Having just posted a Poll entitled .... '' Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ? ''...... ( very revealing answers !! )
- Question ? what are you experiences of not getting replies to messages..... and what does it make you think of ' them ' and ' yourself ' ?
iamamm: Having just posted a Poll entitled .... '' Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ? ''...... ( very revealing answers !! )
- Question ? what are you experiences of not getting replies to messages..... and what does it make you think of ' them ' and ' yourself ' ?
I’ve checked your previous thread on the same subject, and noticed that you didn’t bother to react in any way, though people cared to post (and the number of participants was rather high for this slow place).
So it looks like that you are one who doesn’t reply.
I don’t want to enforce any rules here, it’s not that unusual that the “hosts” or a thread leave it on its own, but I’ve got a question: how does your non-response coincide with your idea of good manners or politeness? What do you experience by not replying to messages addressed to you?
Tulefel: I’ve checked your previous thread on the same subject, and noticed that you didn’t bother to react in any way, though people cared to post (and the number of participants was rather high for this slow place).
So it looks like that you are one who doesn’t reply.
I don’t want to enforce any rules here, it’s not that unusual that the “hosts” or a thread leave it on its own, but I’ve got a question: how does your non-response coincide with your idea of good manners or politeness? What do you experience by not replying to messages addressed to you?
Hi Tulefel
Well I didn't quite expect that sort of answer ! I am wondering exactly what ' previous thread ' you are talking about ? ( Are you talking about the Poll ? )
Look...I just drive a car...I don't know how to service the flipping thing...similarly I am on this site ( but seldom use Forums / polls ) and thus have no idea what you are talking about .... please feel free to enlighten me ?
Rather than reply with a criticism based on a presumption !! So let's deal with the content of your last paragraph, once we both know what we are talking about.......okay ?
If anyone messages me on the normal site...I always reply !! even if it's a bloody scammer !!
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
Tulefel: I’ve checked your previous thread on the same subject, and noticed that you didn’t bother to react in any way, though people cared to post (and the number of participants was rather high for this slow place).
So it looks like that you are one who doesn’t reply.
I don’t want to enforce any rules here, it’s not that unusual that the “hosts” or a thread leave it on its own, but I’ve got a question: how does your non-response coincide with your idea of good manners or politeness? What do you experience by not replying to messages addressed to you?
Tulefel: I’ve checked your previous thread on the same subject, and noticed that you didn’t bother to react in any way, though people cared to post (and the number of participants was rather high for this slow place).
So it looks like that you are one who doesn’t reply.
I don’t want to enforce any rules here, it’s not that unusual that the “hosts” or a thread leave it on its own, but I’ve got a question: how does your non-response coincide with your idea of good manners or politeness? What do you experience by not replying to messages addressed to you?
on the other hand it is quite boring to see people start a thread only to reply with emoticons to every single thing said in it....
You should know by now, because you´ve been a member for some time, that the women in particular often have a hard time when they do respond saying they are not interested. It´s just not worth the effort, however polite one normally is.
As I said in your earlier thread, I do not message men unless they are forum friends, so I can´t say I´ve experienced what you are referring to here.
Tulefel: I’ve checked your previous thread on the same subject, and noticed that you didn’t bother to react in any way, though people cared to post (and the number of participants was rather high for this slow place).
So it looks like that you are one who doesn’t reply.
I don’t want to enforce any rules here, it’s not that unusual that the “hosts” or a thread leave it on its own, but I’ve got a question: how does your non-response coincide with your idea of good manners or politeness? What do you experience by not replying to messages addressed to you?
JAN_is: It says that the recipient is not interested.
You should know by now, because you´ve been a member for some time, that the women in particular often have a hard time when they do respond saying they are not interested. It´s just not worth the effort, however polite one normally is.
As I said in your earlier thread, I do not message men unless they are forum friends, so I can´t say I´ve experienced what you are referring to here.
Hi Jan In which case why would they vote you a 10 ? why would they view your profile ? Of course many are not going to be interested, I have no illusions ... and agree women may have a hard time, but not sure it's any less hard for men ? ( many examples can be supplied, lol ) As for not worth the effort , that's a pity....would have thought most ' lifers ' on here could handle themselves ? Maybe I am ever the optimist ? Regarding your not messaging...unless forum friends...jeeez..wonder how many other women on here only do the same ? Maybe it should be renamed ' ConnectingForums ' ? Seriously , I know a few that make it clear they are only here for the forums... but it's the others I am talking about...who I have to assume are not like you ?
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'' Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ? ''......
( very revealing answers !! )
- Question ?
what are you experiences of not getting replies to messages.....
and what does it make you think of ' them ' and ' yourself ' ?