you don’t feel like it. It’s one of the things guys notice!

High Heels

Not that you have to wear high heels every single day, but a girl in a pair of skyscrapers is one thing that guys notice first. High heels symbolize sexiness, strength and boldness. So don’t be afraid to pop those babies on every now and then! Mix it up between heels and flats, but make sure you wear heels at least a couple times a week. You never know when Mr. Right will bump into you! And I always say it’s best to be prepared!

How You Strut

A sultry strut can reveal a lot to a guy. Remember in “The Princess Diaries” when Princess Mia got walking lessons? It’s true that the way a person walks has a big influence on how they are perceived. Walk with purpose, style, and grace. Walk like a lady! You don’t need to swagger, or walk like you’re on the fashion runway, but do remember that you are a lady and a man-like stomp will not be cute or sexy to a guy!

Your Attitude

Probably the most important thing that guys notice first about a girl is her attitude. A girl can be as beautiful as a sun goddess and as sexy as all get-out, but if she has a bad or ugly attitude, a guy will drop her faster than you can say hello. No man wants to be tied down to a mean witch! So make sure that attitude is in ship-shape, and I guarantee you a guy will notice. I realize we all have bad days, just try not to let the bad days have YOU!

There’s a thin line between being sexy and slutty, pretty and overdone, confident and proud, or sweet and fake. And it takes a special girl to be genuine enough to master that line! Now that you have this list of things guys notice first, you will have it down in no time! Please comment below if you liked this list or have anything to share with guys! For instance, what do you notice first about guys?

Comments (11)

InandoraDec 17, 2023Pueblo, Colorado USA

WTF? This article sounds like something from Ms. magazine circa 1978, telling women how to land a man.

petofisandorJul 31, 2015Toronto, Ontario Canada5 Top 10 Lists

RWDChILD, I think married men are more likely to hit on women because there is no chance or threat of needing to hook up for life. Single guys are more careful, because they don't want to be trapped in a marriage. Most single guys hit on married women -- they are safe from this point of view.

I know it's unfair, and believe me, I've been there exactly where you are -- sitting in a cafe, gawking at and ogling good looking people with a heavy heart.

rwdchldJul 5, 2015Elizabethtown, Kentucky USA

That was an excellent list! Its nice that the fellas notice all that but why don't they feel more comfortable about approaching a lady?
I have met and worked with several men who are married and they don't hesitate to hit on women but we ladies want the SINGLE men to ask us out....

petofisandorJul 5, 2015Toronto, Ontario Canada5 Top 10 Lists

17, a pair of white albino Bengali tigers on leash, with a diamond-and-sapphire studded choker chain on their necks, and trailing them a modest four steps behind, a sandbox three slaves carry everywhere that they go.

petofisandorJul 5, 2015Toronto, Ontario Canada5 Top 10 Lists

Perfect list, brother, I'd only adddd:

11. Her scent
12. Her desirous looks she shoots in my directions
13. Her diamonds and gold and silver
14. Her buttler, standing by her table, handing her wafer-thin slices of menthe chocolate
14 again, her secretery, taking dictation by her table
12. the phalanx of photographers, autogramm-takers, and assorted hordes of fabiccioni (tripoli), in other words, paparazzi
15. The key to her Lamborghini Mura Testarossa. with an all silver body (real silver) with gold trimmings and real diamond carvings that spell her first name on the hood. A big trunk.

Tribeca_latinaJun 27, 2015New York, USA

Thank u ??

kghengJun 9, 2015Auckland, New Zealand

Enjoyed reading what you say. Yes i agreed a lady should be genuinely elegant inside out weather she is notice by a man or not. If she look elegant and good attitude gracefully, people will turn around greet her with a pleasant smile from both men and women of any age

kghengJun 9, 2015Auckland, New Zealand