lonely , alone. (72)
thehearldshannon, Clare Ireland16 Threads 3 Polls 380 Postslets see, the difference between being lonely and alone? have you ever just found out that no matter what you do you are still single? no matter how hard you try or how many dates you go on, its still ends up the same, u on ur own? even though you have lots of good solid friends you just feel like you have nobody u think u can confide in. no person to share ur time with to experience the joy in life , the every day things that make you what you are who u want to be. you wonder "why? why cant i get that someone for me?" all ur friends are either married or living with people, u know they are there for u if u told them how u feel but u just dont or cant share ur inner most feelings about ur desire to have someone to share ur life , space , heart with.
thehearld: lets see, the difference between being lonely and alone? have you ever just found out that no matter what you do you are still single? no matter how hard you try or how many dates you go on, its still ends up the same, u on ur own? even though you have lots of good solid friends you just feel like you have nobody u think u can confide in. no person to share ur time with to experience the joy in life , the every day things that make you what you are who u want to be. you wonder "why? why cant i get that someone for me?" all ur friends are either married or living with people, u know they are there for u if u told them how u feel but u just dont or cant share ur inner most feelings about ur desire to have someone to share ur life , space , heart with.
Before the girls jump in to tell you what a nice guy you are, etc, you'll meet someone dont worry, etc, etc. - I have known both being trully "on my own" and being "with someone" - and the beauty and joy of being with a special woman is worth it all. Time to get out Four Weddings and a Funeral and laugh yourself senseless.....
Galwayman2008: Before the girls jump in to tell you what a nice guy you are, etc, you'll meet someone dont worry, etc, etc. - I have known both being trully "on my own" and being "with someone" - and the beauty and joy of being with a special woman is worth it all. Time to get out Four Weddings and a Funeral and laugh yourself senseless.....
What wonderful advice.
thehearld: lets see, the difference between being lonely and alone? have you ever just found out that no matter what you do you are still single? no matter how hard you try or how many dates you go on, its still ends up the same, u on ur own? even though you have lots of good solid friends you just feel like you have nobody u think u can confide in. no person to share ur time with to experience the joy in life , the every day things that make you what you are who u want to be. you wonder "why? why cant i get that someone for me?" all ur friends are either married or living with people, u know they are there for u if u told them how u feel but u just dont or cant share ur inner most feelings about ur desire to have someone to share ur life , space , heart with.
I could have written that hun, am at the point were I think it would be sensible to just except that I am meant to be alone.
vonney: I could have written that hun, am at the point were I think it would be sensible to just except that I am meant to be alone.
I know the feeling Vonney but we can't give up hope and I always say every pot has a lid
but I live in hope of finding my match 
thehearld: lets see, the difference between being lonely and alone? have you ever just found out that no matter what you do you are still single? no matter how hard you try or how many dates you go on, its still ends up the same, u on ur own? even though you have lots of good solid friends you just feel like you have nobody u think u can confide in. no person to share ur time with to experience the joy in life , the every day things that make you what you are who u want to be. you wonder "why? why cant i get that someone for me?" all ur friends are either married or living with people, u know they are there for u if u told them how u feel but u just dont or cant share ur inner most feelings about ur desire to have someone to share ur life , space , heart with.
be still my beating heart......
me thinks the man protest to much get of your bum an start looking for that girl ....try harder !!!!!
vonney: Lovely sentiments and thank you but in all honesty I dont believe in the 'someone for everyone' thing.
Me neither, although i do believe in fate and that it's sometimes fate that you will be alone and single and that's why I wish I could just accept it.
Wouldn't life be simpler if one could just go along one's merry little way and if it happens it happens. Instead of spending hours agonising over wether i'm doomed to be a, dare I say the word on CS, a SPINSTER....
SueSeeksGent: Me neither, although i do believe in fate and that it's sometimes fate that you will be alone and single and that's why I wish I could just accept it.
