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if I was you I would just ignore the whole lot as she is playing mind games with you, and that is so uncalled for. If she cant just say straight up to you what it is you have said or done, instead she uses a one liner she is not worth the worry.
So if you take it to heart she has succeeded in getting what she set out to do, which is make you feel bad, when its her that has the problem not you. Just my opinion...
So if you take it to heart she has succeeded in getting what she set out to do, which is make you feel bad, when its her that has the problem not you. Just my opinion...
gorrestfump: ok here's the scenario..
I saw a lady on this site a few times.. obviously she will remain nameless.. it didnt work out, and we would still drop a mail to each other from time to time.. in other words, on relative speaking terms..
then today, i get a random mail from her saying "i used to think you were nice"
when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."
so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do?? i mean, granted, if does not like me thats not a problem, i can't make anyone like me, but surely if someone is going to say something like that to you - completly out of the blue - then an explanation shoud follow??
or did she just say it to try and make me feel bad???
I saw a lady on this site a few times.. obviously she will remain nameless.. it didnt work out, and we would still drop a mail to each other from time to time.. in other words, on relative speaking terms..
then today, i get a random mail from her saying "i used to think you were nice"
when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."
so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do?? i mean, granted, if does not like me thats not a problem, i can't make anyone like me, but surely if someone is going to say something like that to you - completly out of the blue - then an explanation shoud follow??
or did she just say it to try and make me feel bad???
Probably has nothing to do with you, she might be just pissed off and vented it on you. Or else maybe she had an image of you in her head and just realised thats not who you are, wouldnt worry about it. If she had a go at you without provocation then its her that has the problem not you, not unless you let it become a problem that is.
gorrestfump: ok here's the scenario..
I saw a lady on this site a few times.. obviously she will remain nameless.. it didnt work out, and we would still drop a mail to each other from time to time.. in other words, on relative speaking terms..
then today, i get a random mail from her saying "i used to think you were nice"
when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."
so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do?? i mean, granted, if does not like me thats not a problem, i can't make anyone like me, but surely if someone is going to say something like that to you - completly out of the blue - then an explanation shoud follow??
or did she just say it to try and make me feel bad???
I saw a lady on this site a few times.. obviously she will remain nameless.. it didnt work out, and we would still drop a mail to each other from time to time.. in other words, on relative speaking terms..
then today, i get a random mail from her saying "i used to think you were nice"
when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."
so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do?? i mean, granted, if does not like me thats not a problem, i can't make anyone like me, but surely if someone is going to say something like that to you - completly out of the blue - then an explanation shoud follow??
or did she just say it to try and make me feel bad???
Thats girl talk allow me to translate:
You have done or said something that she disaproves off.
Because it is plain to her as the nose on your face what the offending action was. You are also meant to know what this is
, The fact that you don't can only mean to her, that you are either been argumentative, fippent or agressive. So, she reacts with not owing you an explination as its obvious you already know what you have done and are just prolonging the conversation, which she has, by her mail, told you that she no longer wants.
Remember that you may recodnise the words, but its not the same language.
Hope that helps
sue
gorrestfump: ok here's the scenario..
I saw a lady on this site a few times.. obviously she will remain nameless.. it didnt work out, and we would still drop a mail to each other from time to time.. in other words, on relative speaking terms..
then today, i get a random mail from her saying "i used to think you were nice"
when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."
so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do?? i mean, granted, if does not like me thats not a problem, i can't make anyone like me, but surely if someone is going to say something like that to you - completly out of the blue - then an explanation shoud follow??
or did she just say it to try and make me feel bad???
I saw a lady on this site a few times.. obviously she will remain nameless.. it didnt work out, and we would still drop a mail to each other from time to time.. in other words, on relative speaking terms..
then today, i get a random mail from her saying "i used to think you were nice"
when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."
so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do?? i mean, granted, if does not like me thats not a problem, i can't make anyone like me, but surely if someone is going to say something like that to you - completly out of the blue - then an explanation shoud follow??
or did she just say it to try and make me feel bad???
I know for me sometimes a song, or the sight of some particular thing can bring the image of an ex into my mind. Perhaps she has had that happen today, and felt the need to contact you after all this time. She may now feel a little embarrased about it, so when you asked her for an explanation, perhaps she just wanted to forget she had done it, and therefore just try and dismiss you.
