Do you remain friends? ( Archived) (91)

Feb 3, 2009 7:48 PM CST Do you remain friends?
newlife09
newlife09newlife09Pittston, Pennsylvania USA4 Threads 233 Posts
Some of my best friends are ex's. The only one I don't keep in touch with was the dishonest, cheating one. Why bother?

And though it is killing me, I am still trying to get along with my stb-ex, since I want my kids to see us being civil. That is my number one goal is not have nasty displays. If not for the kids, though, we wouldn't talk...at least at this point.
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Feb 3, 2009 7:48 PM CST Do you remain friends?
newlife09
newlife09newlife09Pittston, Pennsylvania USA4 Threads 233 Posts
post so nice i had to post it twice.
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Feb 3, 2009 7:56 PM CST Do you remain friends?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
Ambrose2007: Exactly my point, Laura. Which, in case anyone missed it, is that one should not fraternize with one's exes.


rolling on the floor laughing

That is my firm belief, Jeff, yes! wine


laugh ...even though in the post you quoted last, it was not the only point I was making grin


teddybear
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Feb 3, 2009 8:12 PM CST Do you remain friends?
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
Never-ever-ever-ever. That is the going into relationship rule.dancing
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Feb 4, 2009 1:19 AM CST Do you remain friends?
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
nope, she had a plan, took everything material, hid money, she had a choice ,intead she made the lawyers rich. now shes paying me alimony
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Feb 4, 2009 1:31 AM CST Do you remain friends?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
I am still on the internet with my first wife that I divorced 40 years ago. We stay in touch. The woman I divorced two years ago and I are in constant touch. The woman who divorced me twenty five years ago, and I speak when we must for out children's sake
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Feb 4, 2009 1:46 AM CST Do you remain friends?
pesh121
pesh121pesh121Manila, Metro Manila Philippines30 Threads 2 Polls 435 Posts
I think i cant unless i am totally over him..so i can truly say iam here for him as a "friend"...because sometimes when you still have some feelings for the person and still wanted to see and know how he have been we usually say "lets be friends" though inside you are hoping maybe one day you can be together again. i dont know with others but this is just me
peace
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Feb 16, 2009 11:50 PM CST Do you remain friends?
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
Yeah, ... friends and more. This is frustrating and confusing... I'm not sure if I'm single or not...
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Feb 16, 2009 11:52 PM CST Do you remain friends?
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
sweetowen: Have you remained friends with your exes?

I like to remain friends because I figure that even though things may not have worked out in the relationship, a lot of times they can make great friends!




Very rarely but I have with a few. Have had alot of bad breaks, but probably just as many good ones.
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Feb 16, 2009 11:54 PM CST Do you remain friends?
JoAnn62
JoAnn62JoAnn62Singapore, Central Singapore Singapore4 Threads 128 Posts
sweetowen: Have you remained friends with your exes?

I like to remain friends because I figure that even though things may not have worked out in the relationship, a lot of times they can make great friends!


Always a good idea to remain friends.
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Feb 17, 2009 12:10 AM CST Do you remain friends?
If I loved them, they will always remain friends.
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