If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money? (87)

Feb 19, 2009 1:01 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Mercedes1: Yeah Anna Nicole Smith did..Hey?


uuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmm... Anne wasn't the one with the money..confused
Feb 19, 2009 1:01 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
jaynimble: You just don't get it lady, i know all this, this whole forum was about me getting her without money, everything else but money, i don't buy people, i don't buy friends, i don't buy girlfriends, this whole forum was about her loving me for me about us


Sorry matey..I did get an A+ in english!
I wont reply no more as I was just posting as I read your posts!
Feb 19, 2009 1:02 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Exactly...its not...like you said there are far more things that make you richer than money...that money can never buy...


I have met two millonaires and one doctor.
This was in the time that people still placed ads.
Well I was curious why they would tell they had money.
The story is too long to tell you all but I did find out why this guys were single.
The doctor talked about himself and himself for about an hour.
I told him doctor; you make me sick and I told him why.

No NEVER tell if you are rich.
A bell hop in the UK fell in love with the elavator girl and she with him.
When they became engaged he told her that he was the son of a rich man in the US.
His dad owned restaurants. Send his son to the UK to learn the business from the ground up.
Feb 19, 2009 1:02 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Tater: uuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmm... Anne wasn't the one with the money..


Nah she wasnt but she was an example of this thread..Kinda!sigh
Feb 19, 2009 1:03 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Tater: Hun though that is true for about 20% of the population, 80% regaurdless what they say, will go for the money... think about all the people you know, most will allow money to overide their principles... it's sad but very very true...

How many millionaires have you seen or that you may know that have a woman or man beside them that is as ugly as they might be....I would say 80% of people would literally sell their soul. for money...
Nope not all of us, I never did, and that is the way I looked at it, it was selling my soul. professor That is all I am going to say , I don't want to go into the story on it. ok. I will just say my daughter and I lived on the $170 dollar child support check and we managed. But I never sold my soul for any thing extra that we needed , I just taught her my survival skills.professor
Feb 19, 2009 1:04 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
hollandgirl: I have met two millonaires and one doctor.
This was in the time that people still placed ads.
Well I was curious why they would tell they had money.
The story is too long to tell you all but I did find out why this guys were single.
The doctor talked about himself and himself for about an hour.
I told him doctor; you make me sick and I told him why.

No NEVER tell if you are rich.
A bell hop in the UK fell in love with the elavator girl and she with him.
When they became engaged he told her that he was the son of a rich man in the US.
His dad owned restaurants. Send his son to the UK to learn the business from the ground up.



Exactly...money can't buy you a heart and personality either or make you love someone the way another person deserves to be loved....hug kiss hug heart beating
Feb 19, 2009 1:07 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
i'm not saying she can't get by with out me, i'm just saying i can help someone and i would like to
Feb 19, 2009 1:07 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Mercedes1: Nah she wasnt but she was an example of this thread..Kinda!
confused I'm still confused... how?

and mylifewithu I did say 20% wouldn't go for just the money.. I wouldn't of put you in the other catagory...cheers
Feb 19, 2009 1:07 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
and also offer her my love
Feb 19, 2009 1:08 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Tater: I'm still confused... how?

and mylifewithu I did say 20% wouldn't go for just the money.. I wouldn't of put you in the other catagory...
hug hug handshake
Feb 19, 2009 1:09 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Tater: I'm still confused... how?

and mylifewithu I did say 20% wouldn't go for just the money.. I wouldn't of put you in the other catagory...



Anna Nicole Smith married some old guy for his money...is what she is trying to say...I think...wave wink roll eyes laugh
Feb 19, 2009 1:13 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Exactly...money can't buy you a heart and personality either or make you love someone the way another person deserves to be loved....


My dad taught his girls; Don't ever marry for money as you would then live in a golden cage but it still would be a cage.

Having never been any further away from home more then about 25 km.(about 18 miles or less?) I would think wow he could take me around the world!
Then I would think but what if I don't care about him?
No that price would be too high.

I don't hate money don't get me wrong I am not such a hypocrite, but as It says in my profile, if he ONLY has money, it would not be enough.
Feb 19, 2009 1:13 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Anna Nicole Smith married some old guy for his money...is what she is trying to say...I think...


Yep thats what I was trying to sayblushing
Feb 19, 2009 1:14 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
jaynimble: and also offer her my love
Offer your love before the money , don't jump too fast with the money.

Ask her later can I help you with the bills or go pay her rent one time anonmously. I had that happened once by a neighbor many years ago, that was pretty cool. Although I would have loved to pay him back with at least a real home cooked meal, but he was moving and I had no time by the time I found out about the rent that month. He was a real angel..wink wine purple heart
Feb 19, 2009 1:14 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
hollandgirl: My dad taught his girls; Don't ever marry for money as you would then live in a golden cage but it still would be a cage.