Dont dwell on it.
arranroot: Probably has nothing to do with you, she might be just pissed off and vented it on you. Or else maybe she had an image of you in her head and just realised thats not who you are, wouldnt worry about it. If she had a go at you without provocation then its her that has the problem not you, not unless you let it become a problem that is.
Hey
Aha, the male translation, very, very interesting
now Dr lets see how this progresses 
anyonepetalbabe: I know for me sometimes a song, or the sight of some particular thing can bring the image of an ex into my mind. Perhaps she has had that happen today, and felt the need to contact you after all this time. She may now feel a little embarrased about it, so when you asked her for an explanation, perhaps she just wanted to forget she had done it, and therefore just try and dismiss you.
Dont dwell on it.
Dont dwell on it.
mmmm the pissed as a fart 2 o'clock in the morning txt, phone call, message to the x
yes, which one of us hasnt done that
gorrestfump: ok here's the scenario..
I saw a lady on this site a few times.. obviously she will remain nameless.. it didnt work out, and we would still drop a mail to each other from time to time.. in other words, on relative speaking terms..
then today, i get a random mail from her saying "i used to think you were nice"
when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."
so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do?? i mean, granted, if does not like me thats not a problem, i can't make anyone like me, but surely if someone is going to say something like that to you - completly out of the blue - then an explanation shoud follow??
or did she just say it to try and make me feel bad???
I saw a lady on this site a few times.. obviously she will remain nameless.. it didnt work out, and we would still drop a mail to each other from time to time.. in other words, on relative speaking terms..
then today, i get a random mail from her saying "i used to think you were nice"
when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."
so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do?? i mean, granted, if does not like me thats not a problem, i can't make anyone like me, but surely if someone is going to say something like that to you - completly out of the blue - then an explanation shoud follow??
or did she just say it to try and make me feel bad???
Well from what i have see of you here recently, she had a lucky escape, but i would say yes she should explain why she is acting like this.
Thedeise: Well from what i have see of you here recently, she had a lucky escape, but i would say yes she should explain why she is acting like this.
Aha mmmmm, now cough
the male find the problem and solve it senario very very nice Thedeise
Ecoprincess: Thats girl talk allow me to translate:
You have done or said something that she disaproves off.
Because it is plain to her as the nose on your face what the offending action was. You are also meant to know what this is ,
The fact that you don't can only mean to her, that you are either been argumentative, fippent or agressive. So, she reacts with not owing you an explination as its obvious you already know what you have done and are just prolonging the conversation, which she has, by her mail, told you that she no longer wants.
Remember that you may recodnise the words, but its not the same language.
Hope that helps
sue
You have done or said something that she disaproves off.
Because it is plain to her as the nose on your face what the offending action was. You are also meant to know what this is ,
The fact that you don't can only mean to her, that you are either been argumentative, fippent or agressive. So, she reacts with not owing you an explination as its obvious you already know what you have done and are just prolonging the conversation, which she has, by her mail, told you that she no longer wants.
Remember that you may recodnise the words, but its not the same language.
Hope that helps
sue
Hi Sue
GF your in trouble if Sue is right, even with the explanation I cant understand it
Ecoprincess: Thats girl talk allow me to translate:
You have done or said something that she disaproves off.
Because it is plain to her as the nose on your face what the offending action was. You are also meant to know what this is ,
The fact that you don't can only mean to her, that you are either been argumentative, fippent or agressive. So, she reacts with not owing you an explination as its obvious you already know what you have done and are just prolonging the conversation, which she has, by her mail, told you that she no longer wants.
Remember that you may recodnise the words, but its not the same language.
Hope that helps
sue
You have done or said something that she disaproves off.
Because it is plain to her as the nose on your face what the offending action was. You are also meant to know what this is ,
The fact that you don't can only mean to her, that you are either been argumentative, fippent or agressive. So, she reacts with not owing you an explination as its obvious you already know what you have done and are just prolonging the conversation, which she has, by her mail, told you that she no longer wants.
Remember that you may recodnise the words, but its not the same language.
