What_a_man_wants: Is it that you are to scared to ask something? Or just not man enough?
I have had many women view my profile and never write. It evidently indicates that they are not interested.
The same can be said of those whose profiles I read. It may be the geographical or the age thresholds they reveal, or their lack of any depth to their self description. I have visited, but realized that we may not connect. It is that simple and has nothing to do with being scared or not being man enough.
Well said Rizlared, also we can't expect to be everybody's cup of tea all of the time. Everybody has their likes & dislikes & is perfectly entitled to them, don't take it so personally. Catwoman23.
In response to: Is it that you are to scared to ask something? Or just not man enough?
"Hi my beautiful SISTER!!!!.. How are you??? I wouldn't worry too much about that.However,from past experiences,I've noticed that guys just don't have the "balls" to approach a woman.Just sayin'.. However,there are many,many great guys on here. Right guys..???.. .So,girl,shrug this negative talk you're seeing and go girl!!!!!."
Well said Tumpa, I also think that we are all spiritual beings & we just have a sense about things & know who will be a good match for us & who will not. Really Threads you need to mature a bit, or maybe change your profile in some way. I realise this site (as any dating site) can sometimes be very frustrating, i was just about to leave it, but at the last minute i have met someone really nice, & just my cup of tea, hang in there & maybe the right person will come along for you too, just don't take it so personally when people don't leave you a message, as someone else said you can alway's make the first move. Catwoman23.
I think that is very rude & quite conceited of anyone not to reply, it's the least they could do, even if it's just to say "no thankyou" or "i'm not interested but wish you well with your search", after all you have gone to the trouble of contacting them. Hope you have a better experience next time Orhan981. Catwoman23.
catwoman23: I think that is very rude & quite conceited of anyone not to reply, it's the least they could do, even if it's just to say "no thankyou" or "i'm not interested but wish you well with your search", after all you have gone to the trouble of contacting them. Hope you have a better experience next time Orhan981. Catwoman23.
yes i agree with you, at least she should say, "i am sorry" so i understand she does not like me. thank you catwoman23
tumtum52: WTF i imed women to chat, and 3 quaters of the time they dont respond
I personally think a man would have to be very selfish, to expect me to start sending/recieving instant messages with him, when we haven't talked before (via e-mail.) Why would I give 100%devotion and time to a total stranger? I prefer to multi-task, and talking on IM does not allow me to do that.
It suffocates and bores me to death, with strangers.
BarrenPneuma: A dozen posts in a row? Are you that absorbed or are you just a troll? Where's the vorpal when ya need it...? Besides as much as you thing you are the hottest thing around on God's green Earth I have to wonder why your pic looks like something from a 20 year old yearbook? You need a better scanner to pull that one off... OK attack me like I care. You can join my fanclub too. I wouldn't have you anywhere else just based on the fact that there will never be a person who could Love you even one tenth as much as you Love yourself. Oh yeah and I still think you're a troll...
Lagoona22: China, it's not even that....sometimes it's just pure boredom....one looks at profiles....that's what one does here....why should there be any ulterior motive other than viewing profiles??...
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I have had many women view my profile and never write. It evidently indicates that they are not interested.
The same can be said of those whose profiles I read. It may be the geographical or the age thresholds they reveal, or their lack of any depth to their self description. I have visited, but realized that we may not connect. It is that simple and has nothing to do with being scared or not being man enough.