Miscarriages ( Archived) (28)

Jan 2, 2008 1:20 PM CSTMiscarriages
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California, USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts

Miscarriages(Vote Below)

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Never Had One but prayers go out to those who have
45
63%
Had One Before
16
23%
Had more than one
10
14%
Total Votes
71
I figured why not continue w/ the controversial subjects
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Jan 2, 2008 1:20 PM CST Miscarriages
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
I figured why not continue w/ the controversial subjects
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Jan 2, 2008 1:32 PM CST Miscarriages
mime61
mime61mime61Summerville, SC, South Carolina USA10 Threads 1 Polls 339 Posts
Awww...you are always the sweetiewave
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Jan 2, 2008 1:33 PM CST Miscarriages
firstllight
firstllightfirstllightStrasburg, Virginia USA6 Threads 1 Polls 815 Posts
What would be controversial about a miscarriage?

Oh never mind, public forum, someone can always find something.
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Jan 2, 2008 1:36 PM CST Miscarriages
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
Exactlyhug
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Jan 2, 2008 1:36 PM CST Miscarriages
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing yeah
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Jan 2, 2008 1:44 PM CST Miscarriages
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
I had one when i was 18, caused by severe scarring in the uterus, told i wouldn't be able to carry full term but almost 6 months and going strong. yay
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Jan 2, 2008 1:44 PM CST Miscarriages
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
it wasn't really a miscarriage. he was premature.i lost him in childbirth it happened in my 7th month. that was 42 yrs ago.
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Jan 2, 2008 1:46 PM CST Miscarriages
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Yikes!.. awwwww hug

It's never happened to me. (thankfully)
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Jan 2, 2008 1:49 PM CST Miscarriages
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
I sat with a close friend when she miscarried at easter. It will always stay with me.
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Jan 2, 2008 1:50 PM CST Miscarriages
EastbayRay
EastbayRayEastbayRayLimassol, Cyprus10 Threads 1 Polls 781 Posts
Contraceptive tablets: beware!
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Jan 2, 2008 1:50 PM CST Miscarriages
cathy61
cathy61cathy61Waterford, Ireland19 Threads 1,184 Posts
I lost my first son at 6months and 3weeks, 27 years ago, they said he wasn,t still born cos I wasn,t 8months, they said it was Gods way of being kind to me???????????????????????but I have 4 healthy young adults now and between them they have given me 6 beautiful grandchildrencheering cheering cheering
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Jan 2, 2008 1:52 PM CST Miscarriages
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
Its the worst, Mine happened while i was at Toys R Us doing the baby registry thing. All i remember is falling to the ground in pain and waking up in the hospital it was the beginning of a really dark time in my life.
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Jan 2, 2008 1:52 PM CST Miscarriages
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
blues uh oh

My friend's sister had to give birth TWICE... to full term still born babies.

I Just can't even IMAGINE. moping
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Jan 2, 2008 1:53 PM CST Miscarriages
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
comfort hug
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Jan 2, 2008 1:59 PM CST Miscarriages
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
Aww thats awfull love were you on your own

When it happen to my friend rang the midwife she wouldn't come out moreless said let nature take its course as it was an early pregnacy Had to sit with her not able to do anything
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Jan 2, 2008 2:00 PM CST Miscarriages
BamaBob
BamaBobBamaBobCullman, Alabama USA2 Threads 61 Posts
Yes... it is one of the things that seriously affected me emotionally in my 1st marriage. She and I had go through several extremely emotional and traumatic experiences in the two years we were married. For those reasons I never understood why she could leave me like she did. We lost our first child at the end of the first trimester. I had been up all night studying for final exam in a chemistry class. One of the most horrible and chilling experiences a young man could experience when he truly loves and cares about his wife. It was only 33 years ago and still hurts just remembering what she went through and how I felt so hopeless and powerless to do anything. We both blamed ourselves with it and had lots to work through. She definitely did not go through it alone although she probably felt that she did.
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Jan 2, 2008 2:04 PM CST Miscarriages
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
I don't know what your situation was but I couldn't be w/ my bf at the time and it was a shame because we were together for a couple years but it was too hard to still be w/ him after the miscarriag.e.
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Jan 2, 2008 2:04 PM CST Miscarriages
minimoo
minimoominimooDublin, Ireland123 Threads 1,537 Posts
Heya Lena Hun!!!!

Yeah I have had one as u know...not nice..but have my lovely little boy now! cheering
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Jan 2, 2008 2:05 PM CST Miscarriages
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
How's he doing.?
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Jan 2, 2008 2:05 PM CST Miscarriages
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Awwww comfort hug
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Jan 2, 2008 2:08 PM CST Miscarriages
minimoo
minimoominimooDublin, Ireland123 Threads 1,537 Posts
Hes great....mad as ever!!! Hows my little baba doing in there in ur Tum?? Was looking at really cute pink clothes yesterday!!!! Gonna have to get here kitted out Irish style!!
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Jan 2, 2008 2:11 PM CST Miscarriages
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
haha she's good i think shes practicing for soccer though.
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Jan 2, 2008 2:12 PM CST Miscarriages
minimoo
minimoominimooDublin, Ireland123 Threads 1,537 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing cool...will get her an Ireland jersey then!!! rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 2, 2008 2:42 PM CST Miscarriages
I miscarried twins, was my first pregnancy...no problems with any of the others.
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Jan 2, 2008 2:50 PM CST Miscarriages
Tiffanie
TiffanieTiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 Posts
My first two were fine. Third pregnancy lost one twin at around 2 months. The other twin was still born at 5 months and 3 weeks.
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Jan 2, 2008 3:22 PM CST Miscarriages
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
hug
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Jan 2, 2008 3:24 PM CST Miscarriages
firstllight
firstllightfirstllightStrasburg, Virginia USA6 Threads 1 Polls 815 Posts
So much heart ache in this thread.
I have never experienced any of this.
Thank you for reminding me how lucky I am.
God Bless.
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Jan 2, 2008 3:44 PM CST Miscarriages
Midship
MidshipMidshipLimerick, Ireland16 Threads 927 Posts
There is a lot of hurt involved in a Miscarriage. There is nothing to show for at the end of it. There is nothing to throw yourself into to try and deal with or forget. People around you don't know what to do and for the most part it is a taboo subject when asking how someone is.

This thread has brought up a lot for me. I've had 3 Miscarriages. One was a set of twins. I still remember all the birthdays that haven't been celebrated, still remember how dark and confusing it can be to have no rational thing to blame.

But I am a Mother to a wonderful little girl who is everything I could ever have hoped for and that makes me the happiest I could ever be.

God Bless to anyone reading this thread and feeling sad hug
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Created: Jan 2008
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