Hope that helps
sue
now thats very good..:) thanks eco.. very very good..
although i didnt want to write here the entire flow of emails between us, she did also say when i asked her why she thought this, that "i'm an intelligent guy, i can figure it out myself"
i also think she may look in on this thread and honest to god.. i have no idea why she thinks what she thinks.. if she thinks its obvious, then its not to me.. i wasnt tryin to pick a fight by asking why she had said that.. i genuinley wanted to know why she now thinks that because i have not got the foggiest..
arranroot: let it go dude, its history
Right its gone.
gorrestfump: now thats very good..:) thanks eco.. very very good..
although i didnt want to write here the entire flow of emails between us, she did also say when i asked her why she thought this, that "i'm an intelligent guy, i can figure it out myself"
i also think she may look in on this thread and honest to god.. i have no idea why she thinks what she thinks.. if she thinks its obvious, then its not to me.. i wasnt tryin to pick a fight by asking why she had said that.. i genuinley wanted to know why she now thinks that because i have not got the foggiest..
although i didnt want to write here the entire flow of emails between us, she did also say when i asked her why she thought this, that "i'm an intelligent guy, i can figure it out myself"
i also think she may look in on this thread and honest to god.. i have no idea why she thinks what she thinks.. if she thinks its obvious, then its not to me.. i wasnt tryin to pick a fight by asking why she had said that.. i genuinley wanted to know why she now thinks that because i have not got the foggiest..
Yes, yes I see, these are all the symptoms of Girl/boy talk. In my humble opinion
girl/boy talk is the cause of more relationships breaking up than infidelity or smelly feet.It is curable, both parties have to agree communications are a necessary and complex afair and that long discussions should be held and clarifications offered until both are happy they understand.
OK it was me and no im not into mind games, im honest, what i said is what i meant, and i dont need to explain myself in this circumstance.
arranroot: Hi Sue
GF your in trouble if Sue is right, even with the explanation I cant understand it
GF your in trouble if Sue is right, even with the explanation I cant understand it
Thats 'cos your a boy
Thedeise: Well from what i have see of you here recently, she had a lucky escape, but i would say yes she should explain why she is acting like this.
thedeise... we may have had a difference of opinion in the last week or so basically about hijacking threads.. and thats all it was.. a difference of opinion..
but not once have i personally attacked you on any of the threads.
personally, what u just said there, is a personal attack.. not only that, but it was a mean and nasty thing to say too..
i definitly disagree with your opinion on what has been happening here over the past week or so, but at least i repsected you somewhat for standing up for what u believe in.. but that.. what u said.. well.. that just speaks volumes for itself..
little_miss: OK it was me and no im not into mind games, im honest, what i said is what i meant, and i dont need to explain myself in this circumstance.
I am sorry if i offended you Little miss, but maybe we all have been misled by the thread.....and what is going on with you both but that should stay between you both.....
So no need for you to explain a thing, and hope you accept my sorry with the heart it is being given with, which i think is a good one
gorrestfump: ok here's the scenario..
I saw a lady on this site a few times.. obviously she will remain nameless.. it didnt work out, and we would still drop a mail to each other from time to time.. in other words, on relative speaking terms..
then today, i get a random mail from her saying "i used to think you were nice"
when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."
so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do?? i mean, granted, if does not like me thats not a problem, i can't make anyone like me, but surely if someone is going to say something like that to you - completly out of the blue - then an explanation shoud follow??
or did she just say it to try and make me feel bad???
I saw a lady on this site a few times.. obviously she will remain nameless.. it didnt work out, and we would still drop a mail to each other from time to time.. in other words, on relative speaking terms..
then today, i get a random mail from her saying "i used to think you were nice"
when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."
so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do?? i mean, granted, if does not like me thats not a problem, i can't make anyone like me, but surely if someone is going to say something like that to you - completly out of the blue - then an explanation shoud follow??
or did she just say it to try and make me feel bad???
I'm not taking sides or anything...but, maybe she got you mixed up with someone else!!!
you never know.
bye all
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I saw a lady on this site a few times.. obviously she will remain nameless.. it didnt work out, and we would still drop a mail to each other from time to time.. in other words, on relative speaking terms..
then today, i get a random mail from her saying "i used to think you were nice"
when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."
so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do?? i mean, granted, if does not like me thats not a problem, i can't make anyone like me, but surely if someone is going to say something like that to you - completly out of the blue - then an explanation shoud follow??
or did she just say it to try and make me feel bad???