west76: lets see what guys think of irish women views are the off the mark
I suppose we should confine the question to womens views on relationships and not their psychology in general?
Women do seem to have an unrealistic view of men. To women a 'Good Man' seems to mean a creature of good physique, well dressed, with a nice car and lots of money. He should be strong and conquering. So far so good for most of us. However, he must also be a selfless lap-dog except when he's supposed to be dominant..... but not too dominant. He should be able to read her mind....but only when he's supposed to. The rest of the time he should remain confused and in need of her guidance which she will retrieve for him from her latest self-help book. And do her bidding and jump whenever she wants to engage in histrionic head games.
facetowardsfront: I suppose we should confine the question to womens views on relationships and not their psychology in general?
Women do seem to have an unrealistic view of men. To women a 'Good Man' seems to mean a creature of good physique, well dressed, with a nice car and lots of money. He should be strong and conquering. So far so good for most of us. However, he must also be a selfless lap-dog except when he's supposed to be dominant..... but not too dominant. He should be able to read her mind....but only when he's supposed to. The rest of the time he should remain confused and in need of her guidance which she will retrieve for him from her latest self-help book. And do her bidding and jump whenever she wants to engage in histrionic head games.
facetowardsfront: I suppose we should confine the question to womens views on relationships and not their psychology in general?
Women do seem to have an unrealistic view of men. To women a 'Good Man' seems to mean a creature of good physique, well dressed, with a nice car and lots of money. He should be strong and conquering. So far so good for most of us. However, he must also be a selfless lap-dog except when he's supposed to be dominant..... but not too dominant. He should be able to read her mind....but only when he's supposed to. The rest of the time he should remain confused and in need of her guidance which she will retrieve for him from her latest self-help book. And do her bidding and jump whenever she wants to engage in histrionic head games.
facetowardsfront: I suppose we should confine the question to womens views on relationships and not their psychology in general?
Women do seem to have an unrealistic view of men. To women a 'Good Man' seems to mean a creature of good physique, well dressed, with a nice car and lots of money. He should be strong and conquering. So far so good for most of us. However, he must also be a selfless lap-dog except when he's supposed to be dominant..... but not too dominant. He should be able to read her mind....but only when he's supposed to. The rest of the time he should remain confused and in need of her guidance which she will retrieve for him from her latest self-help book. And do her bidding and jump whenever she wants to engage in histrionic head games.
Yes, that is off the mark entirely.
Now that's what I call way of the mark, guys with money and nice car are usually self absorbed and arrogant, strong yes conquering ummmm, sounds interesting lap dog NO dominant NO well maybe a bit confused and need my guidance NO, I have kids for that read my mind, not all the time self help book, do you want to borrow mine head games NO NO NO NO NO time wasting and life is to short, can think of better games cleudo
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