I don't do nuthin but go on, how can it be revenge if they see that it is bothering you enough to do something. Many times being bothered is what they look for, that way they are actually getting their revenge. And the more they know you the better they can read into any indicators that show yor pain. so it's best to play it safe and take care of it at yor own end therfore ending the cycle for good.
Also, I like the torch idea? But, a big stick is great (maybe pointed). The vibration as it contacts the body...then, if they haven't cried uncle? poke thier eyes out. That'll do it.
When you are hurt...really hurt by someone and you get to the angry stage It is very difficult not to feel vindictive. I feel however, that strong negative emotions affect one mentally and physically. So I say to you Take care of yourself...Living well is the best revenge!
Not sure this qualifies as revenge, as I believe in letting them hang themselves..
My ex has continuously gone behind couurt orders to control events regarding finances, custody issues... No manner of explaining the law to him makes a difference.
How far does one have to go to be safe and done with it? I get the okay, and great results from child services on paper, have the court orders... But they get screwed up when he does these things.
I'm damned tired of having to keep fresh paperwork to keep ahead of his crap. And, it is just crap. He does whatever he feels like.
When does the end game come? Is there a time where revenge must be put to front just to be heard? I dunno. Never felt hate before this. Not like this.
gonna get mine on Nov. 3rd hopefully on ex when he tries for custody of his daughter and i show up as a character witness for her mom and not him heheheheh fell better i do
I understand TabooN, I am a very patience and not violence person but when it comes to my kids I don't know right from wrong. Thanks God it had not happened to me. I really don't know how to react!
I wish you the best, I know from Nov 2, I just can imagine for you is like taking a big load from your back! In my case even though the court gave a schedule, I let them see each other, whenever they want and so far after 7 years, have work just fine!. I know from experince with my stepkids, how damaging can be for a kid to be in the middle of a battle between the two people they love the most.
By letting her fall back down into the depths where I found her. I took her out of a small town and showed her what it was like to be recognised by society as a contributing member. Showed her what it is like to be able to afoord nice things, and pleasant atmosheres. Now she is back in the same place, doing the same BS as when I found her. (insert evil laugh) Nothing like hanging out around a case of beer watching the best years of your life wither away. She deserves all she has........
I agree 100%. Far as the battle goes...I was given sole custody for a reason. I agreed to the visitations, and welcome more if he wasn't so violent. But, he has no control. I won'y project what he will do, because I just don't know. That's the kicker, we neve know what he'll do... My gutt tells methat since he can barely manage a few visits without doing something or other...he won't push it. It would mean true effort to be an adult, and he just doesn't have it. Judge saw that at the firt hearing. But, yes, it does effect tem, terribly, and we have to pick up the pieces best we can and not lose it from a broken heart everytime we look into thier faces and see the damage and pain... The best thing so far? My daughter sees that no matter what isthrown at you, you do not haveto take it. You can take action and be strong. Noone has theright to terrorize you.
Your daughter is lucky to have a mother like you. If only parents really, really love their kids, why not avoid more pain that is done to them, having the parents in separate ways isn't that bad enough . Pure immaturity and childish behavior not too mention selfishness
Because they aren't thinking of the kids at all, really. Sure they might believe they are, and probably love them...But, it is themslves they think of most. That is sad.
And, I think I needto switch over keyboards, because I swear letters keep coming up issing in posts=-/ Typo queen yeah, but letter amnesia, nahhh LOL
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But, no stick!?=0o
lol