Divorce (24)
dub1988Anywhere, Dublin Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 205 PostsWould you marry the same woman or man again if you divorced?. And if so what would be the reasons that would change your mind and go back,what would need to change?
hmmmm....marriage, it must surely be the the most common cause of divorce, should it be allowed?
If I did that!
Please shoot me!
Please shoot me!
Mercedes1: If I did that!
Please shoot me!
Please shoot me!
was it that bad.
dub1988: was it that bad.
Ah mate..Ide rather be in iraq than get married to "IT" again!
Mercedes1: Ah mate..Ide rather be in iraq than get married to "IT" again!
omg that's bad to refer to as IT he was special.
dub1988: Would you marry the same woman or man again if you divorced?. And if so what would be the reasons that would change your mind and go back,what would need to change?
if it was only love that was lost? that can be re-kindled!!!but there ae so many variables!!!
only go back if your heart along with your head this time agree`s!!
if not??....make your next descisions (spelt wrong) purely on trust!!...
trust is the beauty of love... but also is the doubt of hate!!
told that once by a good friend/...still holds true!!!
puggle: if it was only love that was lost? that can be re-kindled!!!
but there ae so many variables!!!
only go back if your heart along with your head this time agree`s!!
if not??....make your next descisions (spelt wrong) purely on trust!!...
trust is the beauty of love... but also is the doubt of hate!!told that once by a good friend/...still holds true!!!
but there ae so many variables!!!
only go back if your heart along with your head this time agree`s!!
if not??....make your next descisions (spelt wrong) purely on trust!!...
trust is the beauty of love... but also is the doubt of hate!!told that once by a good friend/...still holds true!!!
Sound advice
Couldn't and wouldn't. Will always love him though.
dub1988: Would you marry the same woman or man again if you divorced?. And if so what would be the reasons that would change your mind and go back,what would need to change?
simple answer: NO
We have been divorced 10 years now and we have changed. Now and then i speak to the "enemy" when i have too but other than that we dont have much to do with each other. She has her life and i have mine and thats ok for both.
Well since you have to have been living apart for 4 of the preceeding 5 years before you can apply for a divorce here, I think you would be really sure after that time that divorce is what you wanted.
here's a useless bit of info during recession the number of people applying for divorce drops. a proven stat. i think i feel a new rant coming.
corkguy3: here's a useless bit of info during recession the number of people applying for divorce drops. a proven stat. i think i feel a new rant coming.
The reasons for that are propably financial.
true
In response to: Would you marry the same woman or man again if you divorced?. And if so what would be the reasons that would change your mind and go back,what would need to change?
Absolutely not...
When things start to go wrong in a marriage
+ they get worse,then get out..
Same in relationships,MY opinion.
missspecial: Absolutely not...
When things start to go wrong in a marriage
+ they get worse,then get out..
Same in relationships,MY opinion.
When things start to go wrong in a marriage
+ they get worse,then get out..
Same in relationships,MY opinion.
I agree, but most couples dont realise this till its too late. So they try to make out its all hunky dory and carry on not realising or wanting to realise that the problem(s) are getting deeper and much worse. Either one or maybe both hve this eternal fear of taking the word divorce into their mouths, the fear caused by the bad things posed around in the media, friends etc.
8 out of 10 divorces are ok, no dirty washing etc, and if there is no financial or real estate or kids issues too contend wth then the process is pretty quick and straightforward and then both parties can move on.
No, I think its wrong to go back, always go forward once you make a decision.
There is no way I would ever remarry my ex hubby, but thats just me.
There is no way I would ever remarry my ex hubby, but thats just me.
Nope just plain and simple...
vonney: Well since you have to have been living apart for 4 of the preceeding 5 years before you can apply for a divorce here, I think you would be really sure after that time that divorce is what you wanted.
Just learnt something I did not know...
Here in Scotland if you both agree and everything is sorted in an amicable fashion the rubber stamp can go down after just a short time....
Tended to be a two year seperation till the law changed last year to the new clean cut divorces..
Would I marry a person twice...no def not...
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