Do you remain friends? ( Archived) (91)

Feb 3, 2009 10:59 AM CST Do you remain friends?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Have you remained friends with your exes?

I like to remain friends because I figure that even though things may not have worked out in the relationship, a lot of times they can make great friends! wine
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Feb 3, 2009 10:59 AM CST Do you remain friends?
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
sweetowen: Have you remained friends with your exes?

I like to remain friends because I figure that even though things may not have worked out in the relationship, a lot of times they can make great friends!






No, never have and never would!
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Feb 3, 2009 11:00 AM CST Do you remain friends?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Let me clarify something...

I've remained friends with my ex-boyfriends, but not with my ex-husband... although I did give it a try.
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Feb 3, 2009 11:00 AM CST Do you remain friends?
Yes.

wine
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Feb 3, 2009 11:01 AM CST Do you remain friends?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Yes!wine hug grin
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Feb 3, 2009 11:02 AM CST Do you remain friends?
blu555fire
blu555fireblu555fireAugusta, Georgia USA2 Threads 71 Posts
I don't think that would be a good idea.
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Feb 3, 2009 11:02 AM CST Do you remain friends?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
sweetowen: Have you remained friends with your exes?

I like to remain friends because I figure that even though things may not have worked out in the relationship, a lot of times they can make great friends!


I have remained friends with my ex wife but not 2 girlfriends even tho I tried............

I would always prefer to remain friends...........

wine
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Feb 3, 2009 11:03 AM CST Do you remain friends?
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
Only one "ex" is my friend.....

That's because he's the only educated person I know in a 50 mile range. laugh
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Feb 3, 2009 11:03 AM CST Do you remain friends?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
blu555fire: I don't think that would be a good idea.


Why not?
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Feb 3, 2009 11:04 AM CST Do you remain friends?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
I am not friends with any of my ex's, but with the exception of one mean exboyfriend. We are all on friendly terms, they would most likely say Hi and how have you been doing.laugh Good enough to me, I have no use for them.laugh
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Feb 3, 2009 11:05 AM CST Do you remain friends?
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
I have remained friends with ex boyfriends but can not at the present be in the same room as my ex by myself. Maybe one day the fear I have will subside....dunno
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Feb 3, 2009 11:05 AM CST Do you remain friends?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
mylifewithu: I am not friends with any of my ex's, but with the exception of one mean exboyfriend whom I would run from if I saw him. We are all on friendly terms, they would most likely say Hi and how have you been doing. Good enough to me, I have no use for them.
doh
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Feb 3, 2009 11:07 AM CST Do you remain friends?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
mylifewithu: I am not friends with any of my ex's, but with the exception of one mean exboyfriend. We are all on friendly terms, they would most likely say Hi and how have you been doing. Good enough to me, I have no use for them.


confused I'm confused...
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Feb 3, 2009 11:08 AM CST Do you remain friends?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
sweetowen: I'm confused...
I know me toolaugh wave hug I meant that I wouldn't be friends with him but that I would run.laugh
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Feb 3, 2009 11:09 AM CST Do you remain friends?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Let me elaborate a little more! Being friends with my exhusband didn't happen the day after we separated. It has taken "years" to re-establish a friendship. When children are involved it is necessary and vital. help
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Feb 3, 2009 11:09 AM CST Do you remain friends?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Best of friends with my ex's.
Dont get on with my wife though, but still
good friends with my mother in law.



grin
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Feb 3, 2009 11:15 AM CST Do you remain friends?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
sweetowen: Have you remained friends with your exes?

I like to remain friends because I figure that even though things may not have worked out in the relationship, a lot of times they can make great friends!


I think it's fine to be on friendly terms with past loves/likes. "Friendly terms" however does not mean "regular communication" or socializing or a continuing involvement in any intimate sense. Exes belong firmly in the past, in my opinion. Your current love should be your focus, both romantically and friendship-wise, imo.wave
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Feb 3, 2009 11:18 AM CST Do you remain friends?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
sweetowen: I'm confused...
Let me correct it again.doh laugh I am not friend's with any of my ex's. We are all on friendly terms with the exception of one mean exboyfriend, whom I would run from if I saw him. The rest would most likely say Hi and how are you doing. Good enough to me, I have no use for them.laugh



Yes my brain is still having trouble thinking being on cold medicine and having a sinus headache.laugh doh
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Feb 3, 2009 11:20 AM CST Do you remain friends?
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
Truth be told, I would rather see my ex eviscerated.
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Feb 3, 2009 11:23 AM CST Do you remain friends?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
DazzleYou: Truth be told, I would rather see my ex eviscerated.


wow conversing What about the neighbor, Daz?dunno wave
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