what stay in memories after divorse.... ( Archived) (9)

honestly..

Holly

Good morning.

You broke my thoughts there, I was just thinking about my divorce.

For me, I get along with my ex husband now, he will be a part of my life as a parent to the same children, he will be the same Granparent should our children have children of their own.

The hurt and pain has gone from all of my divorce and it was painful, now I am left with smiles of our time together, before it all went badly wrong, we talk once a week about the children and often have a glass of wine together when I return to the UK.

So, I have no regrets, about my marriage, it should have ended earlier than it did, but it did not.

I have memories of my children as little ones, Dad doing the garden, building a home, sometimes the frustrations, as I was a young mother, trying to make it all work, but we always had fun when we were together.

We do recover and repair, our bodies mend from the pain and hopefully memories are left that remind us of how we loved them.

dear sommer so nice to hire from you. have a grate day!

And lovely to see you Holly, as always.

You too.

In my case almost bankruptcy but that's a loooong time ago.I remember those doe brown eyes and I always thought she was the most beautiful woman on earth when she laughed.

My most abiding memory is to never ever marry again.....

they may take my life, but never my freedom......

this has alot of merit for now,,,,a whirlwind of thoughts,,from what drew me to her,,to what tore us apart

well, good times, I always think about the good experiences in life I had. Unfortunately our marriage couln't continue. He was a great guy but not the best man for me. So , now, we get along very well, we email almost everyday and say hi. We live each other far away in different countries; maybe thats the reason that we get along very weell now,, LOL... and its good because I would never go back to him. When its done its done!! and start a new life, there are so great people in everywhere that its good to start all over. Life is so short, so lets enjoy the present...