genuinely confused (245)

Jan 14, 2009 3:15 PM CST genuinely confused
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
I am only back a wet day and i can only speak for myself but I did post on this thread my opinion and i stick by it and then i said i was sorry as it was not my intention to offend anyone. But this is what the forums are about someone puts up a thread regardless of what it is. Anyone that want to add to it can post but should be able to do so as that is their opinion and it needs to be respected by all.

I would like to remind all of us, we all started here on cs on our own and it is hard for new people to get involved as they can be shunned even though its not intend, but regulars seem to forget how quick they felt when they started here first. New people can be very vunerable and one word can be so cruel to them but harmless to others. So i am always aware of new people and constantly reminded everyone we were new once, so be nice and play fair......Thats why i became Mammy of cs many moons ago to look out for the newbies and make the kids paly fair with them.....

So please think before you press that key to post your response to the thread.....teddybear teddybear teddybear


Now lets have some fun as the whole place has gone mad....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 14, 2009 3:24 PM CST genuinely confused
nuala: I am only back a wet day and i can only speak for myself but I did post on this thread my opinion and i stick by it and then i said i was sorry as it was not my intention to offend anyone. But this is what the forums are about someone puts up a thread regardless of what it is. Anyone that want to add to it can post but should be able to do so as that is their opinion and it needs to be respected by all.

I would like to remind all of us, we all started here on cs on our own and it is hard for new people to get involved as they can be shunned even though its not intend, but regulars seem to forget how quick they felt when they started here first. New people can be very vunerable and one word can be so cruel to them but harmless to others. So i am always aware of new people and constantly reminded everyone we were new once, so be nice and play fair......Thats why i became Mammy of cs many moons ago to look out for the newbies and make the kids paly fair with them.....

So please think before you press that key to post your response to the thread..... Now lets have some fun as the whole place has gone mad....


thumbs up Hi Mammy wave
Jan 14, 2009 3:32 PM CST genuinely confused
little_miss
little_misslittle_missOffaly, Ireland81 Threads 1,701 Posts
patrickthomas: I do not see any problem here either, GF posted how he felt, and rightly so, LM had no need to say that it was her at all...........Both adults,


PT I was not going to sit back and read a whole hate thread against me and have people say things about me. Of course I needed to say that it was me.
Jan 14, 2009 3:38 PM CST genuinely confused
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
little_miss: PT I was not going to sit back and read a whole hate thread against me and have people say things about me. Of course I needed to say that it was me.


As far as I can see, and Ive just checked again, when you came into the thread most of the concensus of opinion was actually agains GF, as far as I can see.

So, why the need to identify yourself? You seemed to have people on your side already anyway...
Jan 14, 2009 3:40 PM CST genuinely confused
little_miss
little_misslittle_missOffaly, Ireland81 Threads 1,701 Posts
petalbabe: As far as I can see, and Ive just checked again, when you came into the thread most of the concensus of opinion was actually agains GF, as far as I can see.

So, why the need to identify yourself? You seemed to have people on your side already anyway...


ok i didnt join the site for this...so wave and have fun!!
Jan 14, 2009 3:41 PM CST genuinely confused
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
Why, if I may ask, couldnt you have just emailed GF personally, and asked him to stop it/discuss it/f**k off?
Jan 14, 2009 3:41 PM CST genuinely confused
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
little_miss: ok i didnt join the site for this...so and have fun!!


Well, Im sorry, but you get what you give.
Jan 14, 2009 3:43 PM CST genuinely confused
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
nitak: Hi Mammy


Hi Nitak hope all is good for youwave teddybear
Jan 14, 2009 3:47 PM CST genuinely confused
arranroot
arranrootarranrootAthlone, Westmeath Ireland2 Threads 157 Posts
little_miss: PT I was not going to sit back and read a whole hate thread against me and have people say things about me. Of course I needed to say that it was me.


little_miss: OK it was me and no im not into mind games, im honest, what i said is what i meant, and i dont need to explain myself in this circumstance.


gorrestfump: when i asked her why she thought this her reply was, "I don't believe i owe you an explanation."

so ladys and fellas.. do u think an explanation is a proper mannerly thing to do??


Lets be honest for a minute, its not really the worse thing you could have said to someone now is it? So why would you get lots of hate? An explanation would have being courteous though. Anyone who hates someone for saying that would really get on with me, they might even think the sin shines out of my ... rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 14, 2009 3:49 PM CST genuinely confused
nuala: Hi Nitak hope all is good for you


wave well nuala its been ages ,i was gone for a good while , hope all is well....
great to see u
teddybear
Jan 14, 2009 3:54 PM CST genuinely confused
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
shimmy

ok a makeup snog then ??????dunno
Jan 14, 2009 3:55 PM CST genuinely confused
arranroot: Lets be honest for a minute, its not really the worse thing you could have said to someone now is it? So why would you get lots of hate? An explanation would have being courteous though. Anyone who hates someone for saying that would really get on with me, they might even think the sin shines out of my ...


Think it's time GF and LM sorted this privately ...dey certainly don't owe any of us any explanations , so good luck 2 u both thumbs up
Jan 14, 2009 3:55 PM CST genuinely confused
arranroot
arranrootarranrootAthlone, Westmeath Ireland2 Threads 157 Posts
nitak: Think it's time GF and LM sorted this privately ...dey certainly don't owe any of us any explanations , so good luck 2 u both


thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
Jan 14, 2009 3:56 PM CST genuinely confused
ladylumps: ok a makeup snog then ??????


GROUP HUG group hug grin
Jan 14, 2009 3:57 PM CST genuinely confused
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
nitak: Think it's time GF and LM sorted this privately ...dey certainly don't owe any of us any explanations , so good luck 2 u both


Agree, absolutely. No one knew who GF was referring to, until LM identified herself. It was a personal gripe between the two of them. Could have remained a general topic before that.
Jan 14, 2009 3:59 PM CST genuinely confused
arranroot
arranrootarranrootAthlone, Westmeath Ireland2 Threads 157 Posts
petalbabe: Agree, absolutely. No one knew who GF was referring to, until LM identified herself. It was a personal gripe between the two of them. Could have remained a general topic before that.


Can we let the thread die now?
Jan 14, 2009 4:00 PM CST genuinely confused
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
nitak: GROUP HUG


Phew I thought I was going to have to hug myself hug
Jan 14, 2009 4:04 PM CST genuinely confused
ladylumps: Phew I thought I was going to have to hug myself


quick lock it ......thumbs up giggle
Jan 14, 2009 4:05 PM CST genuinely confused
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
petalbabe: Agree, absolutely. No one knew who GF was referring to, until LM identified herself. It was a personal gripe between the two of them. Could have remained a general topic before that.



Sorry Petalbabe if I'm quoting you but it's just you were the last poster and there a re a few above who think the same.

I would like to point out that it was in private until GF posted the thread. To my mind all he was doing was attention seeking and getting a dig at Little Miss. If I was LM I would have also posted in his thread and identified myself and told him to grow up.

To me the forums are not for petty mind games and airing dirty laundry in public as if people hav a prob they shd just avoid each other...........simple confused

In my opinion what he did was a serious no no. JMO

And if anyone thinks I know either one of them you would be wrong.




peace
Jan 14, 2009 4:05 PM CST genuinely confused
ladylumps: Phew I thought I was going to have to hug myself


teddybear grin
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