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i see no harm in wishing anyone a happy b'day
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Go ahead and with this person Happy Birthday
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kkitty2: I have somebody that I really care for and I can no longer have an intimate relationship with and I hurt this person.
It is going to be this persons b-day soon.
what I want to know is should I wish this person a happy b-day or not? I would love to remain friends with this person I just dont think the other person feels the same way
It is going to be this persons b-day soon.
what I want to know is should I wish this person a happy b-day or not? I would love to remain friends with this person I just dont think the other person feels the same way
Only you can really make that decision.
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Not if by any means u may b leading them to think there is more on the plate than a happy b-day.
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HDALE: Not if by any means u may b leading them to think there is more on the plate than a happy b-day.
that's what i was thinking. how are you planning to wish him a happy birthday? phone call, birthday card or jump out of a birthday cake?
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do u think he wud like one from u r will it hurt him
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i would prefer nothing at all especially if as you said you had hurt me. i'm sure you'll get people that say they wouldn't have a problem with it. so it's going to come down to your decision.
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scorpiosiren: do u think he wud like one from u r will it hurt him
good point
I am sure it would be a lot of both 
I think 
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well then do u still speak to each other if so yes
if not do u think he will want to be friends with you if ur still unsure about that why dont u pick up the fone if he answers to u send him one if he ignores r rejects ur call its a no
if not do u think he will want to be friends with you if ur still unsure about that why dont u pick up the fone if he answers to u send him one if he ignores r rejects ur call its a no
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I'd take either or both 
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scorpiosiren: well then do u still speak to each other if so yes
if not do u think he will want to be friends with you if ur still unsure about that why dont u pick up the fone if he answers to u send him one if he ignores r rejects ur call its a no
if not do u think he will want to be friends with you if ur still unsure about that why dont u pick up the fone if he answers to u send him one if he ignores r rejects ur call its a no
hmmmmm I cant for a number of reasons
I just hope that one day we can be the good friends that we were in the beginning of our relationship
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if the parting was friendly send it if not cut the ties and move on
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tell them the truth right away so you don't make the hurt worse
They will likely sense that something is wrong. If you have already decided to end it, then do it clearly.
They will likely sense that something is wrong. If you have already decided to end it, then do it clearly.
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avecaim: tell them the truth right away so you don't make the hurt worse
They will likely sense that something is wrong. If you have already decided to end it, then do it clearly.
They will likely sense that something is wrong. If you have already decided to end it, then do it clearly.
I did end it clearly.
I just want to keep the friendship that we had.
Might I add that this person has lots of women that he is friends with and I just thought that just because we are not together in that way we could be...... that sucks
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kkitty2: I did end it clearly.
I just want to keep the friendship that we had.
Might I add that this person has lots of women that he is friends with and I just thought that just because we are not together in that way we could be...... that sucks
I just want to keep the friendship that we had.
Might I add that this person has lots of women that he is friends with and I just thought that just because we are not together in that way we could be...... that sucks
im sorry kitty i jst cant understand this
u seem to know the answer urself
if he hasnt made any contact with u since ye split up he doesnt want any
hard as it seems i'd leave it
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scorpiosiren: im sorry kitty i jst cant understand this
u seem to know the answer urself
if he hasnt made any contact with u since ye split up he doesnt want any
hard as it seems i'd leave it
u seem to know the answer urself
if he hasnt made any contact with u since ye split up he doesnt want any
hard as it seems i'd leave it
hmmmmm its not like that right now he only wants me one way ..... and that is to be with me and I was hoping that ..... I guess your right I will leave it alone
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kkitty2: hmmmmm its not like that right now he only wants me one way ..... and that is to be with me and I was hoping that ..... I guess your right I will leave it alone
well sure isnt there b'day cards out there 4 Friends
get him one for a friend it will let him know u care but also where he stands
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You can mail him a birthday card. 
Just wishing him a happy birthday.
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65% say yes and the rest say no hmmmmmmmm
I only have 2 more days to decide
I only have 2 more days to decide
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It's his birthday. Are you doing it for him, or for you? Maybe this will help you answer your question.
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jono7: It's his birthday. Are you doing it for him, or for you? Maybe this will help you answer your question.
the question
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hmmmm nothing like making me feel a little selfish.
I want to do it because I hope he will know that I care even though we are not together anymore.
The only thing I gain from this is finding out that we will never have a friendly relationship with each other
I want to do it because I hope he will know that I care even though we are not together anymore.
The only thing I gain from this is finding out that we will never have a friendly relationship with each other
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Hmm.. My opinion is that if he made it clear that he doesn't want a friendship with you, then I'd say no. Done, over, no contact.
If he's open to a friendship and communication, then I'd say yes.
Not sending a birthday wish will most certainly end all communication and potential friendship. Just be sure that you really want to be a friend and not just a fair-weather acquaintance.
If he's open to a friendship and communication, then I'd say yes.
Not sending a birthday wish will most certainly end all communication and potential friendship. Just be sure that you really want to be a friend and not just a fair-weather acquaintance.
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I get it 
I am the kind of person that hates to leave things in a bad way. I have a hard time accepting that I cant make something good from something bad.
I think one thing that I am learning as I get older is to accept things as they are and, just because I feel like I can be his friend does not mean he feels the same way. Now if i could just figure out why life has to be so painful sometimes
thank you
I am the kind of person that hates to leave things in a bad way. I have a hard time accepting that I cant make something good from something bad.I think one thing that I am learning as I get older is to accept things as they are and, just because I feel like I can be his friend does not mean he feels the same way.
Now if i could just figure out why life has to be so painful sometimes thank you
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the question should be why not wish them a happy birthday,but you have already done so
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kkitty2: I have somebody that I really care for and I can no longer have an intimate relationship with and I hurt this person.
It is going to be this persons b-day soon.
what I want to know is should I wish this person a happy b-day or not? I would love to remain friends with this person I just dont think the other person feels the same way
It is going to be this persons b-day soon.
what I want to know is should I wish this person a happy b-day or not? I would love to remain friends with this person I just dont think the other person feels the same way
Yes wish him a happy birthday, nothing wrong with that. Let him know u want friendship.
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please help me decide(Vote Below)
It is going to be this persons b-day soon.
what I want to know is should I wish this person a happy b-day or not? I would love to remain friends with this person I just dont think the other person feels the same way