Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia3,764 posts
jaynimble: You just don't get it lady, i know all this, this whole forum was about me getting her without money, everything else but money, i don't buy people, i don't buy friends, i don't buy girlfriends, this whole forum was about her loving me for me about us
Sorry matey..I did get an A+ in english! I wont reply no more as I was just posting as I read your posts!
hollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Exactly...its not...like you said there are far more things that make you richer than money...that money can never buy...
I have met two millonaires and one doctor. This was in the time that people still placed ads. Well I was curious why they would tell they had money. The story is too long to tell you all but I did find out why this guys were single. The doctor talked about himself and himself for about an hour. I told him doctor; you make me sick and I told him why.
No NEVER tell if you are rich. A bell hop in the UK fell in love with the elavator girl and she with him. When they became engaged he told her that he was the son of a rich man in the US. His dad owned restaurants. Send his son to the UK to learn the business from the ground up.
Tater: Hun though that is true for about 20% of the population, 80% regaurdless what they say, will go for the money... think about all the people you know, most will allow money to overide their principles... it's sad but very very true...
How many millionaires have you seen or that you may know that have a woman or man beside them that is as ugly as they might be....I would say 80% of people would literally sell their soul. for money...
Nope not all of us, I never did, and that is the way I looked at it, it was selling my soul. That is all I am going to say , I don't want to go into the story on it. ok. I will just say my daughter and I lived on the $170 dollar child support check and we managed. But I never sold my soul for any thing extra that we needed , I just taught her my survival skills.
hollandgirl: I have met two millonaires and one doctor. This was in the time that people still placed ads. Well I was curious why they would tell they had money. The story is too long to tell you all but I did find out why this guys were single. The doctor talked about himself and himself for about an hour. I told him doctor; you make me sick and I told him why.
No NEVER tell if you are rich. A bell hop in the UK fell in love with the elavator girl and she with him. When they became engaged he told her that he was the son of a rich man in the US. His dad owned restaurants. Send his son to the UK to learn the business from the ground up.
Exactly...money can't buy you a heart and personality either or make you love someone the way another person deserves to be loved....
hollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Exactly...money can't buy you a heart and personality either or make you love someone the way another person deserves to be loved....
My dad taught his girls; Don't ever marry for money as you would then live in a golden cage but it still would be a cage.
Having never been any further away from home more then about 25 km.(about 18 miles or less?) I would think wow he could take me around the world! Then I would think but what if I don't care about him? No that price would be too high.
I don't hate money don't get me wrong I am not such a hypocrite, but as It says in my profile, if he ONLY has money, it would not be enough.
Offer your love before the money , don't jump too fast with the money.
Ask her later can I help you with the bills or go pay her rent one time anonmously. I had that happened once by a neighbor many years ago, that was pretty cool. Although I would have loved to pay him back with at least a real home cooked meal, but he was moving and I had no time by the time I found out about the rent that month. He was a real angel..
hollandgirl: My dad taught his girls; Don't ever marry for money as you would then live in a golden cage but it still would be a cage.
Having never been any further away from home more then about 25 km.(about 18 miles or less?) I would think wow he could take me around the world! Then I would think but what if I don't care about him? No that price would be too high.
I don't hate money don't get me wrong I am not such a hypocrite, but as It says in my profile, if he ONLY has money, it would not be enough.
well as i said before it wouldn't be about her marrying me for money, it would be about love
hollandgirl: My dad taught his girls; Don't ever marry for money as you would then live in a golden cage but it still would be a cage.
Having never been any further away from home more then about 25 km.(about 18 miles or less?) I would think wow he could take me around the world! Then I would think but what if I don't care about him? No that price would be too high.
I don't hate money don't get me wrong I am not such a hypocrite, but as It says in my profile, if he ONLY has money, it would not be enough.
I agree....that's why I have my own...not rich...but I support myself and my kids just fine...and will continue to be independent financially regardless of what relationship I ever get into...because that's me and who I am....
mylifewithu: Offer your love before the money , don't jump too fast with the money.
Ask her later can I help you with the bills or go pay her rent one time anonmously. I had that happened once by a neighbor many years ago, that was pretty cool. Although I would have loved to pay him back with at least a real home cooked meal, but he was moving and I had no time by the time I found out about the rent that month. He was a real angel..
yeah i planned on helping her annymously helping her and then after we get married then tell her
hollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
Okay I hear you. The only way for you to find out if she loves you without any money, is to keep all talk about money to yourself. You also can Not take her to your home. Drive an expensive car etc. It will not be an easy task for you.
The only thing I don't get is...How did you meet her and when??? Since you just joined here or did you know she was here and this is the reason you're here...that's the part I am confused on????
I guess the rating the pics thread etc has me a bit confused....
Hugz_n_Kissez: The only thing I don't get is...How did you meet her and when??? Since you just joined here or did you know she was here and this is the reason you're here...that's the part I am confused on????I guess the rating the pics thread etc has me a bit confused....
I met her before i came to the site, i actually had my eyes set on her before she ever got pregnant, before i even knew she was, and she has so much more to offer than looks, she has a beautiful soul
jaynimble: I met her before i came to the site, i actually had my eyes set on her before she ever got pregnant, before i even knew she was, and she has so much more to offer than looks, she has a beautiful soul
hollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
jaynimble: I met her before i came to the site, i actually had my eyes set on her before she ever got pregnant, before i even knew she was, and she has so much more to offer than looks, she has a beautiful soul
Is this girl in love with the babies father? I would think not eh? He let her down now that she is pregnant? That is very sad and something that happens a lot.
She seemed not to have loved you earlier so do you think you now have a chance? Is she now desparate? Leave her alone and see how she she copes alone. Make sure she does have you for a friend but nothing more for now. Wait and see until after the baby is born, the father may come back into the picture then. Would she want him back is the question. The father should be made responsible for paying for the babies upkeep.
hollandgirl: Is this girl in love with the babies father? I would think not eh? He let her down now that she is pregnant? That is very sad and something that happens a lot.
She seemed not to have loved you earlier so do you think you now have a chance? Is she now desparate? Leave her alone and see how she she copes alone. Make sure she does have you for a friend but nothing more for now. Wait and see until after the baby is born, the father may come back into the picture then. Would she want him back is the question. The father should be made responsible for paying for the babies upkeep.
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uuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmm... Anne wasn't the one with the money..