are men mental or not mental enough? (10)
thehearldshannon, Clare Ireland16 Threads 3 Polls 380 Postsok im not a mind reader, and i have had way way more then my share of me messing up when it comes to women. for me its just that when it comes to the flirting and askin out the said female, i do not too bad (i hope) its the realationship part i have a problem with, ot starts off fine, but when it gets to the other part of being WITH the person it seem to get me being lazy and not wanting to put in the effort. then to make the matters worse, i dont have the hang of expressing myself or sharing my feelings, can anyone tell me what to do ( not including the grow up or see a shrink) 
thehearld: ok im not a mind reader, and i have had way way more then my share of me messing up when it comes to women. for me its just that when it comes to the flirting and askin out the said female, i do not too bad (i hope) its the realationship part i have a problem with, ot starts off fine, but when it gets to the other part of being WITH the person it seem to get me being lazy and not wanting to put in the effort. then to make the matters worse, i dont have the hang of expressing myself or sharing my feelings, can anyone tell me what to do ( not including the grow up or see a shrink)
Relax max...when u meet the right person it will all just....happen...it wont need to be forced!
It takes a little bit of work to keep a woman. But sometimes small things can do more than you think. A random flower for no reason in the middle of the week is one suggestion.
And the issue with not getting into feelings, some men are just not so eager to do that. Don't jump into it just because you feel you have to. It is better to take it little by little. If the relationship lasts, it will be more than enough time to get to know each other.
And the issue with not getting into feelings, some men are just not so eager to do that. Don't jump into it just because you feel you have to. It is better to take it little by little. If the relationship lasts, it will be more than enough time to get to know each other.
minimoo: Relax max...when u meet the right person it will all just....happen...it wont need to be forced!
there you go, exactly.
thehearld: ok im not a mind reader, and i have had way way more then my share of me messing up when it comes to women. for me its just that when it comes to the flirting and askin out the said female, i do not too bad (i hope) its the realationship part i have a problem with, ot starts off fine, but when it gets to the other part of being WITH the person it seem to get me being lazy and not wanting to put in the effort. then to make the matters worse, i dont have the hang of expressing myself or sharing my feelings, can anyone tell me what to do ( not including the grow up or see a shrink)
Here goes my €15 worth - inflation
Being lazy may be down to not being with the right person or just laziness as a trait. Not to say that it is lack of interest on your part. If she is worth the effort then it won't seem like an effort
Don't worry about not having the hang of expressing yourself emotionally. There are lots of people out there like this. It generally comes down to not knowing yourself or what you want in a relationship. The above section also applies to this.
If not knowing how to express yourself is about being a private person and independent then thats something a person can know and work on.
Anything that escaped me as a good answer beats the hell out of me
thanks hun, u never know who might turn up in dublin on the 5th???????????????????????
thehearld: thanks hun, u never know who might turn up in dublin on the 5th???????????????????????
i know, i'm sooooooooo jealous- it looks like it is going to be a blast
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MEN ARE NOT MENTAL
IT'S JUST THAT ALL WOMEN ARE SHRINKS AND SAY WE ARE
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