Is it me? (16)
harrydrebrampton, Ontario Canada8 Threads 18 PostsIs it me or is it that when you email someone asking if they are interested in chatting they just ignore your message? I am not talking about IM, I am talking about emailing. Why is it that people don't respond to your messages? No matter how pleasant and warm you try to be? 
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harrydre: Is it me or is it that when you email someone asking if they are interested in chatting they just ignore your message? I am not talking about IM, I am talking about emailing. Why is it that people don't respond to your messages? No matter how pleasant and warm you try to be?
I do try to respond to everyone, though I fail miserably sometimes. Some members have so many mails and flowers they simply can't get back to everyone.....
Its nice to think that everyone would have the courtesy but I guess not all members feel the necessity. Its just one of those things.
If you feel it rude, bad manners.... would you want to associate with that person anyway?
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roseofsharon: I do try to respond to everyone, though I fail miserably sometimes. Some members have so many mails and flowers they simply can't get back to everyone.....
Its nice to think that everyone would have the courtesy but I guess not all members feel the necessity. Its just one of those things.
If you feel it rude, bad manners.... would you want to associate with that person anyway?
Its nice to think that everyone would have the courtesy but I guess not all members feel the necessity. Its just one of those things.
If you feel it rude, bad manners.... would you want to associate with that person anyway?
I think that you are right!
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In response to: Is it me or is it that when you email someone asking if they are interested in chatting they just ignore your message? I am not talking about IM, I am talking about emailing. Why is it that people don't respond to your messages? No matter how pleasant and warm you try to be?
Well it's a long story really.....
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stefonline: Well it's a long story really.....
Stef.... it always IS a long story!!
Bloody lovely to see ya, though, love!!
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roseofsharon: Stef.... it always IS a long story!!
Bloody lovely to see ya, though, love!!
Bloody lovely to see ya, though, love!!
Sure is.....too bloody long to bring it in here.....great to see you too.....how is the romance going....well I hope...you hav'nt burned him at the stake yet have you.....
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harrydre: Is it me or is it that when you email someone asking if they are interested in chatting they just ignore your message? I am not talking about IM, I am talking about emailing. Why is it that people don't respond to your messages? No matter how pleasant and warm you try to be?
sorry to hear that ,
but on a lighter note,
you look very much like Chris Rock
emm if you had his money ,you wouldnt be short of mail pals
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livinglarge: sorry to hear that ,
but on a lighter note,
you look very much like Chris Rock
emm if you had his money ,you wouldnt be short of mail pals
but on a lighter note,
you look very much like Chris Rock
emm if you had his money ,you wouldnt be short of mail pals
LL, that is EXACTLY what I was thinking!
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harrydre: Is it me or is it that when you email someone asking if they are interested in chatting they just ignore your message? I am not talking about IM, I am talking about emailing. Why is it that people don't respond to your messages? No matter how pleasant and warm you try to be?
Just keep being yourself.......
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livinglarge: sorry to hear that ,
but on a lighter note,
you look very much like Chris Rock
emm if you had his money ,you wouldnt be short of mail pals
but on a lighter note,
you look very much like Chris Rock
emm if you had his money ,you wouldnt be short of mail pals
That is why I would not want to be rich or famous. You are never sure if people like you for you or your money. That is why the lead vocal for the rock group Boston committed suicide. He felt like he had no friends. He felt people only liked him for his fame and money. Very sad.
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harrydre: Is it me or is it that when you email someone asking if they are interested in chatting they just ignore your message? I am not talking about IM, I am talking about emailing. Why is it that people don't respond to your messages? No matter how pleasant and warm you try to be?
Because I got stalked being polite to someone one. Never again.
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harrydre: Is it me or is it that when you email someone asking if they are interested in chatting they just ignore your message? I am not talking about IM, I am talking about emailing. Why is it that people don't respond to your messages? No matter how pleasant and warm you try to be?
They aren't interested
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I can think of one reason. The person does not think you're their match. Regardless, there has to be basic courtesy. It would be nice to be acknowledge. One woman here was honest to shoot me an email saying that we may not be a match and wishes me good luck. Now that's courtesy.
Other than that, just keep trying to make connection and eventually you'll find her.
Other than that, just keep trying to make connection and eventually you'll find her.
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Nobunaga: Other than that, just keep trying to make connection and eventually you'll find her.
Konichiwa, Nobunaga-san, good words and true.
Sometimes a turned down message results in very weird reactions indeed and I think some have stopped replying in full when they have nothing to say.
Courtesy is suffering as a result of that and we should not take it personally, accept that silence is a no and move on.
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