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well said ....2 u both 
Very good post losty.
And very true!!!!
And very true!!!!
you should go i have a few gay friends who invited me and like you had same thoughts but said might as well was a great night if you dont feel comfortable leave after a while another quick story 
the brother is a doorman and staff from george go to his club after they close he barred the manager for 2 weeks as he thought he could do as he pleased but eventually the manager appoligised to the brother and was allowed back in
the brother is a doorman and staff from george go to his club after they close he barred the manager for 2 weeks as he thought he could do as he pleased but eventually the manager appoligised to the brother and was allowed back in 
nitak: well u never no who might come out on the night ...
Thats what i was thinking.......
you wont have to worry about someone coming on to you as Gay men will know your straight ...gay men have a built in radar for such things...i
once they know you are straight they wont bother youThedeise: Hi all,
A couple of my friends want to go to a gay bar on new years eve night, i am in no way in favour of this, but they are the type that will do what they want one way or another, the funny thing is, they are not gay.
What do you thik, should i join them, and risk ruining my reputation, or should i just say "no".
A couple of my friends want to go to a gay bar on new years eve night, i am in no way in favour of this, but they are the type that will do what they want one way or another, the funny thing is, they are not gay.
What do you thik, should i join them, and risk ruining my reputation, or should i just say "no".
You have a reputation?
apparently
Hi Robert,
Gay bars are usually great fun and very flamboyant. You'll have a good time if you go but if it's out of your comfort zone and you wouldn't feel at ease ...don't
Gay bars are usually great fun and very flamboyant. You'll have a good time if you go but if it's out of your comfort zone and you wouldn't feel at ease ...don't
SillyGirl: Hi Robert,
Gay bars are usually great fun and very flamboyant. You'll have a good time if you go but if it's out of your comfort zone and you wouldn't feel at ease ...don't
Gay bars are usually great fun and very flamboyant. You'll have a good time if you go but if it's out of your comfort zone and you wouldn't feel at ease ...don't
I had a night out in october in the company of two gay guys...one of the best nights Ive ever had.....great fun.....but Deise if you dont feel comfortable dont go cos you wont enjoy yourself for watching your back....
What i meant was i dont have a reputation, and i want to keep it that way.
In response to: Hi all,
A couple of my friends want to go to a gay bar on new years eve night, i am in no way in favour of this, but they are the type that will do what they want one way or another, the funny thing is, they are not gay.
What do you thik, should i join them, and risk ruining my reputation, or should i just say "no".
A couple of my friends want to go to a gay bar on new years eve night, i am in no way in favour of this, but they are the type that will do what they want one way or another, the funny thing is, they are not gay.
What do you thik, should i join them, and risk ruining my reputation, or should i just say "no".
Anyway, its all sorted, we decided on another bar with the same type of event.
Thedeise: Hi all,
A couple of my friends want to go to a gay bar on new years eve night, i am in no way in favour of this, but they are the type that will do what they want one way or another, the funny thing is, they are not gay.
What do you thik, should i join them, and risk ruining my reputation, or should i just say "no".
A couple of my friends want to go to a gay bar on new years eve night, i am in no way in favour of this, but they are the type that will do what they want one way or another, the funny thing is, they are not gay.
What do you thik, should i join them, and risk ruining my reputation, or should i just say "no".
go for the laugh i've got some friends who are gay they can be great craic. now mind you i wouldn't spend the whole night there i'd prefer to be amongst my own persuasion. if you feel uncomfortable i'm sure they'd be no objection in leaving you leave. maybe arrange to meet other friends else where just in case.
go n have alaugh its great fun
its not only gay men there yep theres gay women too
isnt that in all mens fantasies???? lol
its not only gay men there yep theres gay women too
isnt that in all mens fantasies???? lol
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Firstly, gay people darm well go to straight bars; why can't we go to gay bars
Secondly, you will have a barrel of laughs there. Probably half of those there will be straight so you won't be on your own, so to speak.
Thirdly, don't believe the old wifes tales. Guys don't actually walk around gay bars feeling each other up or bonking in the snug or anything like that. While it can be a bit disconcerting to see guys or girls kissing, you just don't sit there and stare them out, same way you wouldn't in any other bar or cafe.
Fourthly, it's a party. They won't always be on in places you are not sure off. Okay if it's a bar you don't plain want to go to but mend and make do for a once off. I get to work in all manner of pubs and hotels and some I patently hate; I just suck it up and get it over with. The fun time will get you through.
Lastly, they are your friends and thats the main thing that counts. You are out with them, not the pub.