If he doesn't know what he wants? ( Archived) (41)

You're so right! But why things should be like this?! Everybody here says NO PLAYING GAMES... And in the end we are all playing someone else.

He's either got serious issues he needs to deal with or he's playing games, possibly married?

You could ask him but then, if he's playing games, you are unlikely to get a straight and honest answer out of him, are you?

If he's got issues and needs to behave in this manner in order to deal with them, do you want a relationship with someone like that?

Bottom line is, its not very respectful behaviour towards you, is it? I think you know the answer here, don't you?

hmm .. I KNOW there should be no game playing.. BUT!..to be honest.. in the 'beginning' .. I think you need to play it a little. (women AND men)

and look at this way..

as you said.. 'Everybody here says NO PLAYING GAMES'

and yet.. we are all on a SINGLES site..

I have been doing a LOT of case study.. haha

It's worth a try

Yes, i think i know it. But lately my life is full of wrong decisions. That's why i wanted to hear some other opinion... I don't think he's married. I think he's affraid of complications. Maybe he prefer someone from his country.. I don't know exactly. And i even don't know why i like him so much but it's a fact i do.

Hello milena,I know that emotions are very real. Yes, when you feel it for a man, it is hard to see that he could be a player. Now, I am not saying that your man is a player but you need to be rational even when you're goo goo gah gah for a man.

Any man who leaves you confused is not worth your time. Someone who says, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" or "I love you but I want to take a break" is a player.

Players should be dumped. And the fastest way to help a player understand that you're not an idiotic doormat is to get out of the equation.

I don't care how sweet of a heart he is. He can't have a sweet heart nor be a Sweetheart if he's leaving you confused. Men who want to have their cake and eat it too will do this to women. They will leave you in limbo, leave you guessing, leave you hanging. Oh, Please!

Stop trying to decode his behavior and get a man who you don't have to work so hard to figure out. When a REAL man wants you, his behavior will be consistent, he'll communicate his intentions, and you wont have to work so hard to play little child's game.

Real men know what they want!

So you think i should wait him to make some decision? And in a meanwhile to keep talking once weeekly? Maybe his acting is more reasonable regarding we are unknown people who have only words to trust to...

which country is he from?

Ain't that simply the damn truth..

Gamer. Play solitaire for a bit. Don't let him in YOUR game. Play by your own rules and don't give in and contact him first. If he wants to contact you, then so be it. Simply put: you can't make someone want you.

The truth is he never said he loves me or something like this... I'm not sure too if it's love or not. I can't say it before meet the man in real. But i know there is something nice and diferent about us. I'm asking myself if we should be affraid of it. If we have to wait and to know each other better or we just have to take a chance...