if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ? ( Archived) (13)

May 10, 2013 11:27 AM CSTif you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork, Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts

if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?(Vote Below)

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1 year
21
36%
3 years
15
25%
5 years
3
5%
8 years
2
3%
13 years
1
2%
21 years
0
0%
no i would never go on a date
4
7%
i'm ready now !
13
22%
Total Votes
59
Some young widows on here.not really waiting too long to start to date but also some other women that seem to have waited a bit longer dunno teddybear
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May 10, 2013 11:30 AM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
Tarzansnuts
TarzansnutsTarzansnutsdublin, Dublin Ireland92 Threads 1,020 Posts
the day after the wake cheers
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May 10, 2013 11:35 AM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
Tarzansnuts: the day after the wake

Bend her over across the coffin.
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May 10, 2013 11:40 AM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
Tarzansnuts
TarzansnutsTarzansnutsdublin, Dublin Ireland92 Threads 1,020 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 11, 2013 11:33 PM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
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May 12, 2013 10:53 AM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
Thumblelina
ThumblelinaThumblelinaKildare, Ireland22 Posts
That's not something you can really put a time on tbh, for some they may find the lonliness gets to them and they can't stand it and end up datin and settling into something they shouldn't. Others start to date too soon and it doesn't work out, some times it does. At the end of the day no one knows when they will be ready after a loss like that. I've dated a widower who thought he was ready, in the end he wasn't and it caused us both alot of heart ache. All anyone can do is try when they feel like they might be ready and see how it pans out. The lenght of time someone waits is not something anyone should ever be judged on.
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May 12, 2013 4:04 PM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
facetowardsfront
facetowardsfrontfacetowardsfrontCork, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 2,921 Posts
WESTERNSTAR1: http://youtu.be/IuHhlGMuIus



Ah, they don't write classics like that anymore

You put me in mind of a scene in Scrubs where J.D. gets it on with Amy Smart at her husbands funeral. But ... Amy Smart... who wouldn't?

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May 12, 2013 4:21 PM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
Thumblelina: That's not something you can really put a time on tbh, for some they may find the lonliness gets to them and they can't stand it and end up datin and settling into something they shouldn't. Others start to date too soon and it doesn't work out, some times it does. At the end of the day no one knows when they will be ready after a loss like that. I've dated a widower who thought he was ready, in the end he wasn't and it caused us both alot of heart ache. All anyone can do is try when they feel like they might be ready and see how it pans out. The lenght of time someone waits is not something anyone should ever be judged on.


I think its a personal choice and circumstances as I was widowed at 38 with 8 children, my youngest was 6 and eldest 18, but started going out socially a year later. Then met a man 3 years after my husband death which lasted for 3 years but he wanted me to himself and my children were to be left to do their own thing. So my children came first. His loss!!! tongue
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May 12, 2013 4:58 PM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
Embedded image from another site
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May 12, 2013 5:06 PM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
Embedded image from another site
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May 23, 2013 6:54 PM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
no one got that I put the years in pie crying
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May 23, 2013 8:14 PM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
WESTERNSTAR1: no one got that I put the years in pie

If you had 2 in there... wink
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May 23, 2013 11:35 PM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
MADDOG69: If you had 2 in there...
i'd round it off as a 3 sum banana laugh
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Aug 4, 2013 3:25 PM CST if you were a widow how long would you wait till you start to date ?
Pom_Pom
Pom_PomPom_PomBuenos Aires, Argentina71 Threads 32 Polls 1,740 Posts
Our president stills wears black,



But it was said she slept with many male secretaries short after and even before her husbands death.


laugh
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