Wouldn't life be simpler if one could just go along one's merry little way and if it happens it happens. Instead of spending hours agonising over wether i'm doomed to be a, dare I say the word on CS, a SPINSTER....
Wouldn't life be simpler if one could just go along one's merry little way and if it happens it happens. Instead of spending hours agonising over wether i'm doomed to be a, dare I say the word on CS, a SPINSTER....
I agree with you regarding it being someones fate to be single, but single does not mean alone and is not the worst thing that can happen. If we are lucky we will have family and friends.
We are responsible for our own happiness and need to accept that, not hope that there is someone out there to make us happy.
i try not to focus on it. if it happens, it will happen. thinking about it too much just makes it worse, and probably gives off bad vibes.
jampet: i try not to focus on it. if it happens, it will happen. thinking about it too much just makes it worse, and probably gives off bad vibes.
Visualise your hearts desire as though you already have it.
Do it every day and see what happens..............
Irishminx: Visualise your hearts desire as though you already have it.
Do it every day and see what happens..............
Do it every day and see what happens..............
Aw!!! thats the best thing ive heard in ages
Irishminx: Visualise your hearts desire as though you already have it.
Do it every day and see what happens..............
Do it every day and see what happens..............
I am more of an 'If its meant to be it wont pass you by' person.
vonney: I am more of an 'If its meant to be it wont pass you by' person.
Everything changes Vonney, allowing change is a good thing!
We all have choices...................
Have a wonderful Thursday girl..............
Irishminx: Everything changes Vonney, allowing change is a good thing!
We all have choices...................
Have a wonderful Thursday girl..............
We all have choices...................
Have a wonderful Thursday girl..............
Ah ye I realise that and thank god for it, some things I have been more than happy to change lol
thehearld: lets see, the difference between being lonely and alone? have you ever just found out that no matter what you do you are still single? no matter how hard you try or how many dates you go on, its still ends up the same, u on ur own? even though you have lots of good solid friends you just feel like you have nobody u think u can confide in. no person to share ur time with to experience the joy in life , the every day things that make you what you are who u want to be. you wonder "why? why cant i get that someone for me?" all ur friends are either married or living with people, u know they are there for u if u told them how u feel but u just dont or cant share ur inner most feelings about ur desire to have someone to share ur life , space , heart with.
Hi Hearld....well I understand where you are coming from with this but I find that I am becoming quite comfortable with being on my own now. My relationship with my ex got so unhappy at the end that I am not prepared to just jump in again without being sure it is completely the right thing for me. So Im prepared to wait cos I accept that this will take some time to find. I dont dwell on being alone too much because I would rather be alone and single than 'lonely' again in a relationship.....thats not a nice place to be. Enjoy your family, friends and good health in the meantime, they are very very important in life and will keep you sane in the bad times.
'They' tell me I will find someone again when I least expect it....time will tell.
Irishminx: Visualise your hearts desire as though you already have it.
Do it every day and see what happens..............
Do it every day and see what happens..............
Hi Minx....
I do visualise....I do it every single day.... I know what I want but its still not happening
im here with the 42 letter sounds .. doing a course for school... someone please distract me for a few mins
little_miss: im here with the 42 letter sounds .. doing a course for school... someone please distract me for a few mins
Are you doing the Letterland thing?
When my son started school the teacher did up each of the class a passport for letterland, when they had finished the alphabet some of them couldnt understand why they werent actually going there lol
vonney: Are you doing the Letterland thing?
When my son started school the teacher did up each of the class a passport for letterland, when they had finished the alphabet some of them couldnt understand why they werent actually going there lol
When my son started school the teacher did up each of the class a passport for letterland, when they had finished the alphabet some of them couldnt understand why they werent actually going there lol
no jolly phonics its much better or Sounds Abounds ok ill stop im starting to sound like a teacher little_miss: no jolly phonics its much better or Sounds Abounds ok ill stop im starting to sound like a teacher
jolly phonics??lol sounds great.
My youngest starts secondary next week, where does the time go.
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