PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE THIS OUT (30)
thanks drkeyedbeauty..........I am too good for that. One day I will get my wish and me and him will live happily ever after
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Well, either learn to love someone else, or teach him
to trust you (online, for example) and behave a lot better, like never ever leaving you hanging by yourself for three days. Teach him that, teach him to be nicer,
to show you some love and treat you decently, or learn
to love someone else. It's your choice.
dpw
to trust you (online, for example) and behave a lot better, like never ever leaving you hanging by yourself for three days. Teach him that, teach him to be nicer,
to show you some love and treat you decently, or learn
to love someone else. It's your choice.
dpw
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The man was not up front with you until he was backed in a corner. This is a RED FLAG!!!
I doubt he is even getting divorced.Run like the wind ...
Do not invest anything further in this online Don Juan.
I'm sure you are not the first person scammed by this guy. Do share the screenname so the rest of us can stay clear.I am sorry that you had to go through this but there are better men out there than this jerk.
Good Luck....
I doubt he is even getting divorced.Run like the wind ...
Do not invest anything further in this online Don Juan.
I'm sure you are not the first person scammed by this guy. Do share the screenname so the rest of us can stay clear.I am sorry that you had to go through this but there are better men out there than this jerk.
Good Luck....
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is it what's inside that counts or is everyone looking for someone beautiful? I think that's the thread I named him in. He is a 36 year old black male from forrest park, ga. I don't want to give out his screen name because he do know my numbers
but he's a smooth talking guy that is looking for marriage, so he states
he has a son and alot of tatoos
but he's a smooth talking guy that is looking for marriage, so he states
he has a son and alot of tatoos
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Thanx goodblkwoman. He's a smooth talker alright but I don't think marriage is what he wants he already has one.
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You don't need a man like that, one that lies and is sneaky!
Brian
Brian
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I was so sorry to read your story I have had a similar experience here with a guy. from calafornia originally from Georgia I almost thought he could be the same guy the stories are almost identical. I also feel as you do. I need closure and answers to why and am haunted by not knowing. I have recently discovered in myself that I will never know why and that i am better than he is and much better off without him and I am sure you are also. You must take pride in who you are and put yourself above this terrible person and move forward it may be one of the hardest things you have to do but in the end it will be worth it. Good luck to you
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I dont think you need help figuring this out. He's treating you like crap and sneaking around behind his present wifes back. What part of "a loser" do you NOT see in him...yet??
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I never caught on either
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Oops! This is all my fault! Sorry Missie, sorry
Isabella, especially sorry Missie. The thing is, Missie,
that I read profiles, and when you showed up here, your
profile had a very unlikely number in it. I didn't really
want to ask, I really didn't, I was afraid of embarrassing
you, so I just kept checking it regularly, to see if you
fixed it. Well, either you or the system fixed it, just
BEFORE I made an idiot of myself here. I should have
checked again right before posting my message, but I saw
a dialogue between you and Isabella and couldn't resist
a quick shot. You see, Isabella, Missie must be 5'4 but
for at least a week her profile said she was 4'4 and I was
fool enough to believe that. Sorry, ladies.
dpw
Isabella, especially sorry Missie. The thing is, Missie,
that I read profiles, and when you showed up here, your
profile had a very unlikely number in it. I didn't really
want to ask, I really didn't, I was afraid of embarrassing
you, so I just kept checking it regularly, to see if you
fixed it. Well, either you or the system fixed it, just
BEFORE I made an idiot of myself here. I should have
checked again right before posting my message, but I saw
a dialogue between you and Isabella and couldn't resist
a quick shot. You see, Isabella, Missie must be 5'4 but
for at least a week her profile said she was 4'4 and I was
fool enough to believe that. Sorry, ladies.
dpw
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Well LL now the mystery is out
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getting back to topic, i believe that for your sake agoodblkwoman, you should really consider dropping him. To lie to you before things really get too far off the ground is no way to start a relationship, now is it. Until his ex no longer lives with him, i would keep your distance. Not saying you can't talk to him, but certainly make your point known to him
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Hi im sorry about your situation but it sounds like the guy is a jerk! good luck!
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e-mail me sometime and we can talk more!
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I'm sorry you got hurt, too, agoodblkwoman. I have had one or two bad experiences meeting people in person that I discovered online, too. I don't usually give love advice (seeing that I have no man of my own to love) but I have been around the barbed-wire block. I have avoided answering this thread for many days, but my friends in the forums have proven repeatedly the ability to accept me the way I am, so I'll risk it.
Stay away from him, don't humor him with your attention, don't give the predatory sob one hint that you are interested.
You are a beauty. He is a butt nugget. Move on.
Stay away from him, don't humor him with your attention, don't give the predatory sob one hint that you are interested.
You are a beauty. He is a butt nugget. Move on.
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let me tell you from a man who is going through a divorce it isnt easy for us men who are actually going through the divorce because of men like him he isnt going to get a divorce you were right thinking that he wanted the best form both worlds where i am at my divorce has no set time limit i have to wait for the courts to make up thier damn mind about the case it sucks for me cause i cant give anyone any type of time frame but in another respect i also still live with my ex because of my son and financial reasons we are best friends and we live seperate lives and in different parts of our house which isnt always the easiest thing for me to explain to a woman i meet but if i never hide it from women when i chat with them or date them i am very up front with them and i have had good results but also i dont abruptly hang up on them or log off the net while i am talking to them i dont hide my personal life from my ex hell i have asked her what she thought of women i am talking to she gives me her opinion and goes on so dont not trust all men who are in this situation but also be wary and know the signs to keep from being hurt if you ever want some advice from a mans point of view feel free to email me
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I think he wanted the best of both worlds. A wife to sleep with everynight and a girlfriend in South Carolina that he could F@#k on the weekends. He says that he loves me and wants to marry me. I'm so hurt right now, your comments could really help me