Having never been any further away from home more then about 25 km.(about 18 miles or less?) I would think wow he could take me around the world!
Then I would think but what if I don't care about him?
No that price would be too high.

I don't hate money don't get me wrong I am not such a hypocrite, but as It says in my profile, if he ONLY has money, it would not be enough.


well as i said before it wouldn't be about her marrying me for money, it would be about love
Feb 19, 2009 1:15 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
hollandgirl: My dad taught his girls; Don't ever marry for money as you would then live in a golden cage but it still would be a cage.

Having never been any further away from home more then about 25 km.(about 18 miles or less?) I would think wow he could take me around the world!
Then I would think but what if I don't care about him?
No that price would be too high.

I don't hate money don't get me wrong I am not such a hypocrite, but as It says in my profile, if he ONLY has money, it would not be enough.



I agree....that's why I have my own...not rich...but I support myself and my kids just fine...and will continue to be independent financially regardless of what relationship I ever get into...because that's me and who I am....wave wink hug kiss hug heart beating
Feb 19, 2009 1:15 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
mylifewithu: Offer your love before the money , don't jump too fast with the money.

Ask her later can I help you with the bills or go pay her rent one time anonmously. I had that happened once by a neighbor many years ago, that was pretty cool. Although I would have loved to pay him back with at least a real home cooked meal, but he was moving and I had no time by the time I found out about the rent that month. He was a real angel..


yeah i planned on helping her annymously helping her and then after we get married then tell her
Feb 19, 2009 1:18 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Okay I hear you.
The only way for you to find out if she loves you without any money, is to keep all talk about money to yourself.
You also can Not take her to your home.
Drive an expensive car etc.
It will not be an easy task for you. angel
Feb 19, 2009 1:19 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
thanks for all the wonderful advice wine
Feb 19, 2009 1:20 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
haha yeah thats true
Feb 19, 2009 1:22 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
jaynimble: thanks for all the wonderful advice



The only thing I don't get is...How did you meet her and when??? Since you just joined here or did you know she was here and this is the reason you're here...that's the part I am confused on????


I guess the rating the pics thread etc has me a bit confused....confused
Feb 19, 2009 1:24 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: The only thing I don't get is...How did you meet her and when??? Since you just joined here or did you know she was here and this is the reason you're here...that's the part I am confused on????I guess the rating the pics thread etc has me a bit confused....


I met her before i came to the site, i actually had my eyes set on her before she ever got pregnant, before i even knew she was, and she has so much more to offer than looks, she has a beautiful soul
Feb 19, 2009 1:25 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
jaynimble: I met her before i came to the site, i actually had my eyes set on her before she ever got pregnant, before i even knew she was, and she has so much more to offer than looks, she has a beautiful soul



Kewwwlllllll...well good luck to you....hug kiss hug heart beating
Feb 19, 2009 1:33 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
jaynimble: I met her before i came to the site, i actually had my eyes set on her before she ever got pregnant, before i even knew she was, and she has so much more to offer than looks, she has a beautiful soul


Is this girl in love with the babies father? I would think not eh? He let her down now that she is pregnant?
That is very sad and something that happens a lot.

She seemed not to have loved you earlier so do you think you now have a chance?
Is she now desparate?
Leave her alone and see how she she copes alone.
Make sure she does have you for a friend but nothing more for now.
Wait and see until after the baby is born, the father may come back into the picture then.
Would she want him back is the question.
The father should be made responsible for paying for the babies upkeep.
Feb 19, 2009 1:34 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
hollandgirl: Is this girl in love with the babies father? I would think not eh? He let her down now that she is pregnant?
That is very sad and something that happens a lot.

She seemed not to have loved you earlier so do you think you now have a chance?
Is she now desparate?
Leave her alone and see how she she copes alone.
Make sure she does have you for a friend but nothing more for now.
Wait and see until after the baby is born, the father may come back into the picture then.
Would she want him back is the question.
The father should be made responsible for paying for the babies upkeep.



Ahhhhhhhhh great advice....don't be a rebound....hug kiss hug heart beating thumbs up
Feb 19, 2009 1:35 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
the baby was born and he doens't even pay any child support, and rarley sees the baby
Feb 19, 2009 1:35 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Have them sign a water tight prenup.
Feb 19, 2009 1:37 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
jaynimble: the baby was born and he doens't even pay any child support, and rarley sees the baby



Then I think she and the baby are much better off with you.

The very best of luck to you all.
Feb 19, 2009 2:42 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Tater: but then you would be lying to her....

You do seem either very eager to tell her about your money, or eager to let people on here know that you might have "money"

But I don't know why? unless you are the "bragging type"?????



His profile lists his income at under $25,000 and he's 18. I think it's all BS. JMO
Feb 19, 2009 2:45 AM CST If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?
leslie8546
leslie8546leslie8546Northwich, Cheshire, England UK1 Threads 62 Posts
give all your money to me, hell, I'm a needy case and then you haven't got the problem............. wine
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